Recorded before last week's election as a much-needed palette cleanser...

The leches serve up three spicy helpings of Spilled Milk advice this week! What do you do when your ex tells you they "lowered their standards" (THE AUDACITY!)? How do you handle mismatched libidos? And should you join a throuple with famous adult film stars when you're not even sure if you're poly? Plus, the trio dives deep into failed talking stages, why you should stop worrying about sharks when you're not even in the water, and a heated debate about whether deleting Grindr just means sliding into Instagram DMs instead. Come get your weekly serving of the gayest, most delicious Latin cake on the internet.

🎃 Welcome to Tres Leches’ Spooktacular Halloween Special! This week, dive into a bubbling cauldron of laughter and LOL moments as we dissect niche gay Halloween costumes. From meme-inspired ensembles to pop culture phenomena, get ready to giggle at the outrageous and admire the inventive.

Juan gets personal, sharing why Halloween and holidays have sometimes been tough the last couple of year. He opens up about not wanting to become a ‘bitter old bitch’, and learning to enjoy life’s pleasures, even without a significant other. Although, if he had a boyfriend he would have insisted they go as José and Kitty Menendez—now that’s a couple’s costume missed!

Meanwhile, Ian escapes the Halloween frenzy for a serene retreat upstate, seeking peace before the pre-election chaos. And Johnny? He’s here with his nuggets of wisdom that somehow make everything better.

Strap in for a ‘Spooky Dooky Halloween’ that’s part ADHD fever dream, part heartfelt journey through the specters of our lives. It’s weird, it’s wild, and it’s exactly the distraction you need. 🧙‍♂️👻

Celebrate one fabulous year with Tres Leches! 🎉 On this special anniversary episode, we dive into a sparkling retrospective of the moments that shaped us—from the iconic Cher vs. Tina debate to the birth of 27PLUS. It’s been a year of blessed friendships, profound reflections on love and loss, and embracing our unabashed gayness, all wrapped in the spirit of the First Wives Club.

Join us as we revisit these highlights, fueled by the stories and support you’ve shared. Your messages and encounters have enriched this journey, and we’re thrilled to step into another year of adventures with you. Pour a glass of your favorite indulgence and toast to the resilience of friendship, the joy of being, and the promise of more unforgettable moments. Here’s to love, laughter, and another year of Tres Leches magic—because the best is yet to come! With love, from your three milks. 🍰❤️

Join us on Tres Leches for an episode that’s truly one-of-a-kind! Latino Heritage Month ended yesterday, so we’re featuring two Latinos we’re not so proud of. We delve into the gripping Netflix series ‘Monsters,’ which explores the tumultuous lives of the Menendez brothers. In a bizarre twist of programming, we segue from the dark tale of the Menendez siblings into the colorful and often hilarious tales of our own Latino upbringings.

From tales of overprotective mothers to the festive chaos of family gatherings, we share the poignant and often hilarious moments that shaped us.

It’s an exploration of the quirks and charms that define Latino families, ensuring you that—unlike the Menendez narrative—ours are full of warmth, laughter, and life.

This episode isn’t just about looking back; it’s about celebrating the rich tapestry of stories that we carry with us, proving that while our heritage may be complex, it’s also incredibly colorful and filled with love. Tune in as we trace the lines from our past, understand our present, and laugh about it all.

btw Judalon - is not invited to Noche Buena!

Hold on to your gowns, folks—Johnny Sibilly is here, and he’s brought Emmy gold with him! This week on Tres Leches, we’re bursting with joy straight from the 76th Emmy Awards, celebrating ‘Hacks’ as it clinches the top comedy prize.

Join us as Johnny spills the tea on what it’s like to be part of TV’s favorite comedy this year. From Liza Colón-Zayas’ historic win to John Leguizamo’s powerful call for better Latino representation, this Emmy night was truly unforgettable. Plus, we’ll dive into Jean Smart’s hilarious acceptance, Anna Sawai’s impactful victory, and the delightful ‘Schitt’s Creek’ reunion that had us all cheering.

But the real magic happened with Johnny and the ‘Hacks’ team, who reminded us why laughter is the best medicine. Hear directly from Johnny about the thrill of being at the center of Hollywood’s biggest night.

So, put on your sparkliest attire and tune in for an episode filled with stars, stories, and unmatched style. We’re celebrating all things Emmys and all things ‘Hacks,’ proving once again that nobody does it quite like Tres Leches and Johnny Sibilly.

As three gay men who cut our teeth on the romantic revolution at the beginning of this new millennium, we’ve seen our share of love’s evolutions. This week on Tres Leches, we delve into the world of polyamory. We’re tuning into psychotherapist Esther Perel’s fascinating discussion, "The Arc of Love: The Poly Dinner Party," from her acclaimed podcast *Where Should We Begin?*

Esther invites poly couples to lay it all out on the table, and we’re here to dissect each moment—from the highs of abundant love to the challenges of jealousy and everything in between. Expect to hear snippets from the episode that sparked our curiosity and provoked plenty of debates among us. Can jealousy be a tool to grow a relationship? That’s one of the questions we explore.

We’re unpacking the good, the bad, and the complicated with our usual flair. This isn’t just about understanding polyamory; it’s about exploring what it can teach all of us about love, relationships, and ourselves. Get ready for a titillating conversation that dives into the heart of modern romance.

It’s spicy, it’s insightful, and it’s unabashedly Tres Leches.

This week on Tres Leches, we’re celebrating the sensational Jools Lebron, a trans-Latina content creator who has captured our hearts and has the internet’s algorithm in a demure chokehold. An we’ve got something to to say those that tired of the trend! 👊🏾 just you wait, Henry Higgins!

You might justifiably be tired of our chats about gay vacations and Fire Island, but bear with us—we’ve got a bit more to share today, all in the pursuit of discussing something truly important.

We dive deep into the productivity complex, exploring how we tie our worth to our output. From vacation guilt to daily to-dos, we unravel the pressure to earn our leisure and joy. Ian shares his personal battle with balancing work and downtime, offering insights that resonate on a universal level.

In our ‘Spilled Milk’ segment, we tackle a Brooklyn couple’s clash between living large and saving smart—a perfect showdown of ‘brat’ vs. ‘demure’ lifestyles. Roar!

We’re really trying to be demure - but we’re just three brazen broads.

This week on Tres Leches, join Juan as he embarks on his first trip of the year to Fire Island, bringing you a special episode straight from this iconic homosexual hotspot. Amidst the sandy shores and summer vibes, Juan engages in a profound exploration of self-discovery, confronting his longstanding reliance on men’s attention as his primary, if not sole, source of self-worth. This isn’t just a vacation; it’s a transformative unpacking of deep-seated validation habits.

In a candid reflection reminiscent of Carrie Bradshaw’s introspective escapades, your Tres Leches explore what it means to truly romanticize your life, making your relationship with yourself the most cherished one.

As we unwrap this heartfelt theme, we each share personal tips on how we add a touch of romance to our everyday lives.

And, Johnny gives us a sneak peek into his new project shooting in Palm Springs, adding a dash of his own sun-soaked insights.

From self-love realizations to celebrating solo joys, this episode of Tres Leches is about embracing the beauty of being your own best company. Tune in as we bring you tales of personal growth and self-love from Fire Island to Palm Springs—because sometimes, the best love story is the one you write with yourself.