Hi Milkers!

It’s Pride Month, and what better way to kick it off than with New York Times–bestselling bisexual author and podcaster Amanda Montell? Author of Cultish, Wordslut, and The Age of Magical Overthinking—one of the many questions she poses is: Why, despite living in the information age, does life only seem to make less sense?

We cover the psychology behind fandom, social media, cults, cognitive biases, crushes (or in Ian’s case, Gods) that live rent-free in your head, why Captain Hook might be the ultimate gay icon, and how overthinking is BOTH a glitch and a feature.

This one’s for the girls, the gays, and the theys who Google their feelings.

Milkers! This week, the boys sit down with the one and only Mario Cantone — aka Anthony Marentino from Sex and the City and And Just Like That — Join us for a wildly candid convo.

We talk everything from his role in And Just Like That, his time with Sondheim, his sourdough side hustle, and the divas that raised him.

Mario shares with us getting “the call” to come back to the Sex and the City franchise, filming love scenes in his 60s, his DMs post-premiere, and how therapy helps (but won’t fix your hole). Come for the Judy Garland impressions, stay for the Kathleen Turner vodka story. We know you’re gonna love it.

This week, Ian, Juan, and Johnny are back with a chaotic, hilarious catch-up and a return to their beloved Spilled Milk. Ian’s in his main character era as he steps into rehearsals for Prosperous Fools by Taylor Mac, Johnny spills all about hosting the red carpet for the opening of the Tryst Hotel in Puerto Vallarta (yes, with Julia Fox), and Juan does what he does best — gently drags us toward emotional clarity.

We get into the art of ghosting (and why you shouldn’t come crawling back just because your ex is thriving), reflect on the ex-texts that live rent-free in our brains, and offer some lovingly blunt advice to the heartbroken “love girls” out there.

It’s juicy, it’s unhinged, it’s Tres Leches.

Drink up.