Is your sex life feeling a little… dry? You’re not alone—and it’s time to change that. In this candid and unapologetically real episode, intimacy coach Aimee sits down with Orla Maguire, founder of Lubify, to talk about why personal lubricant is a game-changer for everyone.

From increasing pleasure and reducing discomfort to enhancing intimacy and self-connection, we cover it all: how to choose the right lube for sex, why lube isn’t just for “older people” or “issues,” and how adding a little (or a lot) of slip can completely transform your solo or partnered play.

Expect myth-busting, shame-shedding, and plenty of juicy conversation about drips, squirts, and everything in between.If you’ve ever thought lube was optional, think again.

Let’s make it wetter, better, and way more fun.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Orla McGuire and Lubify

02:26 From Mascara Mogul to Lube Luminary

04:24 The Philosophy Behind Lubify

06:40 Understanding Different Types of Lubes

09:05 The Importance of Scent in Lubes

11:16 Choosing the Right Lube for You

13:24 The Role of Lube in Sexual Health

15:20 Demystifying Lube and Pleasure

17:00 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Pleasure

19:39 Communication and Intimacy

21:49 Future of Lubify and Upcoming Products

30:47 Exploring Pleasure and Intimacy

32:36 The Role of Lubrication in Self-Pleasure

33:03 Coming to Completion

35:16 Redefining Pleasure Beyond Sexuality

36:24 Communication and Overcoming Shame

38:42 The Importance of Conversations

39:40 Come Again, Come Again, and Come Again

Connect with Orla and Lubify

https://ilubify.com

https://www.instagram.com/lubify

https://www.tiktok.com/@ilubify

Connect with Come Talk with Aimee

https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com

https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee

https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee

https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

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What does it mean to make an impact - on bodies systems, and culture?

In this episode, Aimee is joined by the brilliant and bold Steph Zapata, a sexual health educator, anti-colonial organizer, and the visionary behind SLAM, a groundbreaking conference centering sex, liberation, and movement work.

We dive into the layered world of impact play - from the physical sensations to the emotional and political power of consensual exchange. Steph shared how her work in sexuality and social justice intertwines, how pleasure can be radical, and why healing doesn't have to be soft to be sacred.

Whether you're in to the sting of the paddle or the spark of revolution - this conversation will leave a mark.

A must-listen for kink lovers, educators, and change makers. From sensation to systems change, this episode hits hard - in the best way.

Episode Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Transformative Sex Education
03:06 Radically Intentional Sexuality Education
05:13 The Journey into Sexuality Education
07:27 Exploring Kink and Dom/Sub Dynamics
09:46 Reframing Shame and Embracing Play
12:19 Understanding Impact Play
14:34 Communication and Consent in Impact Play
16:58 Instruments of Impact Play
19:24 Safety and Considerations in Impact Play
21:41 Choosing Kink Partners
24:44 Exploring Play Parties and Safety
25:52 The Birth of SLAM: A New Movement
28:04 Anti-colonial Sex Education
31:38 Reimagining Pleasure and Sexual Liberation
34:20 The Upcoming SLAM Conference
38:23 Coming to Completion
43:48 Closing Thoughts on Pleasure and Communication
46:13 Come Again, and Again, and Again

Connect with Steph

https://www.instagram.com/risewsteph

https://www.stephaniespeakshere.com/

https://www.tiktok.com/discover/rise-w-steph

Explore the SLAM Conference

https://www.stephaniespeakshere.com/theslamcon

https://www.stephaniespeakshere.com/event-details/s-l-a-m-presents-sex-ed-vs-project-2025

Grab Tickets toThe Pleasure Lab: Where Women Explore and Elevate Desire (May 17th, NYC)

https://posh.vip/e/the-pleasure-lab

Connect with Come Talk with Aimee

https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee/

https://www.youtube.com/@ComeTalkwithAimee

https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee

Sexual shame loves to lurk in the dark - but we're turning on the lights. In this honest and heart-opening conversation, I'm joined by the brilliant Rebecca Giguere to talk about why shame around sex runs so deep, how it shapes our lives, and what it really takes to break free. Expect real talk, a few laughs, and a whole lot of empowerment as we tackle the myths and messages that no longer serve us. It's time to rewrite the story -and it starts here.

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Connect with Rebecca 💗

https://www.instagram.com/unscripted.intimacy

Connect with Come Talk with Aimee 💋

https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee

https://youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

Find the Yes, No, Maybe list here: 🫦

https://sexwithemily.com/yes-no-maybe-the-list-every-relationship-needs