How can parents overcome their fears and worries so they can say YES to their boys’ interests and passions?

That’s the question we discuss with Heather Sponholz, a “boy mom” who’s said yes to her teenage sons’ solo National Parks trips, MMA fighting, and ambitious Christmas lights project.

Takeaways:

• Navigating the balance between freedom and safety for teenagers can be challenging for parents.
• Allowing teenagers to take solo trips can help them develop independence and learn important life skills.
• Trusting in your child’s ability to navigate challenges and make responsible decisions is essential.
• Supporting teenagers in pursuing their passions and interests can have a positive impact on their personal growth. Supporting and nurturing boys’ passions and interests is important for their personal growth and development.
• Parents should overcome their fears and worries and allow their children to pursue activities that they are passionate about.
• Community support and mentorship can play a crucial role in helping boys pursue their interests.
• Parents should prioritize their children’s passions and provide them with the necessary resources and opportunities to explore and excel in their chosen fields.
• Allowing boys to face challenges and learn from their experiences helps them develop problem-solving skills and resilience.

Links we mentioned (or should have) in this episode:

Encouraging Independence — ON BOYS episode

Autonomy-Supportive Parenting — ON BOYS episode

Step In or Step Back? — ON BOYS episode

Age 16 & Learning to Let Go — BuildingBoys post

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