Welcome to the Don't Pick the Scab Podcast! 🎙️ I'm your host, David, and today we have an enlightening conversation with Ives T. Mukanya, a remarkable mental health counselor and transformational coach. Originally from the Democratic Republic of Congo, Ive brings a wealth of experience from the pharmaceutical industry and a deep commitment to helping men navigate the emotional challenges that often accompany divorce.

In this episode, we delve into the often-overlooked struggles that men face after divorce, including stress, depression, and low self-esteem. 💔 Many men suffer in silence, internalizing their pain instead of seeking the support they need. But it doesn’t have to be this way! Join us as we explore practical strategies for healing, embracing self-discovery, and reclaiming your identity after a life-altering event.

Ive shares his personal journey and insights on the importance of forgiveness, self-care, and building a supportive community. He emphasizes that seeking help is not a sign of weakness but a courageous step towards recovery. We discuss how men can break free from the stigma of suffering in silence and learn to express their emotions in healthy ways.

Throughout our conversation, we touch on the significance of reconnecting with one’s passions and interests, which can often be lost during marriage. 🌟 Whether it’s picking up a new hobby, engaging in physical fitness, or simply rediscovering what brings joy, these steps are crucial for rebuilding self-esteem and identity.

Ive also addresses the critical role of forgiveness—not just for others, but for oneself. He explains how letting go of past grievances can liberate you from emotional burdens and allow you to move forward with a renewed sense of purpose.

As we navigate the complexities of co-parenting, we discuss how to maintain a healthy relationship with your ex-partner, even when tensions run high. Communication strategies and emotional regulation are key themes, as we explore how to prioritize your well-being while being the best father you can be.

👉 Call to Action: If you found this episode helpful, please leave a comment below! Share your thoughts or experiences, and let’s support each other on this journey of recovery. Don’t forget to like and subscribe for more empowering content!

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💬 Welcome to the "Don't Pick the Scab" Podcast, where host David helps men over 40 heal, thrive, and conquer life after divorce! In this episode, we're joined by financial expert Steve Schleupner, a seasoned planner with over 20 years of experience specializing in divorce transitions. 💼

Steve dives deep into the unique challenges men face when managing their finances post-divorce, from housing transitions to understanding retirement accounts and tax implications. He shares actionable advice to help you navigate the storm and rebuild your wealth with clarity and confidence. 🌟

💡 Topics we cover in this episode:

• The #1 financial mistake men make during divorce (and how to avoid it) 🚨

• How to master housing transitions in today’s high-interest market 🏡

• Understanding the hidden costs of dividing assets 💵

• Why legacy planning is crucial for your post-divorce peace of mind 📜

• Developing a positive financial mindset after divorce 💪

🔥 Steve also shares his personal story of overcoming financial fears after his own divorce and how he uses his expertise to empower other men to regain control of their lives. Whether you're dealing with alimony, child support, or simply figuring out how to start over, this episode is packed with insights you don’t want to miss.

👂 Tune in now to transform your financial future after divorce!

💬 Got questions about finances or divorce recovery? Share your thoughts in the comments below—we’d love to hear your story and tips for others! 👇

👉 Find Steve Schleupner:

Website: www.youtreecoaching.com

Podcast: A Man's Journey Through Divorce

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In this heartfelt episode of the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast," David interviews Shawn Richardson, a fitness trainer, audiobook narrator, and former Ninja Warrior finalist, about his journey through resilience, healing, and self-improvement. The podcast starts with a different flavor - the importance of flossing your teeth. Really? But eventually, Shawn shares his experiences with overcoming the challenges of divorce, including coping with depression, rebuilding his life after a house fire, and navigating the complexities of fatherhood. He emphasizes the importance of discipline, humor, and faith while discussing his fitness philosophy, therapeutic endeavors, and the role forgiveness plays in personal growth. Shawn also opens up about mental health, the power of community, and how small, consistent efforts can lead to significant transformations. This episode is an inspiring conversation full of vulnerability, hope, and actionable insights for anyone striving to overcome life's obstacles.

Top 10 Topics Mentioned by Shawn:

1. The importance of consistency and discipline in fitness and life.

2. Coping with divorce and the emotional toll of separation.

3. The role of community and church in personal healing.

4. The impact of therapy, including accelerated resolution therapy and neuroplasticity training.

5. Overcoming self-doubt and negative self-talk.

6. The value of small wins and gradual progress in personal growth.

7. The trauma of rebuilding after a house fire.

8. Struggling with suicidal ideation and prioritizing mental health.

9. Fatherhood and maintaining a strong relationship with his children.

10. Forgiveness and self-reflection as key components of healing.

Shawn's Contact Info:

-The BAMF Hammer

-Instagram

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