Are you over 40 and training Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu?

Thinking of starting BJJ later in life or wondering if you’re too old to roll?

In this inspiring and honest conversation, we speak with a BJJ black belt who began his journey after already earning a black belt in Hapkido and got completely humbled by a 16-year-old on the mats.

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🥋 Topics Covered:

How long it really takes to get a BJJ black belt (especially when starting after 40)

Is it easier to get promoted today vs the early 2000s?

The emotional and ego challenges of starting over as a white belt

What it's like being a beginner again in your 40s

Why so many older men feel lost during their BJJ journey—and how to push through it

Training BJJ as a military veteran and moving between schools with no black belts

💭 Whether you’re a brown belt wondering if you’re ready, or just a 45-year-old white belt getting smashed weekly, this video speaks directly to older BJJ students who refuse to quit.

Dad's Mental Health Podcast

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Hello, I'm James & not long ago, I was a very anxious and somewhat overwhelmed husband & dad.

After about a decade of setbacks & enough coffee to sink a ship, I’m a much happier dad.

As previously mentioned, I want to try & help other dads be the best they can without losing their mental health.

Mental health battles are something I am all too familiar with.

In 2010, my GP suggested I do a 12-week CBT course with the NHS. During this course, I was diagnosed as having Pure OCD, which explained a lot.

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Are you showing up in your marriage the way you did when you were dating or have you both slowly shifted into the roommate zone?

Many couples struggle with emotional distance, dwindling intimacy, or feeling unappreciated not because they’ve fallen out of love, but because they’ve stopped intentionally pursuing each other.

This episode unpacks a powerful framework to reignite connection, deepen trust, and bring back the fun, without waiting for "the mood" to strike.

In this episode, you will:

1) Discover why serving your partner without prerequisites can transform emotional and physical intimacy.

2) Learn how to redefine and measure success in your relationship using five simple, actionable routines.

3) Understand how mutual pursuit—planned with intention—can revive joy, connection, and lasting friendship in your marriage.

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Dad's Mental Health Podcast

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📩 Want to share your story or join James on a future episode?

Email: mydadmissions@gmail.com

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First Time Dad

ABOUT THE HOST

Hello, I'm James & not long ago, I was a very anxious and somewhat overwhelmed husband & dad.

After about a decade of setbacks & enough coffee to sink a ship, I’m a much happier dad.

As previously mentioned, I want to try & help other dads be the best they can without losing their mental health.

Mental health battles are something I am all too familiar with.

In 2010, my GP suggested I do a 12-week CBT course with the NHS. During this course, I was diagnosed as having Pure OCD, which explained a lot.

To Buy My Audiobook, First Time Dad, Click this link

USEFUL RESOURCES

For your free digital copy of my book One Dad & His Dog

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If you're a content creator looking to try some state of the art production & editing software you really need to check out Descript.

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It's AI clever ness makes everything so much quicker which leaves me more time to make up some genuinely terrible Ukulele songs.

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Dear "dad mate"

I've just started listening to a podcast on apple podcasts for dads, which I think you might like.

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In this heartfelt episode, James shares some personal news with the Dad’s Mental Health community.

After recently losing his job, James is facing tough financial times and, as a result, is unable to continue hosting the podcast—at least for now.

He reflects on the journey so far, thanks the guests and listeners who’ve supported the show, and expresses deep gratitude for everyone who’s been part of it.

Though the podcast will pause after May 2025, James remains committed to supporting dads and promoting mental health conversations.

🎥 Stay Connected:

James will continue creating free content on YouTube, including discussions around mental health and his journey with jiu-jitsu.

🔗 Dad Mind Matters on YouTube

🙏 Thank you for being part of the journey. Take care, and wherever you are—James hopes you're doing okay.