“Should I just get a job?” Let’s talk about it.

If you’re knee-deep in your business or side-hustle, running on passion and caffeine…but the money? Not delivering. This episode is for you.

I bet the financial stress has got you playing with the idea of getting a job. A stable income can start to look dangerously sexy when your creativity is flatlined with the stress of not earning enough money.

But does taking a job mean you’ve failed?

Only if you let it.

I get it, because I did it. After years of freelancing, bouncing between contracts and running the business, I went back to full-time work–and guess what, it hasn’t killed me.

In this episode, I’m sharing exactly why this move, though kind of embarrassing at first (cue ego battle), turned out to be the smartest, most sanity-saving pivot I could have made.

You’ll hear:

• What changed my mind about going back to a 9-5

• How being around a smart, small team has taught me more than any business course

• How it gave me back my confidence, clarity and creativity

• The mindset shift that helped me see this season as strategic, not as a step back

• Why choosing financial stability for now doesn’t mean giving up, it just means you’re setting yourself up

So, if you’re currently drowning in self-doubt, bank account anxiety and decision paralysis, this is the episode you didn’t know you needed.

And if you’re feeling lost and need some grounding clarity, like yesterday, download the Life GPS–it’ll help you decide whether getting a job is the right move for you right now.

Got a question you want answered on the pod? DM me @danisaidyes and leave me voice note, I want to help you sort through the messy-middle of life.

I was living on a tropical island in a $500-a-week shack with frogs in the toilet, tree snakes behind the kettle, and a rotation of backpackers as housemates–whilst trying to “go all in” on my business.

It looked dreamy on Instagram. In reality? It was dreamy, but I was broke, and quietly panicking about how the 'f' I was going to actually reach my financial goals.

This episode is for anyone who’s quit their job, moved cities, or taken a big swing at going 'all in' on their dreams–or are about to.

It’s about what happens when freedom sounds amazing in theory — but you’re exhausted, doubting everything, and not sure how you’re going to pay next month’s rent.

Inside, I’m sharing:

• The messy reality of my ‘Magnetic Island era’ — from lost licenses to van life to moving to Noosa, then back to the island (indecisive much)
• The fantasy of quitting your FT gig vs. the reality of paying your bills
• The pressure to look like you’ve got it all together online
• And the moment I realised I’d built a version of freedom that wasn’t actually working for me

If you’re caught in that messy middle–craving more from life but terrified of ending up broke–this one’s for you.

Wanna chat to someone about your messy middle? DM me @danisaidyes, I want to hear what big life decision you're about to make. X

Quitting your job without a backup plan isn’t brave—it’s a privilege, and sometimes a fast track to failure.

If you’re a creative, coach or multi-hyphenate who thought quitting your job would lead to freedom... and instead find yourself deep in survival mode with an identity crisis and an empty bank account, this episode is for you.

I’m breaking down the real cost of chasing the dream too soon, why the “just go for it” advice is sometimes complete BS, and what to do when your passion project isn’t paying the rent.

You’ll walk away with:

• What I wish I knew before I quit my job to go all in on my business (and why it took me multiple times to learn this lesson)

• The reality of juggling contract work, coaching clients, and bills piling up

• How to shift your mindset from “I failed” to “this is part of the process”

• What to do when your business isn’t making money, but your life keeps moving

• The shame of pretending you’ve got it ‘all together’ when you’re crumbling inside

• The truth about the slow, boring (but necessary) path to real freedom

• Why the “fuck the 9-5” energy doesn’t always pay the bills—and how to make peace with Plan B

If you’re in the thick of it, DM me @danisaidyes. I genuinely want to hear about your messy middle!

You voted and I delivered! This was the most requested episode from the Instagram poll. It's birthday week, and we’re unpacking the most influential and life-changing lessons I've learned from 36 years on planet earth. Just in time for Sagittarius season, this is part 2 of the thoughtful guide to navigating 2025 with intention, creativity, and a sense of purpose.

If you love this episode, we would be eternally grateful if you could rate the show (Spotify) or leave a review (Apple Podcasts) 🙏

Here’s a taste of what’s in store:

People Are Weird and the World Is F*cked: Lesson 19 dives into the harsh realities of human behavior and the state of the world. It’s a reminder to protect your mental space while navigating existential dread.

Choice Is Often Not a Choice: In Lesson 20, we explore the idea that our decisions are shaped by our past experiences and worldview.

No One Else Will Back You Like You Back Yourself: In Lesson 25, we discuss the importance of betting on yourself, even when no one else does.

Decision Paralysis Is Real – Here’s What to Do About It: Lesson 27 offers tips on overcoming the fear of making the wrong choice and learning to trust yourself.

Your Body Is Not Your Enemy: Lesson 31 is a heartfelt reminder to stop fighting your body and start appreciating it for what it does, rather than what it looks like.

Ready to listen? Hit play now and reflect on these lessons as we move closer to the New Year. Let’s step into 2025 with purpose and perspective.

Download the life GPS here.

