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Changing the Game: Why Old Parenting Strategies Aren’t Working with Today’s Teens
- 2024/10/30
- 再生時間： 42 分
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In this powerful episode of Grow Like a Mother, we’re diving into the world of parenting teens in the modern era - where old tactics no longer seem to work, and family relationships can sometimes feel more like battlegrounds than safe havens. I get to sit down with Aly, a Certified Life Coach and Certified Relationship Systems Coach, to uncover why traditional parenting methods often fall short and how we can embrace new approaches to better support our teens. Together, we explore strategies to foster teen autonomy, reduce household tension, and build trust without falling into endless cycles of conflict and frustration. **Time Stamps** Emotional Capacity vs. Reasoning (00:02:14) Teens experience heightened emotions but lack the cognitive tools to process them effectively. Similarities Between Teen and Toddler Brains (00:05:24) Alyson compares the emotional sensitivity of teens to that of toddlers, emphasizing the need for regulation. Offering Choices for Autonomy (00:09:54) Parents should provide choices and boundaries, allowing teens to exercise autonomy while respecting their own time. Understanding Teen Executive Function (00:14:00) Explains the limitations of teenagers' executive function and the importance of allowing them to learn from experiences. Navigating Teen Anger (00:19:27) Highlights that teens are often defensive and reactive, emphasizing the need for understanding their emotions. Responding to Disrespect (00:20:23) Explains how to handle disrespectful communication from teens while maintaining respect and dignity.Consequences vs. Coercion (00:24:07) Introduces the idea that taking away privileges is coercive and not an effective way to correct behavior. Connecting Before Correcting (00:27:53) Emphasizes the importance of emotional connection before addressing behavioral issues with teens. Navigating Technology Use (00:30:09) Discusses the unique challenges of parenting in a digital age and the importance of moderation with technology. Empowering Parents (00:35:26) Encouragement for parents to recognize they aren't to blame for their challenges and to believe in their parenting abilities. **About Our Guest** Aly is a seasoned expert who understands the struggles of parenting teens from both personal and professional experience. Growing up, she was the “smart, fun girl” on the outside but often felt like a frantic, anxious mess on the inside. Her personal journey involved overcoming family dysfunction, battling an eating disorder, surviving a suicide attempt, and receiving an ADHD diagnosis. Since becoming a Certified Life Coach and Certified Relationship Systems Coach in 2006, she has dedicated herself to empowering parents and teachers worldwide to rebuild trust and connection with their teens. **Connect with Aly** Website: https://alypain.com Instagram: @alypain Facebook: @AlyPainParentingExpert **Tune in to Learn How To** Embrace new strategies that empower your teen while keeping a positive influence.Foster a supportive and conflict-free environment at home.Implement practical methods to address challenging teen behaviors without constant frustration. ***** Want More Jill? Discover Your SuperMom Type: Take the Quiz Join The Village: Connect with like-minded mompreneurs and access exclusive resources to help you build your business. Join Now Get Your Author-Signed Copy: Order your signed copy of "Happy Healthy Wealthy and Wise" today! Order Here **Keywords** Time Management, Self-Care, Super Mom, Work Life Balance, Mindset, Grow Like a Mother, Motherhood, Mompreneur, Teen autonomy, Teen attitude support, Parenting teens, Reduce conflict with teens, Stress-free parenting, Empowering teenagers, Conflict resolution with teens, Parent-teen communication, Positive parenting strategies, Lowering family tension