Think you know how Family Courts operate when it comes to enforcing, punishing or even taking action when there is uncooperation between the parties? Think again. In this eye-opening episode, I pull back the curtain to reveal the strategic nuances and intricate challenges that litigants face when navigating family court, especially when dealing with Contempt motions. Whether you're self-represented or working with an attorney, my goal is to equip you with practical, insightful strategies to better prepare for situations such as violations of court order.

What You'll Learn:

• Why labeling something as "contempt" can backfire and learn the appropriate legal language to use instead.
• How specifying realistic and proportionate consequences for violations can influence the outcome of your case.
• To understand why judges often avoid micromanaging parental decisions and the potential pitfalls of frequent motion filings.
• Why the adage "Just because you could doesn't mean you should" is crucial in family court filings.
• To unearth smarter ways to document minor infractions without constantly filing motions or involving the police.
• To pinpoint when it's truly necessary to file for contempt and when to let minor issues slide for the sake of your case.
• To set realistic expectations and gain insights into setting realistic expectations and the importance of understanding the complexities of the family court system.
• To leverage Professional Help by discovering the roles of parenting coaches, coordinators, and therapists for managing co-parenting conflicts outside of court.
• Personal Anecdotes: Listen to a relatable story about pre-K decisions and how they can unexpectedly impact your case, even when intentions are good.

This episode is packed with actionable advice designed to help you learn to make more informed decisions when it comes to reacting to the other party’s actions. Avoid common pitfalls, approach your case with a clear strategy, and ensure you’re fully prepared for the complexities ahead.

📚 Timestamped overview

00:00 Don't make legal conclusions; that's the judge's role.

06:53 No contempt if criteria aren't clearly met.

08:00 Decide if court action is really worthwhile.

14:10 Stop repeating actions expecting different results.

15:31 Choose contempt cases wisely; avoid judge annoyance.

17:56 Violating probation shows contempt, unlike parenting agreements.

23:44 Seek harsher judgments; filings may impact trial.

27:00 Judge ordered child stays with available parent.

30:41 Specify consequences for violating parenting plans carefully.

34:14 Schedule session for consent assistance with documents.

35:28 "Just because you can doesn't mean should

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Family Court can be traumatic! And trying to handle your case on your own can be even more catastrophic. There are twists & turns at every stage that you need to be aware of and to prepare for. Having a solid Gameplan and someone to help you execute it effectively can make all the difference in the Universe (not just the world.) We know all about the bias, corruption, and dysfunction being handed out by the system. We just want you to have a fighting chance by leveling the playing field.

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Welcome back, listeners! Did you miss your favorite family court strategist? Well, season two kicks off with a bang as we dive into an often misunderstood but critically important topic: perjury in family court.

In this enlightening episode, I pull back the curtain to uncover the strategic implications and often underwhelming enforcement of perjury within family court proceedings. Whether you’re a self-represented litigant or just seeking to understand the convoluted family court system better, this episode provides invaluable insights on leveraging perjury accusations effectively in your case.

What You'll Learn:

• The definition of perjury and its specific relevance in family courts.
• The rare enforcement and prosecution of perjury in family court cases.
• Strategic uses of pointing out perjury even when punishment is unlikely.
• Real-life examples of how perjury can discredit a witness during trial.
• How family court judges typically react to allegations of perjury.
• The critical importance of focusing on your own truths rather than the other party’s lies.
• Practical advice for self-represented litigants on navigating false allegations.

Family court is rarely black and white, and the topic of perjury is no exception. Tune in to learn how you can strategically handle perjury in your case to strengthen your position and reduce the credibility of the opposing party.

New Segment: Tracey-ism of the Week “Focus on your truths and not on their lies.” Discover why spending your energy on presenting your own factual case is far more effective than obsessing over the other party's deception.

Thank you for joining us on this educational journey into the labyrinth of family court strategy. Are you interested in becoming a guest on our show or have a topic suggestion? Send an email with subject “Podcast Guest”

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📚 Timestamped overview

00:00 Perjury topic led to continuous content evolution.

03:14 Perjury involves lying under oath, rarely punished.

06:47 Perjury doubt questions witness credibility during trial.

12:30 Prosecuting crime is challenging, especially without attorney.

15:50 Perjury accusations often distract from strong arguments.

17:20 Focus on key child custody factors over perjury.

20:44 Focus on your truths, not others' lies.

24:28 Seeking self-represented divorce/custody case stories, USA.