You voted and I delivered! This was the most requested episode from the instagram poll. It's birthday week and we’re unpacking the first 18 out of 36 lessons to celebrate 36 laps around the sun. Just in time for sagi season, This is part 1 of the most ifluential and life changing lessons I've learnt from 36 years on planet earth. Think of it as a thoughtful guide to navigating 2025 with intention, creativity, and a sense of purpose.

If you love this episode, we would be eternally grateful if you could rate the show (Spotify) or leave a review (Apple Podcasts) 🙏

Here’s a taste of what’s in store:

Protect Your Energy: Stop pouring from an empty cup. Lesson 1 is all about learning to say "no" without guilt and prioritizing your peace of mind.

Let Go of Perfection: Perfection isn’t the goal. Lessons 3 and 4 explore why embracing imperfection leads to real progress and growth.

Take Charge of Your Finances: Lesson 7 is a reminder that financial independence is empowering. We’re talking smart budgeting and building wealth while still enjoying life.

Redefine Self-Care: Lessons 10 and 11 dig into self-care that goes beyond surface-level—think boundaries, personal growth, and saying "yes" to what truly matters.

Find Your People: Lesson 14 is about the power of meaningful connections. It’s not about having a crowd; it’s about nurturing relationships that lift you up.

Find Your Purpose: Lesson 16 is a gentle nudge to prioritize uncovering what only you can do and what problem you've been put on planet earth to solve. Spoiler, it's not about what you do it's about HOW you execute it that matters.

This episode is filled with honest reflections, a little humor, and plenty of takeaways. It’s made for the creative, thoughtful woman who wants to approach life with clarity and intention.

Ready to listen? Hit play now and don’t forget to tune in next week for Part 2, where we’ll dive into the remaining 18 lessons just in time for New Year’s.

If your business growth feels stuck, this could be the missing piece.

Danikah's a psychic business strategist who helps women scale their businesses by integrating strategic thinking with spiritual guidance.

Combining her intuitive abilities with a strong business acumen, Danikah empowers female entrepreneurs to achieve both financial, personal and spiritual success. The ying and the yang, the masculine and the feminine–that's Danikah's jam.

Danikah’s unique blend of strategy and soul work helps CEOs not only grow their businesses but also align their energy to support sustainable success. She emphasizes the importance of self-trust, energetic alignment, and authentic marketing.

In this episode, we discuss:

• Danikah’s near-death experience and how it amplified her psychic abilities.
• Common energetic blocks female CEOs face and how to overcome them.
• The power of authentic marketing and building genuine client relationships.
• How Danikah used her psychic abilities to manifest her dream partner.

Connect with Danikah here

Connect with Slay Your Way here.

Stuck on what do next in life and business? Download our free Life GPS journal to get clear on your next steps in under 10 minutes.

Slay Your Way is a podcast by clubslay.co–The no.1 personal development community for rebellious millennials.

Melissa Histon is the Founder and CEO of Got Your Back Sista charity, Founder of The Sista Code community and Host of her Hey Soul Sista podcast.

Mel was ascending the corporate ladder when she was diagnosed with breast cancer in her mid-thirties, changing her view of the world, and the course of her life forever.

Once she recovered, she gave away the corporate life and began a commercial photography business, which led her to Nepal for a photography project for the making of a documentary. ‘Latitude’ shines a light on the seedy underbelly of Nepal; the sex-trafficking of Nepali girls and women.

In January 2016, Melissa founded the charity Got Your Back Sista, which empowers women to thrive after leaving domestic violence.

In 2017, Melissa was named Newcastle Woman of the Year and was a finalist in the Newcastle University Alumni Awards.

In this episode we discuss;

• How Mel funnelled her newfound desire to dedicate her life to social justice upon her return to Newcastle, NSW after visiting Nepal. And how this eventually evolved into creating a not for profit.
• The red flags of emotional abuse to look for in the early stages of a relationship.
• What to do if you fear a friend may be experience domestic violence.
• Mel's opinion on solving the domestic violence epidemic in Australia.

If you'd like to speak to someone anonymously about any form of dometic, se*ual or family violence in Australia please call 1800RESPECT. Available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week

If you would like to donate your resources to Got Your Back Sista, visit their website here.

Connect with Mel Histon on Instagram here.

Connect with your host Dani Said here.

Slay Your Way is a podcast by clubslay.co–The no.1 personal development community for rebellious millennials.

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Mel Yu's journey from mental health professional to events agency owner, guided by her 'why' and resilience.

(0:12:13) - Career transformation and personal healing through tattoo conventions led to successful event management aligned with psychology principles.

(0:20:10) - Entrepreneurial Intuition and Resilience
Transitioning from business coaching to launching an events company in the tattoo and art space, leveraging sales skills to attract 48 online fashion brands for Ego Expo.

(0:30:48) - Building Authentic Personal Brand Influence
Associations and networks shape growth, align with goals and values, expand influence, and celebrate milestones.

(0:41:11) - Journey to Authentic Self-Love
Embracing authenticity and personal identity amidst societal pressures, valuing self and caring for others in business, and the endless pursuit of growth.