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  • #436 Top Tips to Keep Your Long Term Relationship Spicy
    2025/06/03
    Ready to keep the spark alive in your long-term relationship — without feeling like you're stuck in a rut? On this episode of Shameless Sex, we’re diving into 4 Top Tips to Keep Your Long Term Relationship Spicy—straight from our recent couples retreat where attendees said we “changed their lives” (and even saved marriages!). Ever wonder how to stay endlessly curious about your partner? Or how to master those tricky conversations that keep your connection thriving? We’ve got you covered with playful, practical advice that will make your relationship feel fresh, exciting, and deeply connected every day. What you’ll learn in this episode: The secret to staying endlessly curious — inspired by Esther Perel’s wisdom How to give and ask for permission to navigate tricky conversations with ease Creative ways to spice things up, including fun photoshoots and the magic of always using lube (yes, really!) Why communication is the ultimate umbrella for all relationship growth—plus the best resources to level up your skills A powerful 10-minute clip from our latest retreat where couples share how they found new hope and connection by joining the shameless sex revolution (and retreating themselves) Who’s this for? If you’re ready to reignite your long-term love, deepen your intimacy, and have some fun along the way, this episode is your new best friend. Plus, get insider access to exclusive tips, upcoming retreats, and 60 ideas to keep your sex and relationship vibrant when you sign up for our newsletter at shamelesssex.com, Teaser: Plus, we’re sharing a surprising tip that could transform your relationship overnight — you won’t want to miss it! Tune in now and start making your love story even spicier. Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in the Coachella Valley, CA September 11th-14th: https://tinyurl.com/49b9fx8b Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: ⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm⁠⁠⁠ Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order ⁠⁠⁠our book⁠⁠⁠ now! Go to ⁠⁠⁠shamelesssex.com⁠⁠⁠ to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our ⁠⁠⁠Amazon Wish List⁠⁠⁠ Other links: Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at ⁠⁠⁠http://masterclass.com/shameless⁠⁠⁠ Get 10% off VB Health with code SHAMELESS at ⁠http://loadboost.com⁠ Get 20% off our favorite soft-core kink products with code SHAMELESS at ⁠https://www.sportsheets.com⁠ Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at ⁠⁠⁠http://uberlube.com⁠⁠⁠ Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://OMGyes.com/shameless⁠⁠⁠ Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at ⁠⁠⁠http://purepleasureshop.com⁠⁠⁠
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    52 分
  • #435 Flirting, Club Chaos, and Sex Parties - with Dustin Rybka
    2025/05/27
    Dustin Rybka, host of the Sex Party podcast, joins us to share his story of moving from being a club promoter in the nightlife scene into the world of sex podcasting. It’s a no-holds-barred, laugh-out-loud conversation about his adventures, the crazy stories that kept him up all night, and how he went from innocent to insatiable—sometimes all in the same weekend. In this episode, you'll discover: How Dustin’s journey from the nightlight industry led him to podcasting about sex and dating Stories about asked to have sex with someone’s girlfriend or wife at the club The biggest lessons learned from 3 years and 170+ episodes of the Sex Party podcast Dustin’s future plans—-think OnlyFans, relationship adventures, and building his “Sex Party Empire” To join the fun and listen to his podcast, Sex Party with Dustin Rybka, visit sexparty.fm Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠our book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ now! Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shamelesssex.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Wish List⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Other links: Get 20% off our favorite soft core kink products with code SHAMELESS at http://sportsheets.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://uberlube.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://OMGyes.com/shameless⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://purepleasureshop.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
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    1 時間 7 分
  • Bonus Episode: Couples Need More Good LOVE - with Milah and Orlando
    2025/05/23
    In this mini episode we share a clip from episode ⁠#415 ⁠featuring dream couple Jamilah Mapp, a passionate author, sexologist, and tantric practitioner, alongside the charismatic Divine Masculine Orlando Roye, a sex-positive wellness advocate and educator. This dynamic duo is passionate about helping couples (re)connect, dive into deeper intimacy, and turn up the heat in the bedroom. Join them (we highly recommend it!) for their upcoming Good LOVE Couple’s Retreat⁠ in beautiful Costa Rica June 14-19, 2025. To sign up or learn more go to ⁠https://tinyurl.com/2hddekcx
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    19 分
  • #434: Kinky Power Toggle: Mastering the Art of the Switch with Orpheus Black
