At its core, experiencing pain simply means that something is off. And oftentimes, we think pain is bad. And sometimes it is. And sometimes it can be really useful. In our Season 3 Finale, therapist and pastor, BrianJames McMahon, unpacks for us how being honest and lamenting his own pain changed everything for him–including stepping out of vocational ministry. It’s possible to not fear pain, wrestle with lament, and bravely face the possibility of leaving a ministry, with hope–and without hating it.

Resources Highlighted in this Interview:

• Church Well Co Website
• BrianJames Therapy Website
• Connect further with Brian James at Instagram: @brianjamesmcmahon @church_well_co

Guest Bio:
BrianJames McMahon is a pastor, counselor, and founder of both Church Well Co, and BrianJames Therapy. He works with pastors, churches, and communities to develop safe(r) relational and emotional spaces for healing and connection.

BrianJames cares deeply that the Church of Jesus embodies the person of Jesus with beauty, bravery, and connection.Never one to shy away from messiness and pain, he has committed his life to helping leaders honestly face the pain present in their lives and callings and to walk into the fullness of the life Jesus has for them in honesty, openness, and bravery.

Episode Credits:
Audio Engineer & Editing by AJ Williams
Produced by Chad Garrison

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As ministry leaders, there are things about ministry that we hate, and that’s ok. It only took us 37 episodes to get to that, but here we are for a conversation with pastor, professor, fellow podcaster and friend, Tim Lee. In this episode Tim gets reflective on his own recent journey of deconstructing what ministry is vs. what he’s always known, the truth that we are still not healthy after all that happened in 2020, and why apathy is actually the greatest threat to anything we do. It’s a real iron vs. iron conversation!

Resources Highlighted in this Interview:

• Listen to the How To Church Podcast here
• The Violent Take It By Force by Matthew D. Taylor
• The Gift of Thorns by A. J. Swoboda
• Connect further with Tim at avlife.church/about-us

Guest Bio:
The most important thing about Tim Lee is that he loves Jesus, is married to his high school sweetheart, Sharon, and together they are raising their two daughters, Hannah and Selah.

Tim has served in ministry leadership roles at various Foursquare churches for more than two decades, and since 2011 he and Sharon have been the Co-Lead Pastors of Life Church in Lancaster, California.

Having earned a doctorate in Leadership and Spiritual Formation from Portland Seminary, Tim also serves as the Chair of the Department of Theology and Ministry at LIFE Pacific University and Director of the McPherson Preaching Institute (MPI) where he hopes to plant seeds that will cultivate the next generation of pentecostal preachers and ministry leaders.

Episode Credits:
Audio Engineer & Editing by AJ Williams
Produced by Chad Garrison

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As leaders, we must face the reality that we will all journey with sexual sin and purity, whether personally, and/or with others. In this episode, Robby Booth breaks down how this journey isn’t just about sex, but rather about wounded-ness in hearts. Robby also gives practical tools to combat treating our sexuality like soup, and living fully in the transformation God gives. Don’t give up your birthright!

It’s time for a Soul Check, an open discussion with ministry leaders and mental health specialists focused on reinforcing the most important part of you–your soul!

Resources Highlighted in this Interview:

• Covenant Eyes - Pornography Accountability
• Conquer Series with Ted Roberts
• F.A.S.T.E.R. Relapse Scale
• The Attachment Theory Workbook by Annie Chen, LMFT
• Clean: A Proven Plan for Men Committed to Sexual Integrity by Doug Weiss
• Intimacy: 100 Day Guide to Lasting Relationships by Doug Weiss
• 30 Day Marriage Makeover by Doug Weiss
• Married and Alone: Healing Exercises for Spouses by Doug Weiss
• Intimacy Anorexia. A workbook by Doug Weiss
• Partners: Healing from His Addiction by Doug Weiss
• Connect further with Robby at rbooth777@gmail.com

Guest Bio:
Robby Booth alongside his wife, Bonita, presently serves the NCO as the director of CSR West. As minister of Pastoral Care directing CSR West, Robby brings care and restoration to pastors, ministers & missionaries of the Foursquare movement. Robby and Bonita have served as senior pastors of Faith Chapel Foursquare Church in Glendale, Ariz. for eleven years. Robby and Bonita later moved to Modesto to serve as district supervisors of the former Western District office of Foursquare churches in January 1995.

Robby received a dual major bachelor's degree in Christian ministries/counseling from Hope University and a master's degree in marriage and family counseling from Azusa Pacific University. Prior to moving to Arizona, he served eleven years on staff at Trinity Christian Center Foursquare Church as the married couples’ pastor. He is CERT, CISM and DRT certified as well as specialties in dealing with trauma and sexual addictions. Ordained in 1979, Robby directed two counseling centers in Southern CA before becoming a senior pastor. With over 80,000 hours of counseling, Robby was initially licensed as a MFCC in 1980, later also becoming a trauma specialist.

“An ordinary guy serving an extraordinary God!” is how Robby would say he wants to be known, loving God and loving people. He is a strong family man with deep love for his wife, Bonita, as well as their three children, Jeremy, Jessica, and Joshua and wonderful grandchildren.

