With all the new focus on the NAR settlement I think a lot of agents are forgetting what to say on a first showing. In this episode I make it clear the things you need to start saying to create lasting relationships. Rushing right into the professional hat versus the trusted advisor and mentor spot could get you in trouble.

While out your first showing it is important to get to know the person. Using F.O.R.D (Family, Occupation, Recreation, and Dreams) is a good way to learn about someone and build a relationship. These things are great for opening people up. Remember while it is the rules that we get the contract signed no one has told us how to get there. Building relationships gets the contract signed.

When meeting new people it is important to remember that the goal and the way the process will work is set by the client. Learn to rise to their expectations and follow their boundaries. Many agents confuse who is buying the house. They give their own opinions. They change the clients thoughts. They do not ask and then let the client decide their own needs.

Acting normal may seem like a clear solution to meeting with new people but for some people it is not. Strangely enough people tend to change who they normally are when meeting new people which can give off an uneasy vibe. By acting as a friend and normal the client will be more open to helping you understand their goals.

With all this new contract stuff let's stay focused. The name of the game is to become known, liked, and trusted. With the NAR settlement it now made us need to accomplish this faster than ever. Follow these guidelines to get there.