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  • 365: How Do You Pick The Perfect Partner in Love

    365: How Do You Pick The Perfect Partner in Love
    2024/10/02

    "The person you choose in your life, I should say, can catapult you to live your purpose and take you to greater heights or can take you down.”

    In this episode of Soul Talk, I’m diving into the profound journey of choosing the perfect partner for love and growth. We often wonder how to find that one special person, and I’m here to shed light on how to make this crucial choice. The key is understanding that while no one is perfect, there is someone who is perfect for you. It’s about finding a connection that aligns with your soul's evolution.

    We’ll explore three essential elements: Connection, Consciousness, and Compatibility. Connection is vital, but it’s not everything; you also need to assess your partner’s consciousness and your mutual growth potential. Remember, choosing a partner out of need or unresolved issues only leads to suffering. Instead, focus on someone who enhances your journey and supports your highest self.

    Tune in to discover how to attract the right person who will help you grow and thrive.

    Timestamps:

    • (00:03:10) - Navigating imperfections in a three-dimensional world of duality.
    • (00:05:49) - Relationships Reflect Your Healing Journey.
    • (00:09:13) - Avoid Need-Based Relationships.
    • (00:12:08) - Be Aware of Conditioning.
    • (00:14:19) - Love and connection alone cannot sustain a relationship without compatibility and growth.
    • (00:16:12) - Partners should be aligned in their willingness to grow and evolve.(00:19:27) - Compatibility is key in sustaining relationships long-term.
    • (00:24:06) - Trusting your partner's soul and integrity is fundamental to a healthy relationship.

    Some Questions I Ask:

    • How can you transform it into a tool for self-growth?
    • What steps can you take to heal emotionally after a breakup and regain your confidence?
    • How can you recognize codependent behavior in yourself or your partners?
    • What lessons have you learned from past relationships that contributed to your personal growth and self-awareness?
    • How do you balance personal independence?

    In This Episode You Will Learn:

    • How to Overcome Fear of Loneliness in Relationships.
    • The three key elements for choosing the ideal partner.
    • How to master the art of clear and compassionate communication with your partner.
    • How to Recognize Red Flags in Dating.
    • Key insights on how to heal after a breakup and rebuild Your confidence.
    • The Importance of Identifying and Overcoming Codependency.

    LINKS

    Get in Touch:

    • Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com
    • Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com

    Events with Kute Blackson:

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    Create a life that is a masterpiece!

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    27 分
  • 364: Mary Morrissey on The Art and Science of Creating The Life You Love