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Family Court can be traumatic! And trying to handle your case on your own can be even more catastrophic. There are twists & turns at every stage that you need to be aware of and to prepare for. Having a solid Gameplan and someone to help you execute it effectively can make all the difference in the Universe (not just the world.) We know all about the bias, corruption, and dysfunction being handed out by the system. We just want you to have a fighting chance by leveling the playing field.

Need help in handling your Family Court case on your own?

We have services that are specifically geared toward helping self-represented litigants like you understand the common mistakes that lead to the most disappointing outcomes.

To find out more about our services and
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**Think Family Court is Simple? Think Again. A Reality Check for Dads Navigating Custody Battles.**
Welcome back to another eye-opening episode of Self-Represented in Family Court, with your host Family Court Strategist™ Tracey Bee. If you've ever thought family court was straightforward or designed with the kids' best interests at heart, it's time to reassess those assumptions. This episode dives deep into the strategies dads need to successfully navigate family court, especially when fighting for custody and fair child support.

**Episode Highlights:**
- **The 50/50 Custody Myth:** Learn why some states lean towards a 50/50 custody arrangement for never-married parents, and what this really means.
- **Standard Visitation Schedules:** Understand the typical visitation schedules in your jurisdiction and why getting more time might require taking your case to trial.
- **Types of Visitation:** Discover the different types of visitation options, from supervised and therapeutic to overnight and long-distance visits.
- **Strategy Over Advice:** Why developing a personal strategy is crucial, and how blindly following others' advice could backfire on you big time.
- **Fluid Nature of Family Court:** Uncover the unpredictable scenarios you might face and why having a game plan is your best asset.
- **Joint Legal Custody:** Even if 50/50 physical custody isn't attainable, why joint legal custody is worth fighting for.
- **Avoiding Common Pitfalls:** Learn why seeking joint custody to avoid child support is a bad idea, and hear success and failure stories of fathers post-joint custody.
- **Leveraging Child Support:** Tracey reveals her personal experience with child support negotiations and the importance of finding leverage to use to your advantage.
- **Research and Preparation:** Why it's vital to educate yourself on child support laws and custody procedures rather than relying solely on lawyers.
- **The Father's Role:** Tracey emphasizes the unique and irreplaceable role fathers play in their children's lives, urging dads to fight for meaningful relationships despite legal complexities.


Family court is far from black and white; it’s filled with nuances and challenges that require thoughtful strategies. This episode is packed with actionable insights and heartfelt advice aimed at helping dads position themselves advantageously in their custody battles.

Stay tuned for next week's episode where we delve even deeper into practical tips and real-life stories from dads who’ve navigated the family court system.

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Family Court can be traumatic! And trying to handle your case on your own can be even more catastrophic. There are twists & turns at every stage that you need to be aware of and to prepare for. Having a solid Gameplan and someone to help you execute it effectively can make all the difference in the Universe (not just the world.) We know all about the bias, corruption, and dysfunction being handed out by the system. We just want you to have a fighting chance by leveling the playing field.

Need help in handling your Family Court case on your own?

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Do you think Family Court can simply restrict the non-custodial parent's access to their child under any circumstances? Think again. Discover the real nuances behind parental visitation or access and what courts consider before making those tough decisions.

In this episode, Tracey Bee provides a crucial look into Family Court cases involving high-conflict situations around the issue of visitation or access of non-custodial parents with their children. She debunks the myths many have about what courts can or will do when it comes to limiting or denying access to a non-custodial parent, even in the light of abuse, substance issues, or historical abandonment.

What Will be Discussed:
- The Family Court's underlying objectives and principles regarding parental visitation or access.
- How courts view some constitutional rights of non-custodial parents when it comes to visitation or access.
- Conditions under which courts might suspend or limit the non-custodial parent's visitation rights.
- The importance of providing viable solutions to the court to address concerns about the other parent.
- Why you should avoid asking the court to deny any type of parenting time for the other parent unless there are specific concerns of the child's safety or well-being.
- Various supervised and therapeutic visitation strategies as alternatives to a flat out denial of parenting time.
- Strategies for non-custodial parents to regain access through modification petitions.

Family Court is a complex system with deeply ingrained principles about parental rights and child welfare. This episode sheds light on those principles and offers strategic advice for both custodial and non-custodial parents navigating this sensitive topic.

Tune in, and equip yourself with the knowledge to handle family court's challenges effectively.

