It's the last episode of Season 1, but we'll be back! This month we talk about Joy - what makes us joyful as men and as humans. Degan shares a sneak peek of a memoir he is working on, and Chris shares what he considers to be his best Dad joke yet!

What brings you joy? We often hear so much about men and toxic masculinity, but tell us about the joy of being a man or knowing a man!

You can buy Degan's book of poetry at Brick Books.

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Hosts Chris Garbutt and Degan Davis discuss the tropes of action movies where male heroes transform shame into heroism, referencing classics like 'Rambo.' They relate this to real-life bullying and chronic shame, drawing distinctions between guilt and shame. The episode touches on the impact of bullying, the importance of friendships, and how male dynamics can either contribute to or heal shame. The hosts also explore broader societal influences and the importance of supportive male relationships. They end by hinting at an upcoming discussion on joy in masculinity for their next episode.

You can buy Degan's book at Brick Books. Also, we desperately need a computer that does grind everytime we edit our podcasts! If you would like to support our mission to use something more modern than teletype and tin cans, please buy us a coffee so we can throw our latte-sipping budget at new technology!

Let us know what you think! Contact Degan or Chris directly. We'd love to hear your thoughts and ideas for future episodes.

Hello to our audience! In the immortal words of the great but fictional psychiatrist Frasier Crane, we're listening. In this episode of 'What Kind of Man Are You,' hosts Chris Garbutt and Degan Davis respond listener feedback and comments on previous episodes. The hosts explore examples of famous male friendships, both in music and popular culture, and reflect on their own experiences. The conversation touches on societal expectations of men, the concept of stoicism, and the importance of emotional support among male friends. They also discuss the potential directions for future episodes, including more guest interviews and broader exploration of masculinity across cultures.

You can buy Degan's book at Brick Books. Also, we desperately need a computer that does grind everytime we edit our podcasts! If you would like to support our mission to use something more modern than teletype and tin cans, please buy us a coffee so we can throw our latte-sipping budget at new technology!

Let us know what you think! Contact Degan or Chris directly. We'd love to hear your thoughts and ideas for future episodes.

This episode delves into the complexities of masculinity through a detailed discussion of Degan Davis's poem 'Facebook Open Group for Men,' touching on themes such as masculinity, gender roles, and societal expectations. Degan Davis and Chris Garbutt reflect on personal experiences, societal influences, and cultural symbols like Jordan Peterson and drag performances. The conversation expands to include the nuanced expressions of gender seen in communities today, such as fluidity and the impact of traditional gender constructs. The episode concludes with a discussion on the beauty and strength of being a man, encapsulated in poignant examples from literature and the arts.

You can buy Degan's book at Brick Books. Also, we desperately need a computer that does grind everytime we edit our podcasts! If you would like to support our mission to use something more modern than teletype and tin cans, please buy us a coffee so we can throw our latte-sipping budget at new technology!

Let us know what you think! Contact Degan or Chris directly. We'd love to hear your thoughts and ideas for future episodes.

In this episode, Chris Garbutt and Degan Davis delve into the complexities of love and masculinity touching on the dynamics of long-term relationships, the balance between individual needs and partnership, and the roles of masculine and feminine energies. They discuss practical challenges in modern dating and the societal pressures surrounding gender roles. Offering personal anecdotes and professional insights, they provide a nuanced look at how men can navigate love and relationships in a way that fosters emotional well-being and mutual respect.

You can buy Degan's book at Brick Books. Also, we desperately need a computer that does grind everytime we edit our podcasts! If you would like to support our mission to use something more modern than teletype and tin cans, please buy us a coffee so we can throw our latte-sipping budget at new technology!

Let us know what you think! Contact Degan or Chris directly. We'd love to hear your thoughts and ideas for future episodes.

Chris and Degan begin with a the poem 'Confession,' which reflects themes of unconditional acceptance and self-worth. The discussion broadens to various forms of love, emphasizing self-awareness and emotional clarity. Degan introduces the concept of men 'flying blind' due to their often unrecognized inner sensations and emotions, and the importance of emotional intelligence in partnerships. The hosts explore societal expectations, referencing figures like Esther Perel and Jordan Peterson to discuss roles in relationships and the dynamics of attraction. Practical exercises for enhancing communication in partnerships are shared, highlighting the significance of making explicit demands and maintaining individual identities within relationships. This comprehensive episode interweaves reflective questions, personal anecdotes, and actionable advice.

You can buy Degan's book at Brick Books. Also, we desperately need a computer that does grind everytime we edit our podcasts! If you would like to support our mission to use something more modern than teletype and tin cans, please buy us a coffee so we can throw our latte-sipping budget at new technology!

Let us know what you think! Contact Degan or Chris directly. We'd love to hear your thoughts and ideas for future episodes.

In this episode, Chris and Degan explore the complexities of male friendship and vulnerability. They discuss societal expectations and cultural depictions of male friendships, delve into personal anecdotes about their own friendship, and consider how terms like 'bromance' limit men from exploring deeper connections. The conversation also touches on mentorship, with insights from music and literature, and the importance of emotional expression among men. The episode concludes with a reflection on the forms of love and friendship between men, emphasizing the value of genuine connections even in the absence of explicit declarations.

You can buy Degan's book at Brick Books. Also, we desperately need a computer that does grind everytime we edit our podcasts! If you would like to support our mission to use something more modern than teletype and tin cans, please buy us a coffee so we can throw our latte-sipping budget at new technology!

Let us know what you think! Contact Degan or Chris directly. We'd love to hear your thoughts and ideas for future episodes.

In our second episode, Chris and Degan talk about their experiences of sports from playing baseball and soccer in childhood to the meaning of fandom as an adult. What is it about sports that define how we become men? What is it that makes it matter so much?

Degan talks about whether they are feminists, and we find out what books are meaningful to Chris as a man.

And listen for our new segment, Dad Joke of the Week!

You can buy Degan's book at Brick Books. Also, we desperately need a computer that does grind everytime we edit our podcasts! If you would like to support our mission to use something more modern than teletype and tin cans, please buy us a coffee so we can throw our latte-sipping budget at new technology!

Let us know what you think! Contact Degan or Chris directly. We'd love to hear your thoughts and ideas for future episodes.