    364: Mary Morrissey on The Art and Science of Creating The Life You Love
    2024/09/24
    “If one advances confidently in the direction of their dreams, endeavoring to live the life they’ve imagined, they pass an invisible boundary.” In this episode of the SoulTalk podcast, Mary Morrissey returns for another inspiring conversation. As a leading authority in personal development and founder of the Brave Thinking Institute, Mary shares her transformative insights on navigating change and harnessing the power of vision. With a remarkable journey that includes overcoming significant challenges, Mary delves into the process of letting go of past attachments and embracing new possibilities. She discusses the profound difference between persevering through difficulties and recognizing when it's time to pivot, emphasizing the importance of making decisions from a place of expansion rather than fear. Mary explores how to maintain faith in your dreams even when faced with setbacks and highlights the critical role of aligning your thoughts with your goals. Through her personal experiences and practical advice, she offers valuable strategies for overcoming obstacles and achieving your aspirations. She also underscores the significance of understanding and practicing universal laws and how they can shift your perspective to create extraordinary outcomes. Tune in to discover how to move forward confidently in the direction of your dreams, learn from challenges, and unlock your full potential for happiness and success. Timestamps: (00:02:25) - Abundance and the Nature of Life. (00:05:08) - Biggest Blocks to Manifesting Abundance. (00:07:11) - Shifting from Scarcity to Abundance. (00:11:39) - Creating a Clear Vision for Abundance. (00:14:44) - The Gift of Imagination: Envisioning a Life You Love. (00:18:28) - Advancing Confidently Toward Your Dream. (00:26:09) - Partnering with a Higher Power. (00:34:00) - Can We Manifest Anything? (00:39:00) - Visualization and Holding the Vibration. (00:43:00) - Practical Steps and The Art of Sourcing Ideas. (00:46:33) - Letting Go and Embracing New Dreams. Some Questions I Ask: When someone has a dream or vision, how do they discern when to continue and when to let go?Is there any guidance you can give on when to persevere with a vision and when to realize it may no longer be aligned with your path?Could you share how people can connect with you and find out about what you have going on?Could you just share that Thoreau quote again? In This Episode You Will Learn: How to gracefully release projects or phases in your life that no longer serve you to make space for new opportunities.Discover key methods for evaluating whether to continue with your goals or pivot based on alignment with your long-term vision.How transforming negative thinking into a positive mindset can help you navigate and overcome obstacles effectively.How using visualization and affirmations can enhance your ability to manifest your dreams, even in challenging times.Recognize the benefits of regularly engaging with motivational content to drive significant personal and professional growth.Discover how embracing Henry David Thoreau’s wisdom about pursuing your dreams can lead to transformative changes in your life. LINKS MARY MORRISEY URL: https://www.marymorrissey.com https://www.bravethinkinginstitute.com Mary Morrisey’s previous Soultalk episodes: http://podcast.kuteblackson.com/304-mary-morrissey-on-how-to-create-a-life-you-love Get in Touch: Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com Events with Kute Blackson: Join me on a life-changing journey in Bali this December. Apply here: www.boundlessblissbali.com -- Create a life that is a masterpiece! Join me on a life-changing journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com What if today was your last day? : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y6BzFzBqFBU
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    59 分
  • 363: The 4 Keys to Activating the Power of Your Subconscious Mind to Turn Your Dreams Into Reality

    363: The 4 Keys to Activating the Power of Your Subconscious Mind to Turn Your Dreams Into Reality
    2024/09/17

    "The subconscious mind doesn't know the difference between reality and imagination”.

    In this episode of SoulTalk, I unpack the profound secrets of the subconscious mind and reveal four essential keys that can help you unlock its incredible power to manifest your dreams. I delve into how the subconscious shapes our reality, offering deep insights and practical strategies to shift your thoughts, beliefs, and actions into alignment with your highest desires. I explain how the subconscious mind shapes our reality and how to use it to support you in fulfilling your dreams.

    You’ll learn how to break free from limiting programming, elevate your consciousness, and step into your power as a creator. Whether you're seeking to overcome obstacles, deepen your spiritual awareness, or turn your dreams into reality, this episode provides transformative tools and guidance to help you access the limitless potential within.

    Ready to access the limitless potential within? Listen to this episode and learn how to turn your dreams into reality while embracing a life filled with abundance and success.

    Timestamps:

    • (00:03:35) - Understanding the subconscious mind.
    • (00:06:40) - The Subconscious vs.Conscious Mind.
    • (00:10:13) - Why the first seven years of life are crucial to shaping your subconscious programming.
    • (00:14:29) - Subconscious Programming and Manifestation.
    • (00:19:02) - First Key to Activate the Power of Your Subconscious Mind.
    • (00:20:24) - Second Key to Activate the Power of Your Subconscious Mind.
    • (00:22:46) - Third Key to Activate the Power of Your Subconscious Mind.
    • (00:25:16) - Fourth Key to Activate the Power of Your Subconscious Mind.
    • (00:27:12) - Aligning your beliefs with your conscious intentions.

    Some Questions I Ask:

    • What is the role of the subconscious mind in shaping our reality?
    • How does childhood programming influence the way we think and act as adults?
    • What are the main differences between the conscious and subconscious mind?
    • How can we identify limiting beliefs held in the subconscious mind?
    • How can visualization and affirmations be used to reprogram the subconscious?
    • What practical steps can listeners take today to start transforming their subconscious patterns?

