Psychoanalyst Adam Ayala and co-host Joseph Barbosa answer,

1. How much sex should you have in a marriage?

2. How to Answer, “Do I look fat in this?”

3. What to do when your spouse cheats on you.

4. What’s the difference between Post-Modern and Enlightenment Marriages.

5. What to do when you’re stuck in a Post-Modern Marriage.

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Adam Ayala and Joseph Barbosa talk through if we should understand our spouse or be curious about them and what's the difference in there. We also answer questions from you on What is a good spouse? How do I know I should say yes to a marriage proposal and How much money is enough?

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You don't date drug addicts and losers to save them. You're deciding to live a life of Hell through making yourself small while holding the position of perpetual victim and hero in your false adventure.

This is how you don't do that.

In my practice I keep coming across something that devastates me. That those who follow relativist ideologies are not having sex, compared to Enlightened ideological counterparts, and their relationships don't ever start or fall apart.

I want to see everyone in a good relationship that's lasting, but there is something with the postmodern ideology that is ruining it. So today, we start an investigation on this while also being aware that we may be straw-manning the postmodern position and that there are very few folks that are fully relativist and acknowledging the realities of life versus philosophy.

We have a talk with Al, who remembers a time when a relationship when horrible and he had the opportunities to act as badly as she did towards him (as she publicly humiliated him) but he explains why he didn't and how he got over this tragedy.

How do you choose a spouse? How do you get away from being attracted to things that are bad for you? Why do you keep sleeping with people that are no good? We answer that here.

Do you fear vans? After this, you will.

Joseph B Barbosa interviews and challenges Adam Ayala, The Heretic Therapist, on Adam's Season 1 of Men Defeating Being Raped by Women.