In this episode, Jacqueline sits down with Dr. Joanna Parga-Belinkie, a neonatologist and AAP spokesperson, to explore what truly builds a strong foundation between parents and their newborns. From NICU realities to bonding after surrogacy, this episode is a science-meets-heart deep dive into connection, communication, and ditching the pressure to “do it all.”

What you’ll learn:

• Why bonding isn’t about perfection—it’s about presence
• How early relational health impacts brain development
• The science behind skin-to-skin contact and kangaroo care
• What to know about birth plans, baby gear, and bonding expectations
• How babies communicate through crying and cooing
• The truth about sleep training, co-sleeping, and newborn needs
• Why it’s okay if love doesn’t happen “at first sight”
• How your baby benefits from your support system
• Misconceptions about newborn needs and bonding “rules”
• Why “you are enough” matters more than anything else

Questions answered in this episode:

• What happens in the brain when a baby bonds with a caregiver?
• Is it possible to bond deeply if you didn’t carry your baby?
• Does skin-to-skin actually do anything physiologically?
• What should you do if bonding doesn’t happen right away?
• Are birth plans helpful—or harmful?
• Is it okay if I’m not a “baby-wearing mom”?
• Can babies really communicate through different cries?
• What’s the science behind co-sleeping or sleep training?
• How can parents build trust and resilience in their baby?
• What do newborns really need most from us?

Connect with Dr. Joanna Parga-Belinkie:

• Instagram: @jopargalinkiemd
• Book: The Baby Bonding Book: Connecting with Your Newborn
• AAP Parent Resource: HealthyChildren.org

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