    In This Episode You Will Learn:

    • How the subconscious mind controls much of your life through beliefs, habits, and past experiences.
    • The difference between the conscious and subconscious mind, and how they work together to shape your reality.
    • Why early childhood plays a critical role in forming your subconscious programming.
    • The four essential keys to reprogramming your subconscious mind for success.
    • Practical tools to identify and overcome self-sabotaging beliefs and thought patterns that hold you back.
    • How to synchronize your inner world with your highest goals to create lasting change.

    LINKS

    Get in Touch:

    • Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com
    • Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com

    Events with Kute Blackson:

    Join me on a life-changing journey in Bali this December. Apply here: www.boundlessblissbali.com

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    Create a life that is a masterpiece!

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    30 分
  • 362: Shelly Lefkoe on How to Raise Confident and Empowered Children. (Part 2)

    362: Shelly Lefkoe on How to Raise Confident and Empowered Children. (Part 2)
    2024/09/10
    "Your children are not here to live up to your expectations. They are here to do their lives, and you are here to guide them and keep them safe until they can do that on their own.” In this episode of the SoulTalk podcast, Shelley Lefkoe, co-founder of the Lefkoe Institute joins us again for a continuation of the previous episode. She shares her transformative insights on parenting and breaking free from limiting beliefs. Shelley emphasizes the importance of raising confident, empowered children by fostering curiosity and emotional well-being instead of fear. She discusses how to communicate with children in a way that builds self-worth and independence, using acknowledgment overpraise. Shelley also explains how parents can avoid passing on their fears and limiting beliefs to their kids. Throughout the episode, Shelley offers real-life examples and practical advice for creating stronger, healthier family relationships. Her approach focuses on unconditional love and empowering children to live authentically. Shelly also highlights how breaking generational patterns leads to greater fulfillment and abundance for both parents and children. Listen to this episode and learn how to transform your parenting journey for a more connected, empowered family life. Timestamps: (00:03:23) - Overview of Human Nature and Self-Perception.(00:07:00) - The complex nature of human self-awareness.(00:13:38) - On Self-Identity and External Influence.(00:21:35) - Impact of Technology and Social Media on Self-Perception.(00:27:03) - Importance of Inner Awareness and Personal Growth.(00:34:28) - Discusses the difference between praise and acknowledgment.(00:38:36) - Children are not here to meet parents' expectations.(00:40:13) - Talks about the impact of fear of not meeting expectations.(00:43:24) - Shelley’s personal experience with peer pressure and decision-making.(00:45:37) - The challenge of parental expectations and control.(00:51:16) - The ego behind pushing children to succeed.(00:54:58) - Inspiration to struggling parents. Some Questions I Ask: Do you think you're making your child feel good when you pamper them?How often do you say, “Great job!”? What happens when children don't get that praise? What can you say to a parent in this whole idea that your children are not here to fulfill your dream, your idea, and live up to your expectations?Can you elaborate on the idea of giving children power so they don't have to constantly test the universe to see if they have it? Is there ever a valid place for molding children according to a parent's expectations?How can parents balance their desire for their children to be successful with allowing them to follow their paths and passions? In This Episode You Will Learn: How to nurture children’s self-worth through acknowledgment, not praise, to foster lifelong fulfillment.What empowers confident decision-making in children, to achieve independence and abundance.Discovering the importance of children defining their paths, to unlock their potential.Key strategies to avoid approval-seeking behavior, to cultivate authentic self-confidence.How autonomy builds trust and confidence in children, helping them achieve success and personal growth.Discovering the balance between guidance and independence, to create a foundation for fulfillment and abundance. LINKS Shelley Lefkoe’s URL: https://www.mortylefkoe.com Shelley Lefkoe’s previous Soultalk episodes: https://kuteblackson.com/soultalk_podcast/shelley-lefkoe/ Get in Touch: Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.comVisit my website: www.kuteblackson.com Events with Kute Blackson: Join me on a life-changing journey in Bali this December. Apply here: www.boundlessblissbali.com -- Create a life that is a masterpiece! Join me on a life-changing journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com What if today was your last day? : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y6BzFzBqFBU
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    1 時間
  • 361: Shelly Lefkoe on How to Overcome Limiting Beliefs and Rewrite Your Life’s Story (Part 1)

    361: Shelly Lefkoe on How to Overcome Limiting Beliefs and Rewrite Your Life’s Story (Part 1)
    2024/09/10

    "All meaning is in your mind. If meaning is in your mind, do events have inherent meaning? No.”

