検索キーワード： 人間関係

★期待させるから、嫌われる。中谷流・「突き抜け」愛され術。★嫌われないように、返事を先延ばしする（断るなら即）。嫌われないように、意思を曖昧にする（意思表示は明確に）。嫌われないように、心配そうに見守る（当事者になろう）。人間心理とは裏腹なものです。嫌われないようにすればするほど、嫌われてしまいます。一方、即座に断る。しゃしゃり出る。つきあいが悪い。――こんな人が意外と愛されるものです。同調するから嫌われる。突き抜けるから愛される。「嫌な人になることで、嫌われない。」と中谷さん。突き抜けて愛される方法、中谷さんから教わりました。★別ナカ111――７つの学び ○「『ひとり』を楽しめる人は、恋人ができる。」○「所有より、体験しよう。」○「ずるい人は、苦しんでいる。」○「無意識は、行動に出る。」○「期待させるから、嫌われる。」○「モテない男の女性観は　無関係と『母親』。」○「野次馬より、当事者になろう。」

In these testing times, many feel unmotivated and have lost their mojo. Some are listless, retreating inward after trauma or loneliness, some become addicted to screens or meaningless activities, and many have lost passion in the face of life's challenges. Through fascinating tales from the consulting room and daily life, this book provides a groundbreaking model to regenerate hope. Graham Music outlines exactly how to understand and heal from a wide range of emotionally blunted states such as dissociation, depression, or helplessness.

オンライン婚活でいい相手を見つけて、真剣交際する・結婚する！そのための具体的なノウハウを、基礎から分かりやすく解説した１冊です。コロナ禍でリアルな出会いの場が減った分

High conflict is what happens when discord distills into a good-versus-evil kind of feud, the kind with an us and a them. In this state, the brain behaves differently. We feel increasingly certain of our own superiority, and everything we do to try to end the conflict, usually makes it worse. Eventually, we can start to mimic the behavior of our adversaries, harming what we hold most dear. In this book, New York Times bestselling author and award-winning journalist Amanda Ripley investigates how good people get captured by high conflict—and how they break free.

In a world engineered for the verbal thinker, those of us with a visual brain can often be overlooked and underestimated. In this landmark book, international bestselling author and activist Temple Grandin transforms our understanding of how our brains are wired differently. Bringing together cutting-edge research and her own experience as a visual thinker, Grandin reveals a ground-breaking new approach to revolutionizing modern structures such as education, health and media so that they equally serve people with all kinds of minds.

Ao longo de oito décadas, este livro se tornou a referência quando o assunto é o desenvolvimento das relações humanas, das habilidades sociais e da comunicação eficiente. Partindo do princípio de que é preciso se interessar genuinamente por aqueles com quem interagimos, ele mudou a vida de milhões de pessoas, fazendo-as se sentirem mais seguras, abertas e confiantes em seus encontros sociais e profissionais.

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C.S. Lewis' famous work on the nature of love divides love into four categories: affection, friendship, eros and charity. The first three are loves which come naturally to the human race. Charity, however, the gift-love of God, is divine in its source and expression, and without the sweetening grace of this supernatural love, the natural loves become distorted and even dangerous.

★さげまんは一見ポジティブなようで、じつはネガティブ。周囲に、どんよりした空気をもたらす「さげまん」にならないための女の修行を、中谷さんから教わりました。●「悲しいお知らせをしない。悲しいお知らせを聞かない。」●「悲しいお知らせを聞いても、忘れる。悲しいお知らせをする人と会わない。」●「言わぬが花、聞かぬが花。」●「悲しいお知らせが始まったら、聞き流す。」●「さげまんは、落ち込んでいる状態が好き。怒っている状況が好き。」●「あげまんは、落ち込んだり、腹が立っても、それを表に出さない。」●「すぐに、ごめんなさいと言える人は、人間関係が、10倍長くもつ。」★何度も聴いて、人間関係上手に。

Adolescents are hardwired to explore and grow, and learning is mainly how they do this. But a shocking majority of teens are disengaged from school, simultaneously bored and overwhelmed. As parents, we can feel powerless and don’t know how to help – until now. Based on five years of research into why children lose their love of learning, award-winning journalist Jenny Anderson and the Brookings Institution’s global education expert Rebecca Winthrop have created a transformative model that every parent, carer and educator needs to know about.

