Ever felt like people don’t respect you?

Like you’re saying the right things but nobody listens?

This video is the missing link the implementation piece. If you’ve ever struggled to speak up, get your needs met, or hold the frame in business, dating, or leadership… it’s probably because your boundaries are weak or unspoken.

This is how to fix that step by step.

In this one, I break down:
• The 3 stages of boundaries (unknown, fighting for them, and maintaining them)
• How to actually enforce boundaries with consequences that get respect
• Why your nice guy habits are repelling power, women, and leadership
• How to use non-verbal cues to protect your energy without needing to overexplain
• A simple model to reprogram your nervous system so you stop freezing or people-pleasing when boundaries get crossed

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📍 Timestamps:
00:00 – Why they’re not listening to you (it’s not what you think)
03:59 – Stage 1: Unknown boundaries (most men are here)
05:21 – How to communicate boundaries with confidence
06:57 – What to do when people push back
07:48 – The 4-step enforcement model (acknowledge, communicate, enforce, exit)
09:01 – Why magnetic men have clear poles (polarisation model)
11:05 – Reprogramming boundaries: childhood, triggers, & rewiring
13:46 – How to test boundaries without ruining the relationship
14:43 – The Boundary Audit Tool you can download
15:35 – Final words: Boundaries = Magnetism
16:03 – Quiz & challenge invite

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If you’ve been leaking energy, overexplaining yourself, or letting people cross the line…

This is your sign to lock in your boundaries and take back your frame.

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Big love,
Corey

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Magnetic Boundaries Pt. 2: Why Your Relationship Is Ruining Your Business

Feel like your relationship is draining you?
Feel like business used to feel easy… now it’s all force, burnout, and stress?

In this video, I break down exactly why your lack of boundaries is making you invisible in your relationship, your business, and your body and how to shift it using a proven boundary model that helps men become magnetic, respected, and powerful again.

If you’re a purpose-driven business owner who’s hit a wall with success, confidence, or connection — this is the one.

You’ll learn:
• The 3 types of masculine boundaries (subtle, negotiable, non-negotiable)
• The REAL reason your nervous system is fried and your HRV sucks
• How your nice guy tendencies are destroying your influence
• The exact model I use to help men lead with authority, get intimacy back, and stop being walked over
• How to create magnetism through polarisation, positioning, and emotional clarity

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📍 Timestamps:
00:00 – Why your relationship is killing your business
02:14 – The 3 levels of boundaries: subtle, negotiable, non-negotiable
05:36 – Boundaries vs burnout: how to stop leaking energy
08:14 – Passive, reactive & conscious boundaries explained
10:54 – Positioning, polarization, and masculine influence
13:26 – The 4-step boundary enforcement model
18:38 – Intellectual, emotional, physical & spiritual boundary strategies
21:45 – Nervous system triggers + how to rewire your reactions
25:21 – Why boundaries increase self-worth, confidence, and net worth
27:38 – Final words + magnetism quiz / challenge invite

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If you’ve ever felt resentful, unseen, or like you’re constantly pouring into others with nothing coming back…

Then this video is your permission slip to draw a fkn line, reclaim your power, and start living with clarity, calm, and charisma again.

Big love,
Corey

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🔥 Why Setting Boundaries Boosts Confidence & Masculine Magnetism

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If you constantly feel drained, rejected, or like you’re giving more than you’re receiving chances are, your boundaries are weak.

In this episode, I dive deep into how poor boundaries kill your confidence, wreck your nervous system, and block your masculine magnetism in relationships, leadership, and business.

You’ll learn:
•Why people-pleasers burn out and lose respect
•How trauma and childhood conditioning shape your boundaries
•The 4 nervous system responses to boundary violations (fight, flight, freeze, appease)
•How low HRV (heart rate variability) is linked to stress, shame, and weak emotional boundaries
•How to rewire your brain and build emotional regulation through healthy masculine boundaries
•What to say when someone crosses your line without guilt

📍 Timestamps:
00:00 – Why boundaries are the foundation of magnetism
01:20 – Where weak boundaries come from (childhood trauma & shame)
05:44 – The 4 nervous system responses to boundary violations
07:00 – How emotional wounds show up in your business, relationships & body
10:15 – Real-world examples of boundary issues in dating and leadership
17:32 – Why poor boundaries lower your HRV and increase stress
21:00 – The 4 domains of boundaries: mental, emotional, physical, spiritual
22:30 – My simple 3-step method to respond to boundary triggers
25:20 – How I rewired my reactions and stopped people-pleasing

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If you want to develop unshakable self-worth, attract higher-quality relationships, and build true confidence as a man, it starts with one thing: Boundaries.

💥 This is the work we do inside Set The Standard: the #1 men’s community to build masculine presence, emotional strength, and magnetic leadership.

Big love
Corey

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