Think you know how Family Courts operate when it comes to enforcing, punishing or even taking action when there is uncooperation between the parties? Think again. In this eye-opening episode, I pull back the curtain to reveal the strategic nuances and intricate challenges that litigants face when navigating family court, especially when dealing with Contempt motions. Whether you're self-represented or working with an attorney, my goal is to equip you with practical, insightful strategies to better prepare for situations such as violations of court order.

What You'll Learn:

• Why labeling something as "contempt" can backfire and learn the appropriate legal language to use instead.
• How specifying realistic and proportionate consequences for violations can influence the outcome of your case.
• To understand why judges often avoid micromanaging parental decisions and the potential pitfalls of frequent motion filings.
• Why the adage "Just because you could doesn't mean you should" is crucial in family court filings.
• To unearth smarter ways to document minor infractions without constantly filing motions or involving the police.
• To pinpoint when it's truly necessary to file for contempt and when to let minor issues slide for the sake of your case.
• To set realistic expectations and gain insights into setting realistic expectations and the importance of understanding the complexities of the family court system.
• To leverage Professional Help by discovering the roles of parenting coaches, coordinators, and therapists for managing co-parenting conflicts outside of court.
• Personal Anecdotes: Listen to a relatable story about pre-K decisions and how they can unexpectedly impact your case, even when intentions are good.

This episode is packed with actionable advice designed to help you learn to make more informed decisions when it comes to reacting to the other party’s actions. Avoid common pitfalls, approach your case with a clear strategy, and ensure you’re fully prepared for the complexities ahead.

📚 Timestamped overview

00:00 Don't make legal conclusions; that's the judge's role.

06:53 No contempt if criteria aren't clearly met.

08:00 Decide if court action is really worthwhile.

14:10 Stop repeating actions expecting different results.

15:31 Choose contempt cases wisely; avoid judge annoyance.

17:56 Violating probation shows contempt, unlike parenting agreements.

23:44 Seek harsher judgments; filings may impact trial.

27:00 Judge ordered child stays with available parent.

30:41 Specify consequences for violating parenting plans carefully.

34:14 Schedule session for consent assistance with documents.

35:28 "Just because you can doesn't mean should

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Family Court can be traumatic! And trying to handle your case on your own can be even more catastrophic. There are twists & turns at every stage that you need to be aware of and to prepare for. Having a solid Gameplan and someone to help you execute it effectively can make all the difference in the Universe (not just the world.) We know all about the bias, corruption, and dysfunction being handed out by the system. We just want you to have a fighting chance by leveling the playing field.

Need help in handling your Family Court case on your own?

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Welcome back, listeners! Did you miss your favorite family court strategist? Well, season two kicks off with a bang as we dive into an often misunderstood but critically important topic: perjury in family court.

In this enlightening episode, I pull back the curtain to uncover the strategic implications and often underwhelming enforcement of perjury within family court proceedings. Whether you’re a self-represented litigant or just seeking to understand the convoluted family court system better, this episode provides invaluable insights on leveraging perjury accusations effectively in your case.

What You'll Learn:

• The definition of perjury and its specific relevance in family courts.
• The rare enforcement and prosecution of perjury in family court cases.
• Strategic uses of pointing out perjury even when punishment is unlikely.
• Real-life examples of how perjury can discredit a witness during trial.
• How family court judges typically react to allegations of perjury.
• The critical importance of focusing on your own truths rather than the other party’s lies.
• Practical advice for self-represented litigants on navigating false allegations.

Family court is rarely black and white, and the topic of perjury is no exception. Tune in to learn how you can strategically handle perjury in your case to strengthen your position and reduce the credibility of the opposing party.

New Segment: Tracey-ism of the Week “Focus on your truths and not on their lies.” Discover why spending your energy on presenting your own factual case is far more effective than obsessing over the other party's deception.