Stay tuned for next week's episode, where Tracey will continue to unravel more intricacies of family court proceedings and share actionable strategies to help you win your case.
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Family Court can be traumatic! And trying to handle your case on your own can be even more catastrophic. There are twists & turns at every stage that you need to be aware of and to prepare for. Having a solid Gameplan and someone to help you execute it effectively can make all the difference in the Universe (not just the world.) We know all about the bias, corruption, and dysfunction being handed out by the system. We just want you to have a fighting chance by leveling the playing field.

Need help in handling your Family Court case on your own?

We have services that are specifically geared toward helping self-represented litigants like you understand the common mistakes that lead to the most disappointing outcomes.

To find out more about our services and
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Navigating the murky waters of Family Court can be daunting, especially for stay-at-home parents. This episode Tracey brings you right into the thick of it, demystifying the complex and sometimes unsettling realities of family court, particularly for those who’ve spent years out of the workforce. Whether you are considering divorce, are currently going through divorce or custody or have recurring custody cases, if you gave up working outside of the home to take care of your children, family and your home there are some gems in this episode that you can't afford to miss.

With professional, and personal, insights as a stay-at-home parent myself I delve into the unseen challenges and strategic maneuvers essential for anyone in this vulnerable position. From understanding what is your child's best interests from court's perspective to anticipating your ex's next move, this episode equips you with the knowledge to prepare and not just react out of fear and desperation.

**What You'll Learn:**

- The critical importance of utilizing preemptive measures in court to best prepare for the archaic views of stay-at-home parents.

- The actual meaning of the "best interest of the child" factors and how these play into custody battles.

- Tips for developing a foolproof, solid game plan that include everything from the practical to the legal.

- Real-life anecdotes illustrating the pitfalls a lot of stay at home parents have that equal unrealistic court expectations.

- Why multiple legal consultations are invaluable, especially when funds are tight.

- Insight into the challenges of securing immediate and long-term financial support.

- How to weigh the costs versus the potential benefits of pursuing any form of legal action.

- The harsh truth about custody presumptions and the impact on the overall oucome of your divorce or custody case.

- Practical advice on exploring affordable divorce resolution options and considering divorce settlements.

Family court battles can feel like navigating a labyrinth. This episode aims to be your guide if you're going through divorce or custody as a stay at home parent. There are many presumptions, myths, etc. that many Family Court litigants believe which leads them to make "wrong" moves. Listen to this episode as we discuss the potential pitfalls and providing strategies to bolster your legal position as a stay-at-home parent.

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Family Court can be traumatic! And trying to handle your case on your own can be even more catastrophic. There are twists & turns at every stage that you need to be aware of and to prepare for. Having a solid Gameplan and someone to help you execute it effectively can make all the difference in the Universe (not just the world.) We know all about the bias, corruption, and dysfunction being handed out by the system. We just want you to have a fighting chance by leveling the playing field.

Need help in handling your Family Court case on your own?

We have services that are specifically geared toward helping self-represented litigants like you understand the common mistakes that lead to the most disappointing outcomes.

To find out more about our services and
to stay informed of our FREE workshops by joining our email & visit us at www.TheDivorceSolutionist.com.

Today, I've got something truly groundbreaking to share with you—my newly launched, proprietary A.D.V.O.C.A.T.E.™ Method. This meticulously crafted process is your comprehensive guide to navigating the intricate and often daunting world of family court, especially if you're a self-represented litigant.

In this special edition episode, we'll delve deep into each step of the A.D.V.O.C.A.T.E.™ Method, which stands for Assess, Decide, Value, Other Party, Consider, Allocate, Track, and Execute. These steps are designed to help you strategically prepare, position, and present your case effectively. Whether you're dealing with custody issues, preparing for an upcoming trial, or simply trying to make sense of the court system, this method aims to bring clarity, organization, and a higher likelihood of favorable outcomes to your journey.

So, grab your notepad and get ready to arm yourself with the tools you need to advocate for yourself in family court. Let's dive in!

📚 Timestamped overview

00:00 Essential strategy is crucial for family court.

04:28 Customized strategy to achieve favorable outcomes.

08:10 Research outcomes, allocate varied available resources effectively.

11:40 Assistance for active role in legal matters.

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Family Court can be traumatic! And trying to handle your case on your own can be even more catastrophic. There are twists & turns at every stage that you need to be aware of and to prepare for. Having a solid Gameplan and someone to help you execute it effectively can make all the difference in the Universe (not just the world.) We know all about the bias, corruption, and dysfunction being handed out by the system. We just want you to have a fighting chance by leveling the playing field.