    2025/05/20
    In this electric Shameless Sex episode, BDSM mastermind Orpheus Black returns to decode the art of the Switch—the deliciously fluid player who can dominate, submit, and glide between the two with swagger and grace. Whether you suspect a Switch lives inside you or you’re already toggling roles but want more skill (and less whiplash), this conversation hands you the roadmap. What you’ll learn before the flogger even warms up: • Switch 101: how Orpheus defines Dominance, submission, and the magic zone where they meet. • The “Am I a Switch?” checklist—desires, tells, and green-flag feelings to watch for. • Rookie rules: scene negotiation, consent choreography, and aftercare when both partners’ needs flip. • Level-up tactics: pacing power exchanges, reading energy shifts, and avoiding the dreaded role-confusion hangover. • Lifestyle vs. play-only switching—how to keep everyday power dynamics healthy (and brunch-friendly). • The Ultimate Switch toolkit: mindset exercises, communication hacks, and ego elasticity drills straight from Orpheus’s playbook. • Where to dive deeper with workshops, coaching, and community at orpheusblack.com. Why your ears—and every other hotspot—will celebrate: • Turn role-hopping chaos into confident, consensual choreography. • Upgrade your communication skills faster than you can say “Yellow for a check-in.” • Amplify intimacy by understanding both sides of the whip—empathy is the new aphrodisiac. • Walk away with practical tools you can use tonight, not “someday.” Think you can’t have it all? Press play and let Orpheus show you how to claim the crown, kneel before it, and relish every switch in between. Dare to double your power? Tune in now. To learn more go to https://orpheusblack.com Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm⁠⁠⁠⁠ Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order ⁠⁠⁠⁠our book⁠⁠⁠⁠ now! Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠shamelesssex.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our ⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Wish List⁠⁠⁠⁠ Other links: Get 30% off The Perineum Massager with code SHAMELESS at ⁠⁠http://butterwellness.com⁠ Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at ⁠⁠⁠⁠http://uberlube.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://OMGyes.com/shameless⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at ⁠⁠⁠⁠http://purepleasureshop.com⁠⁠⁠⁠
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    1 時間 13 分
  • Bonus Episode: Mary Magdalene and Sacred Sexuality - with Renee Blodgett
    2025/05/16
    Novelist, curator, humanitarian, conscious business leader and modern mystic Renee Blodgett has lived multiple lives in one. Having traveled around the world, she has plenty of stories, from riding elephants in the Indian jungle and photographing polar bears in northern Canada to teaching English in Kenya, exploring glaciers in Iceland and selling kilims in Turkey. She has lived in eleven countries, including South Africa during Apartheid and the Gaza Strip. Her multicultural background and years of experience as a communications strategist have led to a career of uplifting others through content, speaking, coaching and leading. Known as a master of storytelling, she has written for several magazines and networks and her own award-winning online travel magazine, We Blog the World, which reaches over half a million globally. Renee has launched award-winning campaigns for start-ups and Fortune 500 brands for nearly thirty years and has appeared as a spokesperson on major network broadcast stations and global business media. Renee has worked with celebrities, actors, Grammy Award musicians and renowned technology entrepreneurs in Silicon Valley, Europe, Australia and Asia. Feeling that soul was missing from the industry, she launched Blue Soul Media, which serves as a bridge between Spirit and Business. Today, she helps women step into their authentic voices and embrace a life that aligns with their soul’s calling. Additionally, she teaches about consciousness with her partner and they lead retreats and membership programs focusing on heart-centered living, universal consciousness, masculine and feminine balance, and the connection to our human existence's inherent beauty and power. Their bestselling book Magdalene’s Journey encourages people to rethink our patriarchal-dictated history through the eyes of a pivotal woman. She feels that our traditional conditioning in the West, especially through Abrahamic religions, has led to women feeling shame around sex, their bodies and sensuality and, as a result, a loss of empowerment. She is also the host of her own podcast Blue Soul CHATS podcast and the Blue Soul Summit video series, where she has interviewed nearly a hundred visionaries. Renee also launched the Magdalene Collection, a jewelry line dedicated to women’s voices and unsung stories. Each piece is connected to one of nine archetypes we can all access at any time as a pathway to empowerment, rising above trauma and inner joy. Links to Offerings: · Websites: www.bluesoulearth.com and www.bluesoulmedia.com · Book Website: www.magdalenesjourney.com · Jewelry Line website: www.themagdalenecollection.com · Blue Soul CHATS Podcast: Blue Soul CHATS podcast · Blue Soul Summit video series: ⁠www.youtube.com/bluesoulearth · Blue Soul Earth on Instagram: www.instagram.com/bluesoulearth · Magdalene’s Journey on Instagram: www.instagram.com/magdalenesjourney · Magdalene Collection on Instagram: www.instagram.com/magdalenecollection · We Blog the World (travel magazine): www.weblogtheworld.com · Study with Spirit: Courses & Meditations: www.studywithspirit.com Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm⁠⁠⁠⁠ Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order ⁠⁠⁠⁠our book⁠⁠⁠⁠ now! Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠shamelesssex.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our ⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Wish List⁠⁠⁠⁠ Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at ⁠⁠⁠⁠http://uberlube.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://OMGyes.com/shameless⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at ⁠⁠⁠⁠http://purepleasureshop.com⁠⁠⁠⁠
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    49 分
  • #433 How to Have the Ultimate Sex - Keeley Rankin, M.A. Mashup
    2025/05/13
    Want to have the ultimate sex—whether you’ve got a pussy or a penis? In this Shameless Sex mashup episode, we’re diving deep into the most unforgettable moments with Keeley Rankin, M.A., a leading intimacy and relationship coach since 2010. From decoding orgasms to overcoming shame, Keeley’s expert insights will help you unlock new levels of pleasure, confidence, and connection. Here’s what you’ll learn: Proven techniques to enhance and expand your orgasmic pleasure (#199 All About Orgasms) How to navigate and overcome premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, and erectile challenges (#184) Powerful tools to shed penis shame and embrace your sexual self without judgment (#403 Overcoming Penis Shame) The transformative practice of “less doing, more being” to invite deeper pleasure and presence (#351 Less Doing + More Being = Hello Pleasure) Listen to the full episodes here: #199 All About Orgasms #184 Premature Ejaculation, Delayed Ejaculation and Ed #403 Overcoming Penis Shame #351 Less Doing + More Being = Hello Pleasure Why tune in? This episode is for anyone ready to break free from performance pressure, shame, or confusion—and step boldly into a sex life that feels joyful, authentic, and deeply satisfying. Keeley’s warm, no-nonsense guidance invites you to explore your pleasure with curiosity and ease, making this a must-listen for singles, couples, and anyone curious about their sexuality. About Keeley Rankin, M.A. Keeley Rankin has been a leading intimacy and relationship coach since 2010. As a trusted mentor, she supports singles and couples in having better sex, deeper relationships, and fully realizing their sexual potential. Want to dive deeper? Click the link in the show notes to learn more and access all of Keeley’s transformative work. Curious how slowing down can actually turn up the heat? Or how to reframe shame into self-love? Hit play and let Keeley guide you to your ultimate pleasure. Want to work with Keeley? Check out her online courses and offerings here: https://www.keeleyrankin.com/a/2147934532/hQuRK85L Get your hands on this deck-aaaaa: Vibrating Tarot crowdfunding campaign (all of our fave brands and sponsors are in the deck) - click link in show notes to support + get first access to deck https://www.backerkit.com/c/projects/pallor-publishing/vibrating-tarot Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour⁠⁠⁠ Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: ⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm⁠⁠⁠ Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order ⁠⁠⁠our book⁠⁠⁠ now! Go to ⁠⁠⁠shamelesssex.com⁠⁠⁠ to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our ⁠⁠⁠Amazon Wish List⁠⁠⁠ Other links: Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at ⁠⁠⁠http://masterclass.com/shameless⁠⁠⁠ Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at ⁠⁠⁠http://uberlube.com⁠⁠⁠ Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://OMGyes.com/shameless⁠⁠⁠ Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at ⁠⁠⁠http://purepleasureshop.com⁠⁠⁠
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    57 分
  • #432 P*$$y Power, Porn, and Playtime with Nina Hartley
    2025/05/06
    Get ready for a shameless discussion with the legendary, the iconic, and the amazing…Nina Hartley! Join Amy and April as they sit down in person with the iconic Nina Hartley on the Shameless Sex podcast. Known as "a legend in the adult world" by CNBC and an "advocate for sexual freedom" by Las Vegas Weekly, Nina brings decades of experience and insight to this candid conversation. With a career spanning over 1,000 adult films, numerous awards, and a reputation as a fierce advocate for sexual freedom, Nina brings her unique perspective and expertise to the conversation. Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode: How Nina went from nurse to sex educator to porn performer and creator, and what she's learned along the way A game-changing pussy-eating tip that will leave you (and your partner) begging for more The surprising truth about skin hunger and why we're all aching for touch What Big Dick Energy really means (and how to get it) The powerful ways in which embracing her queerness in the porn industry "saved" her and helped her find her true self The life-changing impact of "The Happy Hooker" book and how it influenced her approach to sex work Why Nina loves creating porn: it's not just about the sex – it's about helping people relax, feel pleasure, and connect with their bodies Benefits: By tuning in, you'll gain a deeper understanding of the importance of self-acceptance, shameless exploration, and authentic connection in your own sex life. Nina's wisdom, experience, and infectious enthusiasm will leave you feeling inspired, empowered, and ready to take your sex life to new heights. Teaser: Dive into this episode and unlock the magic of shameless sex with the legendary Nina Hartley! Get ready for a wild, honest, and unapologetically juicy conversation with a woman who's been breaking barriers and hearts for decades. Nina brings her wit, warmth, and wisdom to the table, leaving you craving more! Access more Nina Hartley: http://nina.live Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: ⁠⁠https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour⁠⁠ Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: ⁠⁠https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm⁠⁠ Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order ⁠⁠our book⁠⁠ now! Go to ⁠⁠shamelesssex.com⁠⁠ to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our ⁠⁠Amazon Wish List⁠⁠ Other links: Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at ⁠⁠http://masterclass.com/shameless⁠⁠ Get 10% off VB Health with code SHAMELESS at http://loadboost.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at ⁠⁠http://uberlube.com⁠⁠ Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠http://OMGyes.com/shameless⁠⁠ Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at ⁠⁠http://purepleasureshop.com⁠⁠
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    1 時間 7 分
  • #431 Mashup: Casual Sex to Unicorns to Threesomes - Reid's Best
    2025/04/29
    In this epic mashup episode of Shameless Sex, we're throwing it back to some of our favorite conversations with the incomparable Reid Mihalko. As a renowned sex educator, Reid has been a repeat guest on our show, and for good reason - his expertise and charisma are simply irresistible. Join us as we revisit some of the hottest topics from his previous episodes, guaranteed to leave you feeling informed, empowered, and maybe even a little bit naughty. In this mashup episode, you’ll hear clips and tips from Reid about: #105 Threesomes #326 Orgies and Play Parties #423 Are Unicorns Real? #5 Casual sex - first episode with a guest! Here's what you can expect to learn from this mashup episode: The dos and don'ts of navigating threesomes, orgies, and play parties The lowdown on unicorns: are they real, and how can you find (or become) one? The art of casual sex: how to do it right, wit Reid as our very first guest on Shameless Sex Tips and tricks for managing jealousy and non-monogamy in your relationships Reid Mihalko is the ultimate expert in all things sex and relationships. As a queer, polyamorous educator, speaker, and proud unicorn and slut, he's been featured on Netflix's "Chelsea Does..." and HBO's "Sex Diaries." With his quick wit, infectious enthusiasm, and wealth of knowledge, Reid is the perfect guide to help you navigate even the most complex topics. Teaser: So, what are you waiting for? Tune in to this mashup episode for a wild ride of sex education, laughter, and possibly even a few surprises. And don't forget to check out Reid's courses on jealousy, non-monogamy, threesomes, and more in our show notes. Buckle up, folks, and get ready to have your mind blown. As Reid would say, "Sex is a journey, not a destination" - and we can't wait to take this journey with you. To learn more go to reidaboutsex.com To access Reid’s wide range courses, click on the links below: Non monogamy: https://courses.reidaboutsex.com/a/2147505957/tHbhEyLe Jealousy: https://courses.reidaboutsex.com/a/2147505958/tHbhEyLe Threesomes: https://courses.reidaboutsex.com/a/2147505960/tHbhEyLe Casual sex: https://courses.reidaboutsex.com/a/2147505962/tHbhEyLe Sex parties: https://courses.reidaboutsex.com/a/2147524685/tHbhEyLe Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: ⁠https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour⁠ Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: ⁠https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm⁠ Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order ⁠our book⁠ now! Go to ⁠shamelesssex.com⁠ to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our ⁠Amazon Wish List⁠ Other links: Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at ⁠http://masterclass.com/shameless⁠ Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at ⁠http://uberlube.com⁠ Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at ⁠ ⁠⁠http://OMGyes.com/shameless⁠ Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at ⁠http://purepleasureshop.com⁠ For products in this episode: The Sportsheets Pivot 2 in 1 Force-O thigh harness (get 20% off with code SHAMELESSSEX at https://www.sportsheets.com) The Magic Wand (get 15% off with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com)
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    50 分