You can be crushing it in business… but if your relationship is draining your energy, it'll sabotage everything.

In this raw, honest chat with Jordan Candlish, we go deep on what most high-performing men miss regarding love, leadership, and longevity in relationships.

We unpack why your woman stops being attracted to you…
Why you lose presence, energy, and passion…
And how to stop your relationship from destroying your business.

We also dive into how nervous system regulation, self-worth, seasons, shadow work, and masculine leadership can help men create deep, magnetic love without losing their mission.

This one hit deep.

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🔥 Timestamps

00:00 Intro to Jordan Candlish
00:29 How relationships secretly ruin your business
01:14 How to tell if your relationship is draining you
03:22 The missing piece in most modern relationships
04:33 Why your woman feels more like a roommate
05:57 Jordan's personal story of almost losing his relationship
07:17 The 3-month wake-up call that changed everything
08:23 What happens when your woman starts having fun without you
09:43 How they reignited the attraction
11:00 The masculine move that saved their relationship
12:29 How to re-lead your partner after a breakdown
13:49 Why most men can't receive love
15:01 How emotional shutdown shows up in men
17:04 The danger of "always needing to lead"
18:44 Why receiving is the most underrated masculine skill
20:14 The mother wound and avoidant patterns
22:05 When "being nurtured" feels gross for men
24:15 The silent rage that kills your presence
26:03 Shadow integration = actual magnetism
27:44 Fear in business, relationships, and social media
30:18 The root of confidence and powerful content
33:22 Why your season and city matter
35:13 The hidden effects of social media on your nervous system
38:47 The rhythms men need to honour
41:12 How Jordan left corporate and found purpose
44:59 The #1 energy source behind your magnetic presence
49:14 Plants, seasons, and male personal growth
51:29 Upcoming retreats and environments that change you

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Learn how to use the frame to instantly become magnetic in business, dating, and social life. Stop feeling invisible. Start creating tension, opportunities, and authentic attraction using Masculine Social Dynamics (MSD).

Frame is the secret that separates the guy who gets overlooked from the man people feel drawn to.

In this video, I show you how to use a frame correctly, where most men mess it up, and how to build magnetic tension authentically instead of relying on fake confidence or manipulation.

Perfect if you’re ready to level up your personal brand, leadership, dating life, and social circle with real confidence, real fun, and real power.

🔥 What You’ll Learn:
• How framing changes business, dating, and leadership results
• Why internal frame is more important than external tactics
• How playful tension creates deep connection
• Frame examples you can steal for business, dating, and networking
• How to spot when you’re leaking frame and self-sabotaging
• How to stay magnetic over time without losing your edge


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🔥 Timestamps

00:00 How Frame Makes You Magnetic
00:31 The Invisible Man vs. The Magnetic Leader
01:14 My Story: Quitting My Job, Launching My Business, & Dating Growth
03:32 Why You MUST Heal First To Have Real Social Power
04:30 Sales, Dating, & Leadership: Frame vs. Manipulation
05:31 How I Used Frame To DM My Future Partner
06:40 The Fun Of Framing In Dating (Examples)
07:49 Building Real Tension Without Being Fake
09:24 Game Theory: Why Men Who Play Win
13:30 Frame Mistakes That Destroy Long-Term Relationships
19:03 How Trauma Breaks Your Frame (And What To Do)
20:05 Social Media Framing Secrets For Business
22:07 Dating Frame Examples You Can Steal
25:28 How To Create Tension Without Rejection
26:46 Bad Frame = High Resistance (Fix This)
27:18 Quick Frame Challenges To Practice
30:03 The Power Of Eye Contact and Intimate Leadership
31:21 Final Challenges To Master Masculine Social Dynamics

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Unlock the secrets to becoming a magnetically confident man with our intro to masculine social dynamics.

In this video, we'll dive into the world of self-improvement, exploring the principles of authentic masculinity, emotional intelligence, and social mastery.

You'll learn how to harness your inner power and develop the influence skills needed to build strong relationships, attract like-minded individuals, and exude confidence in any social situation. From networking tricks and alpha behaviour to dating strategies and relationship skills.

This is your blueprint if you're tired of forcing results and want to attract the life, love, and leadership you know you're capable of.


💥 What You'll Learn in This Video:
• How to get over imposter syndrome as a business owner
• The mindset shift that led me to land $1K/month clients instantly
• The exact techniques behind Masculine Social Dynamics (Positioning, Framing, Delivery, Hosting, Authentic Engagement, etc.)
• The magnetism model that helped me triple my income and lead men's groups
• Why discipline alone isn't enough if your nervous system is wrecked
• How to influence people, gain respect, and become that guy without selling out


👇 TIMESTAMPS
00:00 - Why MSD was created (and who it's for)
01:58 - Pitching my first $200K offer: full breakdown
05:59 - My first high-ticket client (and how it changed my identity)
07:36 - Position + Frame + Delivery = MSD
09:15 - Steamy Saturdays men's circle story
13:20 - How MSD changes your dating, business, and friendships
14:44 - Why you're haunted by your goals
15:57 - The MSD 4-Step Process
18:14 - Full MSD Skill List
23:22 - Magnetism: The X-Factor
24:53 - Emotional Intelligence = Leadership
26:34 - Self-audit questions to unlock magnetism
27:12 - Join the 7-Day Magnetic Challenge


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Big love Corey

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