Today's episode is ALL ABOUT SEX! Our personal stories and sexual preferences.  We do a deep dive into our experiences, fantasies and the overall definition of sex in our personal lives.  

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Online dating, it's perks and it's shortcomings.  We discuss our own experiences with online dating and how those experiences differ from conventional dating.    

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Today's episode, sees us taking a different direction! Playing a game we've called "pick and spill" to discuss everything exes, the memories and the gossip! We take jabs at each other and have fun, the only way damsels know how!  

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Singlehood vs marriage, is there a rivalry between the two? After being single shamed, we explore what might be the real reason behind this normalized practice of viewing single people as unlucky or unwilling in love, whilst also talking about the institution of marriage and it's merits or lack thereof.  

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In this week's episode, we dive into the flipside of mothering, the ugly truths and our experiences as single black mothers.  We also delve into the  "mom gene" myth and lastly cast light on the darkness that mom guilt brings.  

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In this episode, we unpack our individual journeys to our 30s.  The hopes and dreams that we had for this supposed pinnacle age and what we've learned along the way and also some of the regrets we have.

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Misadventures of Black Damsels is about breaking down old barriers and embracing a new path and meaning to black woman-ness.

In this episode we deconstruct what it means to be a damsel, and more specifically, a black damsel.  We delve into the history of black women and its implications for black women in our current society.  We share our first damsel experiences and how those influenced our journeys towards winning back our femininity and discovering what we are worth.  At the end of the episode, we drop pearls of wisdom to our fellow black damsels.

Terminology used:

Mbokodo: literal meaning a grinding stone, a rock; solid and untouchable.  Colloquial usage "wathinta abafazi, wathinta imbokodo" translates to "you strike a woman, you strike a rock".

Abantu: People

Scrubs: insignificant fellow, a person of little account or poor appearance

Barbra the builder: a women who finds pleasure in building up a man

Alostro: withdrawal symptoms