Thank you for joining us on this educational journey into the labyrinth of family court strategy. Are you interested in becoming a guest on our show or have a topic suggestion? Send an email with subject “Podcast Guest”

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📚 Timestamped overview

00:00 Perjury topic led to continuous content evolution.

03:14 Perjury involves lying under oath, rarely punished.

06:47 Perjury doubt questions witness credibility during trial.

12:30 Prosecuting crime is challenging, especially without attorney.

15:50 Perjury accusations often distract from strong arguments.

17:20 Focus on key child custody factors over perjury.

20:44 Focus on your truths, not others' lies.

24:28 Seeking self-represented divorce/custody case stories, USA.

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Family Court can be traumatic! And trying to handle your case on your own can be even more catastrophic. There are twists & turns at every stage that you need to be aware of and to prepare for. Having a solid Gameplan and someone to help you execute it effectively can make all the difference in the Universe (not just the world.) We know all about the bias, corruption, and dysfunction being handed out by the system. We just want you to have a fighting chance by leveling the playing field.

Need help in handling your Family Court case on your own?

We have services that are specifically geared toward helping self-represented litigants like you understand the common mistakes that lead to the most disappointing outcomes.

To find out more about our services and
to stay informed of our FREE workshops by joining our email & visit us at www.TheDivorceSolutionist.com.

**Think Family Court is Simple? Think Again. A Reality Check for Dads Navigating Custody Battles.**
Welcome back to another eye-opening episode of Self-Represented in Family Court, with your host Family Court Strategist™ Tracey Bee. If you've ever thought family court was straightforward or designed with the kids' best interests at heart, it's time to reassess those assumptions. This episode dives deep into the strategies dads need to successfully navigate family court, especially when fighting for custody and fair child support.

**Episode Highlights:**
- **The 50/50 Custody Myth:** Learn why some states lean towards a 50/50 custody arrangement for never-married parents, and what this really means.
- **Standard Visitation Schedules:** Understand the typical visitation schedules in your jurisdiction and why getting more time might require taking your case to trial.
- **Types of Visitation:** Discover the different types of visitation options, from supervised and therapeutic to overnight and long-distance visits.
- **Strategy Over Advice:** Why developing a personal strategy is crucial, and how blindly following others' advice could backfire on you big time.
- **Fluid Nature of Family Court:** Uncover the unpredictable scenarios you might face and why having a game plan is your best asset.
- **Joint Legal Custody:** Even if 50/50 physical custody isn't attainable, why joint legal custody is worth fighting for.
- **Avoiding Common Pitfalls:** Learn why seeking joint custody to avoid child support is a bad idea, and hear success and failure stories of fathers post-joint custody.
- **Leveraging Child Support:** Tracey reveals her personal experience with child support negotiations and the importance of finding leverage to use to your advantage.
- **Research and Preparation:** Why it's vital to educate yourself on child support laws and custody procedures rather than relying solely on lawyers.
- **The Father's Role:** Tracey emphasizes the unique and irreplaceable role fathers play in their children's lives, urging dads to fight for meaningful relationships despite legal complexities.


Family court is far from black and white; it’s filled with nuances and challenges that require thoughtful strategies. This episode is packed with actionable insights and heartfelt advice aimed at helping dads position themselves advantageously in their custody battles.

Stay tuned for next week's episode where we delve even deeper into practical tips and real-life stories from dads who’ve navigated the family court system.

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Family Court can be traumatic! And trying to handle your case on your own can be even more catastrophic. There are twists & turns at every stage that you need to be aware of and to prepare for. Having a solid Gameplan and someone to help you execute it effectively can make all the difference in the Universe (not just the world.) We know all about the bias, corruption, and dysfunction being handed out by the system. We just want you to have a fighting chance by leveling the playing field.

Need help in handling your Family Court case on your own?

We have services that are specifically geared toward helping self-represented litigants like you understand the common mistakes that lead to the most disappointing outcomes.

To find out more about our services and
to stay informed of our FREE workshops by joining our email & visit us at www.TheDivorceSolutionist.com.