Episode Credits:
Audio Engineer & Editing by AJ Williams
Produced by Chad Garrison
Episode Artwork Photo by Warren on Unsplash

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How do you keep the “why” of ministry at the forefront of your ministry? Sometimes it takes a healthy dose of perspective of another leader’s reality. This episode with NextGen Leaders, Zach & Caitlin Thomas, may be one of those moments. In this interview they share how they’ve been able to see fruit in their inner city student ministries, the gospel burden every ministry leader should carry, and the importance of stepping back and saying, “But Look What God Did!” We also finally answer the debate of which city is actually the real “Little Chicago”.

Resources Highlighted in this Interview:

• Connect further with Zach & Caitlin at gviewkids@grandviewchurch.com, or piggca14@gmail.com and via Facebook: Zach, Caitlin

Guest Bio:
Pastors Zachary (Zach) and Caitlin (Cait) Thomas started dating in 2008 after they met at a county fair. In 2012, these high school sweethearts got married and began their life as husband and wife. God has richly blessed them with three beautiful children, Samuel (9), Daniel (6), and Gabriella (3). They also have several pets including two dogs, three chickens, two ducks, several fish, a turtle, and a leopard gecko.

Being born the son of a pastor, Zach grew up with a rich relationship with the Lord and was deeply connected to the church. Having always known that there was a call to pastoral ministry on his life, Zach officially assumed the role of Children’s Minister in August 2018, under the leadership of his father, Sr. Pastor, Dennis Thomas.

Cait’s path to pastoral ministry was not as direct as her husband’s. Unlike Zach, Cait grew up as an in the Catholic Church but lacked a true relationship with God. When she started dating Zach, he asked her to come to youth group and Sunday morning service with him at Grandview Church. During a Wednesday night youth service in November 2008, Cait gave her life to the Lord. Since 2010, she has faithfully served in both children’s and youth ministry at Grandview, as well as singing on the worship team and writing worship songs for their congregation. In May 2020, Cait officially became the Youth Minister at Grandview Church. She also serves in a bi-vocational role, splitting her time working a large health insurance company as well as the church.

In fall of 2020, both Zach and Cait became licensed ministers through the Foursquare Church, and they were ordained in March of 2023. The primary make-up of their ministry is inner-city outreach. A large majority of their students come from homes with food insecurities, socioeconomic struggles, addiction issues, imprisoned parents/guardians (or have faced jail-time themselves), single-parent homes, gang affiliation, and kids faced with being pulled from their homes by DCFS. While their ministry has many challenges, they love what they do, and they firmly believe that God has called them to this area to make a difference through the Power of Jesus. They passionately believe that to be an effective ministry, you must feed the body, the mind, and the heart/soul.

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How does a failed hunting trip transform the way you minister to others? In this episode our guest, Pastor Marty Schminkey, pulls no punches in sharing how God has used moments like these to change the trajectory of his heart, and ultimately the way he leads others. With authenticity, Marty unpacks how the way he serves, loves and bleeds with others is directly tied to the level of which he practices presence with his Rabbi. We’re shootin’ straight with this one!

Resources Highlighted in this Interview:

• The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry: How to Stay Emotionally Healthy and Spiritually Alive in the Chaos of the Modern World by John Mark Comer
• Unoffendable: How Just One Change Can Make All of Life Better by Brant Hansen
• Connect further with Marty at cornerstonefoursquarechurch.org

Guest Bio:
Martin Schminkey currently serves as Senior Pastor in a small rural church in Independence, IA. He has pastored for the last fifteen years, and served as Area Pastor to Foursquare churches in the state of Iowa for the last ten years. He also serves on the Advisory Board for Camp Hickory (Ingleside, IL) and has a passion to see the next generation experience the love of Jesus firsthand.

Marty and his wife Jaleda, have been married thirty four years, have five children and thirteen grandchildren with one more due in a couple of months. They enjoy camping, boating, and family gatherings. Together, they just completed training to become volunteer responders for Foursquare Disaster Relief.

When Marty is not with his wife or at work he can be found on his Harley or hunting and fishing with friends.

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Do you ever feel unqualified, or under-equipped as a leader? Well good news, you're not alone! In this episode Pastor and Church Planter, Nina Sims, shares with us how her motto of "Just Show Up" is a daily exercise in courage and confidence in the belief that God placing you in leadership was not an accident. And as you show up, God will too.

Resources Highlighted in this Interview:

• Connect further with Nina: Facebook - True Worship Church, Instagram - @trueworshipdetroit

Guest Bio:
Pastor Nina Sims is a devoted servant of God, dedicated wife, and loving mother. Married to Antonio Sims, she finds immense joy and fulfillment in her role as a spouse and parent to their six beautiful children.

Pastor Nina's life is centered around her faith and her love for the Lord and His people. She has personally experienced the transformative power of God's love and grace, which has shaped her into a compassionate and empathetic individual. Her desire is to share this life-changing experience with others and guide them towards a deeper relationship with God.

Since March 2021, Pastor Nina has been leading True Worship Church as its pastor. Her leadership is marked by her kindness, care, and unwavering commitment to serving the congregation. She strives to create an atmosphere of love, acceptance, and spiritual growth within the church community.