    Shelly co-founded The Lefkoe Institute and is a renowned expert in personal development, shares her profound insights on how deeply ingrained beliefs shape our lives. With over 30 years of experience, Shelly has guided thousands in breaking free from limiting beliefs that hold them back.

    She explains how these beliefs, often formed during childhood, unconsciously influence our choices, relationships, and sense of self-worth. Shelly reveals the difference between grieving and suffering, the importance of challenging our internal narratives, and how to build empowering beliefs.

    Through personal stories and practical advice, she offers strategies to overcome trauma, self-sabotage, and fear. Shelly also emphasizes the need to stop seeking external validation and identify subconscious blocks to happiness.

    Her approach is not just about overcoming adversity but about transforming your mindset to create lasting joy and fulfillment. Tune in to learn how to unlock your true potential by reshaping the meaning you attach to life’s events to achieve happiness and abundance.

    Timestamps:

    • (00:03:25) - Shelley introduces her late husband Morty’s quest to understand why people don’t act on what they know.
    • (00:05:52) - The process Morty developed to help people eliminate limiting beliefs.
    • (00:07:38) - Differences between patterns and beliefs.
    • (00:11:35) - How beliefs are formed in childhood from observable patterns.
    • (00:17:53) - Discussion on how to identify beliefs.
    • (00:24:28) - How beliefs around safety and expression impact one's ability to communicate confidently.
    • (00:31:09) - Our minds and how meanings are created.
    • (00:36:28) - How meanings are socially constructed.
    • (00:39:26) - Trust issues in relationships.
    • (00:42:00) - How to alter the meaning of past events.
    • (00:52:14) - Personal responsibility in reshaping our narratives and healing from trauma.

    Some Questions I Ask:

    • How did you develop self-confidence?
    • How do we become aware that something is a belief?
    • What is the distinction between opinion and conscious assessment?
    • What did they have to believe to act that way?
    • How do we eliminate limiting beliefs?

    In This Episode You Will Learn:

    • How to recognize that meaning is created in the mind, not in events themselves order to free you from emotional suffering.
    • How to eliminate limiting beliefs to unlock new possibilities and live without constant self-doubt.
    • Understanding how beliefs formed in the past control our emotional responses.
    • How to reframe negative experiences and find alternative interpretations that empower rather than disempower you.
    • How to eliminate beliefs like "I’m not good enough" to live more authentically and focused.

    LINKS

    Shelley Lefkoe’s URL: https://www.mortylefkoe.com

    Shelley Lefkoe’s previous Soultalk episodes: https://kuteblackson.com/soultalk_podcast/shelley-lefkoe/

    Get in Touch:

    • Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com
    • Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com

    Events with Kute Blackson:

    Join me on a life-changing journey in Bali this December. Apply here: www.boundlessblissbali.com

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    59 分
  • 360: The 8 Types of Intuition and How to Unlock Your Infinite Power

    360: The 8 Types of Intuition and How to Unlock Your Infinite Power
    2024/09/03

    "The intellect is to the mind. The instinct is to the body, but intuition is to the soul.”

    In this episode of SoulTalk, I dive deep into the power of intuition and how it shapes our lives. Intuition isn't just a gut feeling—it's a guiding force that knows the truth. Trusting my intuition has led to some of the best decisions of my life, ones that didn’t always make sense to others but were perfectly aligned with my true path.

