The Minimalists speak with clinical psychologist Orion Taraban about minimizing dating clutter to form more meaningful intimate relationships.

Discussed in this episode:

Any advice for dating again after the end of a long relationship? (2:08)

How do I avoid carrying past baggage into future relationships? (15:32)

Why does Dr. Taraban encourage his clients not to date? (26:49)

Does hookup culture make it harder to meet people who want a genuine connection? (35:03)

Do dating apps make it harder to commit to a relationship? (38:41)

How do I decide whether it’s time to move on from a difficult relationship? (40:43)

Are great relationships effortless, or do they take work to maintain? (46:39)

How can you tell whether a date will be worthwhile or a waste of time? (52:35)

Listener tip: How to minimize while unpacking after a trip. (56:40)

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Recorded at Earthing Studios.

The Minimalists speak with Harvard professor Arthur Brooks, author of Build the Life You Want, about the art and science of happiness.

Discussed in this episode:

How do I deal with the intense dissatisfaction I feel when I struggle to let go? (1:50)

What role does worry play in our unhappiness? (17:12)

What are the three main ingredients in happiness? (19:42)

How do our reactions shape our happiness? (32:40)

How does the weather affect our happiness? (36:17)

What’s preventing you from being happy right now? (39:00)

Listener tip: Would I repurchase this thing? (44:43)

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Recorded at Earthing Studios.

The Minimalists discuss the new “Underconsumption Core” trend that set the Internet ablaze.

Discussed in this episode:

Why do I feel compelled to buy new clothes even though I already have enough? (2:18)

What’s the last thing you didn’t buy? (22:58)

Listener tip: What to do with old awards, trophies, and sentimental items. (38:50)

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Recorded at Earthing Studios.

The Minimalists talk about leaving behind a legacy without leaving behind material possessions.

Discussed in this episode:

What are The Minimalists’ thoughts on leaving behind a legacy? (1:51)

If you were to die today, what would you leave behind? (14:36)

When is The Minimalists’ next live event? (27:25)

Listener tip: Seasonal decluttering of digital photos. (34:11)

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Recorded at Earthing Studios.

The Minimalists talk about the clutter that appears every time we are unnecessarily reactive or defensive in our interactions with others.

Discussed in this episode:

How can I be less defensive when interacting with others? (2:10)

Of all the things that push your buttons, what’s one thing you have a hard time not reacting to? (37:57)

From whom did The Minimalists receive a grant? (51:00)

Listener tip: Buy nothing for a month! (55:54)

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Recorded at Earthing Studios.

The Minimalists speak with Carl Lentz about the deep breach of trust that accompanies cheating in a romantic relationship.

Discussed in this episode:

How did Carl Lentz’s life come crashing down at the height of his fame? (2:47)

How did “lifestyle clutter” contribute to Lentz’s infidelity? (4:18)

What unexpected areas of Lentz’s life were affected by his extramarital affair? (7:19)

What steps are required to make amends after you’ve hurt someone you love? (16:39)

How do I avoid blaming others for the mistakes I’ve made? (24:47)

What role did apologizing and forgiveness play in Lentz’s healing? (27:47)

What self-defeating stories lead to adultery? (39:45)

What are the commonalities between most cases of unfaithfulness? (42:15)

What’s your definition of infidelity? (54:15)

Listener tip: Just say no to free things! (1:02:23)

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The Minimalists talk about the need for rest in a restless world.

Discussed in this episode:

How do I get my kids to adhere to a more reasonable bedtime so I can go to bed earlier? (1:47)

What's one thing that’s stopping you from getting the rest you need? (23:51)

Listener tip: Realize what you want by getting rid of what you don’t need. (44:51)

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The Minimalists talk about counting material possessions, decluttering other people’s possessions, and more.

Discussed in this episode:

What’s the best way to count my material possessions? (1:40)

What’s one thing you’d like to declutter from someone else’s life? (20:50)

Right Here, Right Now: Who is The Minimalists’ newest team member? (32:42)

Listener tip: What’s the best way to declutter the contacts on your phone? (35:06)

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