Ever notice how bravery isn’t about feeling fearless—but doing the hard thing anyway, even when your palms are sweaty and your brain is begging you to binge Netflix instead?

Today’s guest is here to show us what it actually means to lead ourselves bravely—from the inside out. We’re talking mindset shifts, bold action, and the kinds of relationships that pull us forward instead of drain us dry.

If you’ve ever wondered how to show up more powerfully in the face of challenge, this one’s for you.

In this episode, I’m joined by leadership coach, Marine Corps veteran, and corporate consultant Jill Schulman—and we’re breaking down what it actually means to be brave (and no, it’s not about being fearless or reckless).

Jill shares the science of courage—how it works in your brain, how it builds over time, and why it's directly linked to your happiness, resilience, and sense of purpose.

We’re diving into:
✔️ The two biggest myths about bravery that keep women stuck
✔️ Why courage isn’t about being fearless—it’s about being values-led
✔️ How your nervous system plays a role in both fear and courage
✔️ Practical tools to build your “bravery muscle” without frying your system
✔️ What it means to be smart brave vs. stupid brave
✔️ Why community, vulnerability, and mindset are non-negotiables for bold leadership

If you’ve ever told yourself, “I’m just not brave like her” or “I’ll do it when I feel ready”—this episode is a must-listen.

🎧 Press play to learn how to take brave action in small, doable steps—without bypassing your body, blowing past your bandwidth, or betraying what matters most.

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• Overcoming Trauma and Discovering Your Courage for Change
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• Don’t Underestimate the Power of Play! How to Overcome Perfectionism, Fear of Judgment, and Self-Doubt
• How to Know if It’s Your Intuition or Fear Speaking

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You’ve read the books. You’ve tried the deep breaths. You’ve told yourself, “Just calm down.”

But when overwhelm hits? Your body’s still on edge—clenched jaw, tense shoulders, short fuse.

Here’s the truth: you can’t out-think a dysregulated nervous system.

Because when your brain is flooded with stress hormones, logic and willpower go offline.

In this episode of Alive & Well, we’re unpacking what really happens in your body when you're overwhelmed—and why somatic tools (not more hacks or habits) are the key to feeling calm, grounded, and in control again.

💡 Inside, you’ll learn:

• What happens in your brain and body during a stress response
  
  
• Why traditional productivity and self-help advice often fails in moments of overwhelm
  
  
• 5 powerful, simple grounding techniques that work with your biology—not against it
  
  
  

You’ll walk away with practical, easy-to-use tools like:
✔️ The physiological sigh
✔️ Body tapping
✔️ Eye presses
✔️ Heel drops
✔️ Vagus nerve stimulation

If you’ve ever felt hijacked by stress or scrambled by anxiety, this episode gives you the body-based roadmap back to center.

Because real regulation doesn’t start in your head—it starts in your body.

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• Proven Systems to Take You from Overwhelmed to Organized
• Overwhelmed & Overcommitted? How to Optimize Your Capacity
• Decluttering Strategies for the Busy Mom
• 3 Reasons Perfectionism Is Keeping You Overwhelmed (and How to Break Free)
• Overwhelm, Brain Fog, and Irritability? 10 Ways a Dysregulated Nervous System Shows Up in Your Body

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You’re ambitious. You’re organized. You’ve got the planner, the calendar app, and the color-coded to-do list.

So why do you still feel overwhelmed, behind, and exhausted by 2pm?

Here’s the truth:
It’s not your calendar that’s the problem.
It’s your nervous system.

Because when your body is stuck in survival mode, no time-blocking strategy in the world will stick.

In this episode, we’re flipping the script on productivity and revealing the 3 nervous system patterns that are quietly sabotaging your performance:

• Chronic overwhelm – Why you’re always “on” but never feel done
• People-pleasing – Why you say yes when your body says no
• Constant urgency – Why slowing down feels unsafe (even when you're desperate for rest)

💡 You’ll learn:

• The nervous system science behind these patterns
• How they show up in real life (hello, inbox spirals and overcommitment)
• Practical somatic tools to shift into grounded, sustainable flow

✨ If your go-to productivity tools aren’t cutting it, this episode is your nervous system-based reset. It’s time to regulate first—and work smarter, not harder.

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• Previous Episode
• 5 Ways to Tell Whether Your Productivity is Toxic or Healthy
  • Learn how to spot the difference between sustainable output and stress-driven overworking.
• The Productivity Trap: This Is Why Being Busy Isn’t Moving You Forward
  • The neuroscience behind why “doing more” keeps you stuck.
• Why Am I Like This?! How The 3 States of Our Nervous System Affect Motherhood, Health, and Productivity
  • Break down the science of sympathetic vs. parasympathetic states—and how they impact your habits.
• Are You High or Low Energy? Nervous System Balancing Exercises Based on Your Energy Type
• Start Doing This Today to Reclaim Your Energy with Chloe Ward
  • Get practical tips to reset your system when you’re running on empty.

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If you ever feel like a completely different version of yourself when you're under stress—snappy, shut down, or just plain tapped out—you're not alone.

Stress doesn’t just impact how you feel in your body. It can totally hijack how you show up in your relationships… especially your marriage.

