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In this heartfelt and revealing episode of Dating With Borders, Teresa and Joe dive right into the juicy details of their early dating days, tackling the tender question: How many people were on their respective "rosters" when they first met? They explore when and why they decided to focus exclusively on one another. Joe firmly believes it’s not about how long you’ve been dating, but that “when you know, you know.”

Together, they reflect on how their long-distance connection allowed their relationship to blossom uniquely. With phone calls as their mainstay in the beginning, they built a strong emotional foundation that might not have been possible if they had the ease of seeing each other regularly. They even reminisce about their very first phone call—the feelings it sparked and Teresa’s surprising realization that Joe was American, not Canadian.

The couple shares invaluable advice for those in the early stages of a relationship: when something is misunderstood or feels off in a conversation, don’t let it linger. Address it immediately to keep the connection strong and open. Teresa offers a thoughtful analogy from her time as a single woman working to understand the dating world and her own desires.

In a lighthearted yet tender moment, Teresa recalls her early feelings about their relationship, and Joe likens it to her nonverbal way of giving him the green light to ask for a second date.

This episode is full of warmth, wisdom, and plenty of laughs, making it a must-listen for anyone navigating a budding romance, long-distance love, or simply curious about how to build a strong foundation with a partner.