    We'll discuss the dangers of over-rationalizing our instincts and the importance of trusting that inner voice, even when it contradicts everything around us. I’ll also cover how fear often tries to drown out intuition and how you can navigate through it.

    Tune in to this episode and learn how to harness your intuition, recognize the difference between fear and intuition, and make decisions that truly align with your highest good. You will learn what it is, why it matters, and how it can be a game-changer in your life

    Timestamps:

    • (00:01:15) - Overview of the eight types of intuition.
    • (00:04:30) - How to identify your dominant type of intuition and how it influences your decision-making process.
    • (00:09:15) - Practical tips on how to strengthen your intuition.
    • (00:14:00) - Real-life examples and stories illustrating the power of intuition.
    • (00:18:09) - First type of intuition.
    • (00:19:02) - Second type of intuition.
    • (00:19:41) - Third type of intuition.
    • (00:21:36) - Fourth type of intuition.
    • (00:22:02) - The fifth type of intuition.
    • (00:23:59) - Sixth and seventh type of intuition.
    • (00:26:57) - Final type of intuition.
    • (00:28:30) - Steps to unlock your infinite power.

    Some Questions I Ask:

    • What are the different types of intuition, and how can you identify your dominant intuitive sense?
    • How can daily mindfulness practices enhance your intuitive abilities?
    • What are the key misconceptions people have about intuition, and how can they be overcome?
    • How does intuition play a role in making big and small life decisions?
    • Can you share real-life examples where trusting intuition led to significant outcomes?
    • What are the three essential steps to unlocking your infinite potential through intuition?

    In This Episode You Will Learn:

    • How to identify the eight different types of intuition.
    • Powerful daily practices and mindfulness in strengthening your intuitive abilities.
    • Three key steps to unlock your infinite potential by trusting your intuition.
    • Practical steps to overcome common misconceptions about intuition.
    • How to integrate intuition into your decision-making process to open the doors of success and abundance.
    • How to discern between intuition and ego.

    LINKS

    Get in Touch:

    Please email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com

    Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com

    Events with Kute Blackson:

    Join me on a life-changing journey in Bali this December. Apply here: www.boundlessblissbali.com

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    35 分
  • 359: John Gray on Beyond Mars and Venus: Never before shared secrets to creating Success

    359: John Gray on Beyond Mars and Venus: Never before shared secrets to creating Success
    2024/08/27
    "I think authenticity is a big part of my secrets. I only teach what I live.” In this week’s episode of the SoulTalk podcast, John Gray returns to the podcast to share profound insights on personal growth, his success secrets and wisdom regards relationship dynamics. John Gray's mega best-selling:“Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus.” has been on of the most influential books of the last 25 years. In this episode, he speaks about the transformative journey of writing his iconic book and overcoming early publishing struggles. He explores the spiritual and creative processes that shaped his work and personal development, revealing never before shared secrets behind his global success. Tune in to gain valuable perspectives on achieving true success and inner harmony. This episode offers actionable advice and inspiration for anyone looking to deepen their understanding of relationships, money and living one’s purpose... Timestamps: (00:03:15) - The importance of authenticity. (00:05:54) - John Gray’s early struggles with his iconic book. (00:07:34) - The impact of John’s mentor on his development and success. (00:09:13) - The importance of following one’s heart and breaking the rules. (00:14:39) - How connecting with others and understanding their stories help build empathy. (00:16:47) - Balancing masculine and feminine energies. (00:21:05) - Writing Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. (00:32:22) - Transformation through challenges. (00:36:02) - How to embrace uncertainty. (00:41:03) - The power of self-compassion. (00:47:43) - The importance of inner peace. (00:51:04) - Significance of gratitude in maintaining a positive outlook. Some Questions I Ask: Has there been a real secret to your success as an author? How much does Karma play into life and Relationships? How did you manage to stay optimistic and keep going? Does everyone have a soulmate? What insights did you gain from the "dark night of the soul" and how did they shape your empathy and understanding? How did understanding women’s emotions influence your writing and counseling practices? Can you share how your early struggles influenced your persistence and creative marketing efforts? In This Episode You Will Learn: How to connect with your authentic voice. The role of Karma in success and how to shift it. The power of persistence and how to cultivate it. How to balance masculine and feminine energies to enhance creativity.The most powerful questions to ask yourself during difficult times.Understanding the stages of spiritual enlightenment. LINKS JOHN GRAY’S URL: marsvenus.com PREVIOUS SOULTALK EPISODES: https://kuteblackson.com/soultalk_podcast/john-gray-3/ http://podcast.kuteblackson.com/329-john-gray-on-how-to-navigate-love-and-relationships-in-todays-modern-world Get in Touch: Please email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com Events with Kute Blackson: Join me on a life-changing journey in Bali this December. Apply here: www.boundlessblissbali.com Create a life that is a masterpiece! Join me on a life-changing journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com What if today was your last day? : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y6BzFzBqFBU
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    1 時間 2 分
  • 358: The Gift of Challenges and the Blessings of Difficult Times