In this episode, I’m joined by licensed marriage and family therapist Elizabeth Earnshaw, and we’re unpacking how unprocessed stress silently fuels miscommunication, emotional disconnection, resentment, and repeated blow-ups in partnership—even when you love each other deeply.

You’ll learn how stress physically rewires the way you interact, and why you keep reacting in ways that don’t reflect who you really are.

We’re diving into:
✔️ The two types of stress that show up in marriage—and how to tell the difference
✔️ Why your brain shuts down communication and turns conflict into a battlefield
✔️ How to recognize when you're about to "pop" and how to stop the spiral

If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation thinking, “Why did I say that?” or “Why do we keep having the same fight?”—this episode is a must-listen.

🎧 Press play to learn the tools to communicate more clearly, love more deeply, and co-regulate more effectively in the moments that matter most.

Related Links:

• Previous Episode
• How to Deal with Resentment in Your Marriage
• Things I Wish I Knew Before Getting Married
• Ending Divorce Culture: Beth Rowles on How the Principles of Conscious Parenting Can Help Save Your Marriage
• Ready to Reignite the Spark in Your Marriage? Firing Up Intimacy and Sex

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You set the boundary. And then… you broke it. Again.

You knew what to say. You meant it when you said it.

So why did it feel so hard to actually hold the line?

In today’s episode, we’re unpacking why boundaries often don’t stick—and spoiler: it’s not a willpower problem. It’s a nervous system problem.

Whether it’s a boss who steamrolls your calendar or a loved one who doesn’t get your “no,” boundary pushback triggers your body’s survival response.

And when your system’s dysregulated? You’ll abandon yourself every time just to feel safe.

This episode is your invitation to stop shaming yourself—and start building boundaries that actually hold.

You’ll learn:
✔️ Why breaking boundaries is a nervous system response, not a personal failure
✔️ How to shift from reactive (unsustainable) boundaries to regulated ones
✔️ The 6 tools that make boundaries stick—including the BEAT framework and micro-boundaries

We’re getting real about shame spirals, people-pleasing, fawning, and how to protect the highest version of you—even when it’s uncomfortable.

🎧 Take a listen and start building boundaries from your body, not from burnout.

Related Links:

• Previous Episode
• 5 Ways to Respond When Boundaries are Breached
• My 4-Step Framework for Setting Healthy Boundaries
• Exhausted by Your Mental Load? Dr. Morgan Cutlip on How to Set Boundaries and Ask for Support
• Become a Boundary Boss - How to Talk True, Be Seen and (Finally) Live Free
• 4 Must-Have Boundaries Every Mom Needs in Her Life

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If your morning routine feels more like a crash course in chaos than calm… this episode is for you.

You don’t need another 17-step overhaul. You need a few small shifts that actually stick.

In this episode, we’re talking about why most morning routines don’t work for high-achieving women—and what neuroscience says to do instead.

Think less hustle, more strategy. Less pressure, more alignment.

You’ll learn:
✔️ Why your brain resists big changes (and how to work with it, not against it)
✔️ The 3-step process to create real, lasting habit change
✔️ 4 high-impact morning habits that actually support your nervous system

We’re unpacking the micro-habits that prime your brain for a better day. No overwhelm.

Just tiny wins that compound into a more focused, grounded, and regulated you.

🎧 Press play and ditch the burnout approach to productivity. This is habit-building that honors your body and brain.

Related Links:

• Previous Episode
• 5 Morning Mistakes that Wreck Your Nervous System and Cause Burnout
• My 5-step Morning Routine
• What To Do the Morning After (A Bad Night’s Sleep)
• Cranky in the Morning? 3 Things I Do When I Wake Up Feeling Irritable
• Your Sleep Toolkit: Powerful Strategies for Restful Sleep

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You’re wiped, but wired. Exhausted, but your brain won’t quit.

You want to rest—but your body says, not yet.

That buzzing, edgy, can’t-sit-still feeling? It’s not a mindset problem. It’s a nervous system stuck in survival mode.

In this episode, we’re unpacking the real science behind the tired but wired paradox—and why slowing down might feel anything but restful when you’re dysregulated.

You’ll learn:
✔️ What “tired but wired” actually means in your nervous system
✔️ Why high-functioning women struggle to rest (and why it’s not your fault)
✔️ 4 somatic tools to help you finally feel calm, grounded, and safe again

We’ll cover the role of the vagus nerve, how mixed states hijack your energy, and why stillness can feel like a threat when your system’s braced for danger.

Plus: high-ROI practices you can use right now to start rewiring rest into your body—without needing a week-long retreat or a silent house.

Related Links:

• Previous Episode
• Tired of Being Tired? Top Causes of Chronic Fatigue and Powerful Energy-Boosting Habits
• Tired, Anxious, and Overwhelmed? The Step-by-Step Process to Heal Burnout and Regulate Your Nervous System
• Feeling Overwhelmed with Work-Life Balance? 3 Mindset Shifts for Working Moms
• Unlocking Calm Powerful Somatic Practices to Shift out of Fight, Flight or Freeze
• 3 Body-Based Tools to Shift Out of Fight-or-Flight (Fast)

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