Known for her genuine warmth and approachability, Pastor Nina is always ready to lend a listening ear and provide guidance to those in need. Her sermons are filled with wisdom, encouragement, and practical teachings that inspire her congregation to live out their faith in their daily lives.

Pastor Nina Sims embodies the values of faith, family, and service. Her life and ministry are a testament to the transformative power of God's love, and she continues to be a guiding light for those seeking spiritual guidance and a deeper connection with the Lord.

Episode Credits:
Audio Engineer & Editing by AJ Williams
Produced by Chad Garrison

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It’s time for a Soul Check, an open discussion with ministry leaders and mental health specialists focused on reinforcing the most important part of you–your soul! In this episode we get Part 2 of our discussion with our friend, Robby Booth, breaking down the practicalities of Healing and Strengthening the Ministry Leader’s soul through the Lord’s Prayer.

Resources Highlighted in this Interview:

• The Dream Center Los Angeles
• Connect further with Robby at rbooth777@gmail.com

Guest Bio:
Robby Booth alongside his wife, Bonita, presently serves the NCO as the director of CSR West. As minister of Pastoral Care directing CSR West, Robby brings care and restoration to pastors, ministers & missionaries of the Foursquare movement.

In other various roles, Robby has served the Foursquare family on the Cabinet and Executive Council, as well as regional supervisor and assistant general supervisor, Director of Foursquare Chaplaincy & national camps director.

Robby and Bonita have served as senior pastors of Faith Chapel Foursquare Church in Glendale, Ariz. for eleven years. Robby and Bonita later moved to Modesto to serve as district supervisors of the former Western District office of Foursquare churches in January 1995.

Robby received a dual major bachelor's degree in Christian ministries/counseling from Hope University and a master's degree in marriage and family counseling from Azusa Pacific University. Prior to moving to Arizona, he served eleven years on staff at Trinity Christian Center Foursquare Church as the married couples’ pastor. He is CERT, CISM and DRT certified as well as specialties in dealing with trauma and sexual addictions. Ordained in 1979, Robby directed two counseling centers in Southern CA before becoming a senior pastor. With over 80,000 hours of counseling, Robby was initially licensed as a MFCC in 1980, later also becoming a trauma specialist.

“An ordinary guy serving an extraordinary God!” is how Robby would say he wants to be known, loving God and loving people. He is a strong family man with deep love for his wife, Bonita, as well as their three children, Jeremy, Jessica, and Joshua and wonderful grandchildren.

Episode Credits:
Audio Engineer & Editing by AJ Williams
Produced by Chad Garrison
Episode Artwork Photo by Warren on Unsplash

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• Find our socials info at LinkTree
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Today we unbox a new episode type we’re adding to the MWH mix, Soul Check. These episodes will be an open discussion with ministry leaders and mental health specialists focused on reinforcing the most important part of you–your soul! In this episode we get Part 1 of our discussion with our friend, Robby Booth, breaking down the practicalities of Healing and Strengthening the Ministry Leader’s soul through the Lord’s Prayer. Part 2 releases on July 24!

Resources Highlighted in this Interview:

• The Dream Center Los Angeles
• Connect further with Robby at rbooth777@gmail.com

Guest Bio:
Robby Booth alongside his wife, Bonita, presently serves the NCO as the director of CSR West. As minister of Pastoral Care directing CSR West, Robby brings care and restoration to pastors, ministers & missionaries of the Foursquare movement.

In other various roles, Robby has served the Foursquare family on the Cabinet and Executive Council, as well as regional supervisor and assistant general supervisor, Director of Foursquare Chaplaincy & national camps director.

Robby and Bonita have served as senior pastors of Faith Chapel Foursquare Church in Glendale, Ariz. for eleven years. Robby and Bonita later moved to Modesto to serve as district supervisors of the former Western District office of Foursquare churches in January 1995.

Robby received a dual major bachelor's degree in Christian ministries/counseling from Hope University and a master's degree in marriage and family counseling from Azusa Pacific University. Prior to moving to Arizona, he served eleven years on staff at Trinity Christian Center Foursquare Church as the married couples’ pastor. He is CERT, CISM and DRT certified as well as specialties in dealing with trauma and sexual addictions. Ordained in 1979, Robby directed two counseling centers in Southern CA before becoming a senior pastor. With over 80,000 hours of counseling, Robby was initially licensed as a MFCC in 1980, later also becoming a trauma specialist.

“An ordinary guy serving an extraordinary God!” is how Robby would say he wants to be known, loving God and loving people. He is a strong family man with deep love for his wife, Bonita, as well as their three children, Jeremy, Jessica, and Joshua and wonderful grandchildren.

Episode Credits:
Audio Engineer & Editing by AJ Williams
Produced by Chad Garrison
Episode Artwork Photo by Warren on Unsplash

Connect With Ministry w/o Hating It:

• Find our socials info at LinkTree
• Get monthly email updates here
• Support MWH with Buy Me A Coffee
• Thanks for listening! And if this podcast is a helpful resource to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review and sharing it with others.