In this episode of Going the Distance, Jill interviews Marianne Marlowe, a seasoned couples therapist and founder of This Love Works. They discuss Marianne's journey from corporate work to therapy, the importance of finding the right couples counselor, and the impact of COVID-19 on relationships. Marianne emphasizes the significance of trust in therapy, the qualifications needed for effective counseling, and the warning signs that couples should look for when considering therapy. They also explore the Four Horsemen of conflict as outlined by John Gottman and how understanding these dynamics can help couples navigate their relationships more effectively. The conversation concludes with insights on burnout in relationships and the necessity of doing the hard emotional work to foster healthier connections. Throughout the episode, Jill and Marianne explore the complexities of relationships, focusing on themes such as apathy, depression, the importance of novelty in intimacy, navigating political differences, and encouraging partners to seek help. They discuss how relationships evolve over time, the significance of open communication, and the need for self-awareness in rebuilding after divorce. *****This series does not establish a provider-patient relationship and is for informational purposes only. Before starting any kind of program, always check with your own medical team first. Explore more with Marianne: Visit her website LinkedIn Instagram More about Jill & Go Long Sign-up for Go Long’s newsletter Learn more about Go Long Instagram Facebook LinkedIn