You know that feeling when everything looks good on paper — the vibe, the values, even the banter — but something just isn’t clicking? In this episode, we explore the invisible roadblocks that show up in dating: emotional unavailability, timing mismatches, or that subtle disconnect you can’t quite name.

We talk about the difference between compatibility and connection, why chemistry can’t be forced, and how to recognize when you’re both simply on different paths — and that’s okay.

Because sometimes what feels like a roadblock is really a redirection — one that clears the way for something more aligned.

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In this week’s episode of You Seem Great, Becca and Talia are joined by Lisa Elson to dive into the positive signs in relationships — the green flags that show when things are really going well. Together, they explore how to recognize behaviors and patterns that signal a healthy, thriving partnership, why focusing on green flags can help you build trust and joy, and how tuning into these can change your dating game for the better. Whether you’re starting a new relationship or deepening an existing one, these insights and tips are not to be missed!

Key Takeaways:

• Spotting the Green Flags: Learn about the subtle but powerful signs that your relationship has a strong foundation worth nurturing.

• Building Trust and Connection: Discover why paying attention to green flags helps create resilience and emotional safety with your partner.

• Practical Tips for Dating and Relationships: Get expert advice on how to celebrate what’s working and grow together with intention.

• A Positive Mindset Shift: Understand how focusing on green flags can boost your confidence and improve your overall relationship experience.

Join Becca, Talia, and Lisa for an uplifting and insightful conversation that celebrates the good stuff in love and dating.

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Welcome back to You Seem Great! This week, we’re diving into the universal truths of dating — the patterns and lessons that hold up no matter who you are, how old you are, or how many dating apps you’ve deleted and re-downloaded. In this episode, we reflect on why your person might show up in a different package than you expected, how timelines quietly make or break connections, and why playfulness and travel styles matter more than you think.

We also get honest about the myths we used to believe, what dating industry experience has taught us, and why the longer you stay single, the easier it can be to stay single. If you’ve ever questioned if you’re doing it wrong — you’re not. You’re just learning what’s always been true.

Expect more behind-the-scenes matchmaking insight, stories we probably shouldn’t tell, and dating advice that won’t expire.

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Welcome back to You Seem Great! We're kicking off Season 2 with a fresh focus and a deeper look at what matchmaking really means — not just finding the “right” person, but figuring out what right feels like for you.

Expect more honest conversations, more nuance, and a matchmaking lens that goes beyond checklists. Because maybe you're not doing it wrong — maybe you're just doing it differently now.

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In this week’s episode of You Seem Great, we’re diving into cuffing season and how to make the most of this cozy time of year! We’ll share why this season offers so much for singles as the colder months approach and how to embrace this time of year with intention. Plus, we share a podcast update as we take a brief pause after season 1 and give you all the details on how to catch us on Instagram Live during the break. And don’t worry—season 2 is on the way! Stay tuned!

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In this week’s episode of You Seem Great, we’re diving into the post-breakup dating world! Whether you’re feeling unsure about getting back out there or simply looking for guidance, we’ve got you covered. We’ll discuss how to heal from a breakup, rebuild your confidence, and approach dating with a fresh mindset. From having conversations about your past relationship to handling those first few post-breakup dates, this episode offers practical advice to help you move forward and find meaningful connections.

Key Takeaways:

• Healing and Growth: Learn how to take the time to reflect and grow after a breakup, setting a solid foundation for future relationships.
• Confidence Reboot: Discover tips for rebuilding your confidence and feeling empowered as you re-enter the dating scene.
• Navigating First Dates: Get expert advice on how to approach those early dates after a breakup and how to talk about your past with honesty and grace.

Join us for an insightful conversation on healing, self-discovery, and finding new connections after a breakup. Don’t miss it!

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In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we're diving into the art of flirting! Whether flirting feels like a challenge or you're just looking for fresh ideas, we've got you covered. We'll break down everything you need to know, from mastering the slow burn flirt to acing a first date flirt, and even perfecting that quick, one-time meet flirt to ignite a romantic spark. No matter the situation, these practical tips will help you elevate your flirting game and feel confident in any scenario. Don’t miss this episode—it’s all about building chemistry and connection!

Key Takeaways:

• Mastering the Slow Burn Flirt: Learn how to build interest and intrigue gradually, creating lasting chemistry over time.
• Acing the First Date Flirt: Get tips on how to flirt effectively on your first date to set the stage for deeper connection.
• Perfecting the Quick Flirt: Find out how to make a memorable impact with a short, effective flirt in spontaneous encounters.

Join us for a fun and insightful conversation on how to boost your flirting skills and create meaningful connections with confidence!

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In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we sit down with Jeremy and Ilana Hamburgh, a dynamic duo specializing in coaching autistic and neurodivergent individuals on dating. Together, we explore practical strategies to help neurodivergent daters navigate the complexities of relationships and find meaningful connections. This empowering conversation sheds light on the unique strengths that neurodivergent individuals bring to the dating world and how they can embrace those qualities to their advantage.

Key Takeaways:

• Building Confidence in Dating: Learn how to cultivate self-assurance and approach dating with confidence, regardless of neurodivergent challenges.
• Effective Communication Strategies: Discover tips for improving communication in dating, including handling social cues and expressing your needs clearly.
• Embracing Neurodivergent Strengths: Explore how neurodivergent individuals can leverage their unique perspectives and qualities to form deep, fulfilling relationships.

Join us for an insightful conversation on how neurodivergent daters can thrive in the dating world with authenticity and confidence!

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