Today's episode wraps up the series on teen substance use and is a continuation from last week's episode on the methods discussed in the book, Beyond Addiction: How Science and Kindness Help People Change.

If your teen or tween is using substances and you want to know how to best motivate them to change their behavior, this episode and last week's episode 183 is for you.

Today I'll discuss the importance of collaborating with your co-parent, using positive reinforcement to see the behavior you want to see and natural and negative consequences to discourage the substance using behavior you don't want to see.

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Today's episode is all about the methods discussed in the book, Beyond Addiction: How Science and Kindness Help People Change.

If you're teen is using substances and you want to know how to best motivate them to change their behavior, this is the episode for you.

I talk about motivational interviewing and the Community Reinforcement and Family Training (CRAFT) method of communicating with a loved one who's using.

You'll probably be surprised by what you learn.

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What the heck is going on down at the convenience store or corner vape shop? They're selling something that looks a whole lot like marijuana, cannabis, or weed. And this stuff (otherwise known as "gas station weed") can get people even higher than the marijuana sold at the legal dispensaries that contain the high-producing, delta-9 THC.

Even worse, this stuff is being sold legally to teens in many states! What is it? It's delta-8 THC, delta-10 THC, HHC, THCA, THCO and other chemically extracted hemp derivatives, which are mostly unregulated (and contain no telling what).

I'll explain what these substances are, where they come from, how they're legal and what you should do if you find your teen is smoking it or "real marijuana".

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Other episodes that will help you deal with your teen and substances

Episode 16 Collaboration and Cooperation

Episode 22 Discipline and Consequences

Episode 39 Lying

Episode 42 and 43 Drug-proofing Your Teens

Episode 60 Substance Use and Abuse

Episode 122 When Your Kid is using drugs

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It's such a frightening thought; "Does my teen or tween have a substance use disorder? Is this more than occasional use or experimentation?"

How are you supposed to know when your teenager has crossed that line? Who can help you determine if their substance use rises to the level of an "addiction"?

Today I'll clarify some terminology, tell you how to figure these things out and help you understand what level of care your teen might potentially need, if they do indeed have a substance use disorder.

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Fentanyl is still a danger to teens and tweens and now there are even other chemicals being thrown in the mix of counterfeit pills that could be even deadlier. However, some expert are saying that it appears there may be less fentanyl in the supply chain in recent months.

Additionally, although overall illicit drug use among teens has been decreasing for years, opioid use disorder among adolescents has greatly increased (according to the American Academy of Pediatrics).

I'll walk you through the latest information in today's episode.

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There's no doubt that teens do risky things around their peers.

But just how much influence do those peers have over your teen's use of substances?

Can you do anything about the bad influences your teen is hanging out with?

What factors do you need to consider?

What about your influence? Can you counteract the influence your teen's peers have on them?💯

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As a parent, perhaps you've been confronted with this issue: you've found evidence that your teen or tween is vaping, drinking alcohol, smoking marijuana, or using other substances and you have no idea what to do next.

You can't think. You're upset, angry, anxious, confused, disappointed, etc. Do you give consequences? Do you call a therapist? What do you even say?

I'll tell you the best way to approach this issue including guidelines for the conversation and the actual mechanics of the conversation. This episode will help you make it through this very tough situation with your teenager or tween.

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Research tells us that teens whose parents employ effective monitoring are less likely to engage in risky behaviors like having sex at an early age, smoking, drinking, using drugs, skipping school or being physically injured – they’re also more likely to have better mental health.

So "monitoring" works but what does it even mean and how do you do it "effectively"? I'll break it down for you in this episode.

I'll also go over some very specific signs of substance use that you can keep in mind. Plus I have lots of resources for you.

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