Need help in handling your Family Court case on your own?

We have services that are specifically geared toward helping self-represented litigants like you understand the common mistakes that lead to the most disappointing outcomes.

To find out more about our services and
to stay informed of our FREE workshops by joining our email & visit us at www.TheDivorceSolutionist.com.

Today we delve into the complex world of family court and tackle the challenge of navigating biased judges. As many of you know, the discretion and minimal oversight in family courts often give judges an unfortunate ability to "run amok." This lack of accountability can deeply affect the outcomes of sensitive cases involving termination, abuse, and neglect. Today, we're going to explore what constitutes a biased judge in this unique legal environment and discuss strategic approaches to address such challenges. From understanding state guidelines governing judge behavior, to considering filing a motion or waiting to file a complaint post-case, we'll guide you through your options. Whether you're settling, aligning with a guardian ad litem, or gearing up for trial, it's crucial to make informed decisions to navigate these murky waters effectively. Join us as we unpack these tough choices, ensuring you're fully equipped to deal with the subjective nature of bias in family court. Now, let's get started.

📚 Timestamped overview

00:00 Family court lacks justice, due process, equality.

04:03 Family court judges have diverse backgrounds and autonomy.

10:01 Address biased judges through proper legal channels.

12:20 Dealing with biased judge in custody/divorce cases.

15:24 Questioning potential biases and incompetencies in decision-making.

20:26 Consider options for addressing potential bias.

23:34 Legal strategy for navigating court procedures effectively.

27:07 Strategic decision-making in legal proceedings summarized.

28:40 Challenging options in stage four trial case.

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Family Court can be traumatic! And trying to handle your case on your own can be even more catastrophic. There are twists & turns at every stage that you need to be aware of and to prepare for. Having a solid Gameplan and someone to help you execute it effectively can make all the difference in the Universe (not just the world.) We know all about the bias, corruption, and dysfunction being handed out by the system. We just want you to have a fighting chance by leveling the playing field.

Need help in handling your Family Court case on your own?

We have services that are specifically geared toward helping self-represented litigants like you understand the common mistakes that lead to the most disappointing outcomes.

To find out more about our services and
to stay informed of our FREE workshops by joining our email & visit us at www.TheDivorceSolutionist.com.

Today, we dive into the often overlooked challenge of hiring and firing attorneys in family law. We'll explore why switching lawyers too frequently could leave you vulnerable and possibly hinder your case, as frequent changes can annoy judges and lead to adverse decisions.

It's your right to change attorneys, but making informed, strategic decisions is crucial. We’ll discuss how to carefully evaluate potential attorneys, understand the importance of the lawyer-client and lawyer-judge relationships, and consider the timing and implications of changing your legal representation. Whether you're thinking about firing your current lawyer, hiring a new one, or possibly representing yourself, today’s episode is packed with vital insights on the topic. We'll also highlight when, as pro se, to bring an attorney on board to ensure you are as prepared as possible right from the start.

Stick with us as we outline essential strategies and offer resources to help you navigate these tough decisions, ensuring you don’t just change attorneys, but move forward with confidence.

Timestamped overview:

00:00 Use attorney referrals wisely, consider specific circumstances.
04:05 Choose an attorney wisely to avoid blame.
06:54 Retainer agreement crucial for potential attorney claims.
11:04 Categorizing legal cases into pre-trial stages.
15:57 Consider options with lawyer or self-representation.
18:07 Decide strategically on lawyer's withdrawal process.
21:55 Hiring new attorney may cause timing risks.
23:29 Consider court's agenda, goals, and players carefully.
26:44 Consider representing yourself carefully, envision consequences.
31:03 Excessive lawyering leads to negative consequences.
34:41 Consider hiring or firing a lawyer now.

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Family Court can be traumatic! And trying to handle your case on your own can be even more catastrophic. There are twists & turns at every stage that you need to be aware of and to prepare for. Having a solid Gameplan and someone to help you execute it effectively can make all the difference in the Universe (not just the world.) We know all about the bias, corruption, and dysfunction being handed out by the system. We just want you to have a fighting chance by leveling the playing field.

Need help in handling your Family Court case on your own?

We have services that are specifically geared toward helping self-represented litigants like you understand the common mistakes that lead to the most disappointing outcomes.

To find out more about our services and
to stay informed of our FREE workshops by joining our email & visit us at www.TheDivorceSolutionist.com.