    358: The Gift of Challenges and the Blessings of Difficult Times
    2024/08/20
    “ As you become stronger, your capacity to deal with bigger levels of challenge grow your capacity to handle harder and more difficult situations.” Episode Summary Are you ready to unlock the true power within you? Challenges are more than just obstacles, they're the key to your growth, the tests that shape your soul, and the path to your highest purpose. Imagine living a life where every difficulty is a stepping stone, not a stumbling block. A life where you face each challenge with strength, resilience, and gratitude, knowing it's here to make you stronger and more powerful than ever before. If you're tired of feeling overwhelmed by life's challenges, it's time to shift your perspective and embrace the lessons they hold. It's time to stop resisting and start growing. Join us as we dive deep into how you can transform your challenges into opportunities for profound personal and spiritual growth. Learn how to stand in your power, align with your true purpose, and create a life that's not just about surviving but thriving. TIMESTAMPS (03:59)- The Gift of Challenges: "Life is a process of being challenged. You don’t reach a point where the challenges stop; they only get bigger as you grow." (07:21) - Life as a University for Your Soul: "Life is a university for your soul's growth and evolution. Every challenge is a classroom designed for you to grow through." (09:25)- The Unpredictable Nature of Challenges: "Challenges just show up. Sometimes they appear when you’re not prepared, when you least expect them. This is life. Welcome to the world." (12:21) - The Power of Acceptance and Surrender: "The first step to dealing with challenges is acceptance. To thrive, you must accept and then surrender to the experience." (15:32) - Gratitude During Challenges: "A true sign that you are growing spiritually is being in gratitude for the challenge while you’re going through it, not just after it’s over." (16:24) - Affirming Your Readiness for Challenges: "Affirm your readiness. Say it out loud: 'I am ready!' This starts activating your inner resources." (18:18)- The Soul’s Graduation Test: "The challenge you’re facing is your soul’s graduation test, preparing you for the next level of your life." (23:21) - Unlocking Your True Power: "Your challenge is also a blessing and a gift, a reflection of your soul’s desire to experience how powerful you really are." Some Questions I Ask: Are you fighting or being a victim? What did I do to attract this situation I’m facing on? What is the blessing and the gift that this difficulty, this ease, this heartbreak, this person is seeking to teach me? Why did my soul attract this experience? Will you fall into old addictions or will you align and own what you know? In this Episode you will learn: The importance of accepting reality as a way to deal with your challenges. How to activate your inner resources in order to remind you of the strength and power you already possess. How to reframe your difficult times as an opportunity for your growth and evolution. Developing mental emotional fortitude to be able to handle the bigness of your purpose. Pushing yourself to discover your true potential. LINKS Get in Touch: Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.comVisit my website: www.kuteblackson.com Events with Kute Blackson: Join me on a life-changing journey in Bali this December. Apply here: www.boundlessblissbali.com Create a life that is a masterpiece! Join me on a life-changing journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com What if today was your last day? : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y6BzFzBqFBU
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    26 分