Whether they conducted their research in life or in the lab, experts Tucker Max and Dr. Geoffrey Miller have spent the last 20-plus years learning what women really want from their men, why they want it, and how men can deliver those qualities.

Join the millions who have learned how to take control of their lives by setting healthy boundaries with their spouses, children, friends, parents, co-workers, and even themselves—in order to live life to the fullest. In Boundaries, Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend share the lessons they've learned in their years of practicing psychology and studying the patterns and practices that support clear biblical boundaries. You'll learn the ins and outs of setting the boundaries that will transform your daily life.

With this book, you’ll find powerful mindfulness skills for calming your own stress response when difficult emotions arise. You’ll also discover strategies for cultivating respectful communication, effective conflict resolution, and reflective listening. In the process, you’ll learn to examine your own unhelpful patterns and ingrained reactions that reflect the generational habits shaped by your parents, so you can break the cycle and respond to your children in more skillful ways.

「情報」だから、共感できない。中谷流・「物語」共感術 モテない男性は、「情報」で語ります。この料理はどうやってつくられている。レストランの格付けは云々。この絵の価値は云々。そんな「情報」を女性は求めていません。女性が求めているのは「物語」。いっしょにいる時間をいかにして過ごすかが大事。目の前の「情報」は大した問題ではないのです。「物語」を生き切る方法、中谷さんから教わりました。★別ナカ97――７つの学び ○「死を考えるのではなく、生を考えよう。」○「気を遣わないことで、気を遣わせない。」○「強烈な思い出が永遠。」○「正論で、共感を切り捨てないようにしよう。」○「男性は情報系。女性は物語系。」○「情報系は、話が盛り上がらない。」○「空気ではなく、物語を読もう。」

Healthy boundaries. We all know we should have them in order to achieve work/life balance, cope with toxic people and enjoy rewarding relationships with partners, friends and family. But what do 'healthy boundaries' really mean - and how can we successfully express our needs, say 'no' and be assertive without offending others? Licensed counselor, sought-after relationship expert and one of the most influential therapists on Instagram, Nedra Glover Tawwab demystifies this complex topic for today's world.

When award-winning economist Emily Oster was a mom-to-be herself, she evaluated the data behind the accepted rules of pregnancy, and discovered that most are often misguided and some are just flat-out wrong. Debunking myths and explaining everything from the real effects of caffeine to the surprising dangers of gardening, Expecting Better is the book for every pregnant woman who wants to enjoy a healthy and relaxed pregnancy—and the occasional glass of wine.

Parents will gain insight into how to transform their parenting to help middle schoolers find greater independence, connect well with peers, and have the deepest learning possible in and out of school. Educators will learn about the developmental keys to making middle school a place of belonging, with deep social and emotional learning and academics that draw out students' full motivation and potential.

★言葉は、無力。 中谷流・ステージアップ術。 ★「何を言うか」ではなく「誰が言うか」。 いくら正しいことを言っても、言う当人に説得力がなければ、 相手は納得してくれません。 「正しさ」に磨きをかけるより、生きざまに磨きをかける。 これが中谷さんのいうダンディズム。 自分のステージアップする方法、中谷さんから伺いました。 ★こんな方にお奨めです♪ □最近、やる気が落ちてきている方。 □責任から逃れがちな方。 □ステージアップさせたい方。 ★別ナカ88――7つの学び ○「みんな仲良くできるのが、甲斐性。」 ○「好奇心とは、想定外にぶつかっていく精神。」 ○「闘争心が下がると、性欲が落ちる。」 ○「説得力とは、生き方。言葉ではない。」 ○「罪と罰を引き受ければ、ステージが上がる。」 ○「一人の時間がなければ、極められない。」 ○「自分を師匠の目で見るのが、客観視。」 ゲスト:久瑠あさ美、奈良巧

Stop People Pleasing is a frank look at people-pleasing tendencies - where they come from, how they manifest, and exactly what to do about them. Most importantly, the audiobook emphasizes real, actionable tactics to change your relationship with yourself and others.

Imagine having the power to walk up to any woman, at any time, in any environment…and never struggling with what to say or coming off as “awkward”? This isn't just a fantasy. It's entirely achievable, and "Conversation Casanova" is your key to making it happen. The proven systems and strategies in this book show you how to effortlessly start conversations, flirt & connect with women, and eliminate your social anxiety.