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In this heartfelt and revealing episode of Dating With Borders, Teresa and Joe dive right into the juicy details of their early dating days, tackling the tender question: How many people were on their respective "rosters" when they first met? They explore when and why they decided to focus exclusively on one another. Joe firmly believes it’s not about how long you’ve been dating, but that “when you know, you know.”

Together, they reflect on how their long-distance connection allowed their relationship to blossom uniquely. With phone calls as their mainstay in the beginning, they built a strong emotional foundation that might not have been possible if they had the ease of seeing each other regularly. They even reminisce about their very first phone call—the feelings it sparked and Teresa’s surprising realization that Joe was American, not Canadian.

The couple shares invaluable advice for those in the early stages of a relationship: when something is misunderstood or feels off in a conversation, don’t let it linger. Address it immediately to keep the connection strong and open. Teresa offers a thoughtful analogy from her time as a single woman working to understand the dating world and her own desires.

In a lighthearted yet tender moment, Teresa recalls her early feelings about their relationship, and Joe likens it to her nonverbal way of giving him the green light to ask for a second date.

This episode is full of warmth, wisdom, and plenty of laughs, making it a must-listen for anyone navigating a budding romance, long-distance love, or simply curious about how to build a strong foundation with a partner.

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In this episode of Dating with Borders, Teresa and Joe take a trip down memory lane to when they first started exploring the world of dating apps. They laugh about how overwhelming it can be to navigate the endless "selection" of potential matches and dive into what actually makes them swipe "yes" on someone. With humor and honesty, they talk about what they were looking for on the dating scene this time around, including a refreshing focus on fun and playfulness.

As the conversation flows, they touch on the sting of rejection and how they each handled it after those initial first dates. Joe brings a dose of curiosity (and humor) when he asks Teresa about her worst date ever, and she doesn't hold back on the details. The two also discuss their "vetting" processes for online dating, sharing some of the strategies they've developed to find genuine connections and avoid disappointments, including the pitfalls of catfishing.

Then, they tackle the hot topic of who should pay for the first date—a conversation that brings out different perspectives but plenty of laughs. Teresa takes this as an opportunity to ask Joe directly about his first impressions of her, especially whether she looked like her profile photos in real life.

The discussion turns to how they each size up a first date, paying close attention to how the other person interacts with waitstaff as a measure of kindness and character. Joe recounts a memorable story of a time he walked out on a date due to their treatment of the staff, underlining his commitment to finding someone who values respect and decency.

Finally, Joe shares his non-negotiables, revealing what he considers essential in a partner. Throughout the episode, Teresa and Joe’s candid and witty insights provide an honest look at modern dating and what truly matters to each of them as they continue to navigate love across borders.

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Welcome to the debut episode of Dating With Borders, featuring Theresa and Joe, a couple navigating the complexities of long-distance love. In this episode, the pair introduce themselves, sharing the unique story of how they met and what inspired them to start this podcast. Theresa reveals that she had almost given up on dating apps altogether when she met Joe on Hinge, just as she was about to delete the app for good. Their meeting feels like fate and fuels the optimism they hope to inspire in listeners.

Theresa explains that one of her main goals with Dating With Borders is to give women hope by offering an honest and unfiltered glimpse into the realities of a new relationship. Together, she and Joe will share the joyful highs and inevitable challenges of dating across borders, showing that love is rarely perfect but always worth pursuing. The couple plans to explore themes of chemistry and compatibility, highlighting the important distinctions between these concepts as they share their evolving story.

Adding a lighthearted touch, Theresa makes a charming reference to how she had always envisioned herself hosting a podcast as a single woman, inspired by Sex and the City vibes. But instead, she’s thrilled to be creating this show with her “Mr. Big,” a testament to the unexpected and beautiful surprises love can bring.

The conversation turns to Joe’s perspective, where he expresses appreciation for how Theresa set the tone from the beginning, clearly showing him how she wanted to be treated. Her assertiveness was something he admired and gladly followed, proving that mutual respect and understanding are key elements in their relationship. They discuss the importance of keeping chivalry alive, emphasizing that both partners should never settle for less than they deserve.

Finally, Theresa and Joe touch on the idea of taking initiative in a relationship, sharing their experiences from both the male and female perspectives. They highlight how these small but meaningful actions laid the groundwork for the strong connection they continue to build. Join them on this exciting journey of love, as they provide a roadmap for singles and newly dating couples, encouraging everyone to keep an open heart.