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  • Sustainable High Performance: failure, flexibility, values and vitality - Jonah Oliver
    2024/06/12

    Jonah Oliver is a distinguished performance psychologist known for his work with elite athletes like golfer Cameron Smith, V8 teams, surgeons, business leaders, and more. Jonah brings his wealth of experience to the table, discussing the intricate details of sustained high performance.


    Key Topics Covered:

    • Understanding Sustained High Performance: Exploration of what sustained high-performance means and how it can be achieved.
    • The Role of Failure in Success: Discussion on why failure is essential to achieving success and how it shapes high-performing individuals.
    • Neurobiology of Stress: Insight into the brain's response to stress and techniques to manage and interpret stress positively.
    • Psychological Flexibility: Explanation of psychological flexibility and its crucial role in maintaining high performance.
    • Vision and Values: The importance of having a clear vision and strong values in both personal and professional life.
    • Practical Insights and Strategies: Jonah shares practical advice on dealing with challenges, and adversity, and developing a growth mindset.
    • Applying Psychological Science: How psychological principles can be applied across different contexts, from sports to surgery to business.
    • Developing a Growth Mindset: The necessity of real-life exposure to stress and adversity for developing a growth mindset.

    Key Quotes:

    1. "Failure is a prerequisite to success. If you want to achieve great things, you have to be willing to feel the pain, the price of entry."
    2. "You do not learn a growth mindset by reading a book on it. You only develop it through in situ exposure."
    3. "Life is not about how hard things are. It’s about how important things are."
    4. "Psychological flexibility is the beating heart of sustained high performance."
    5. "Doing the things that matter with the people that matter in a values-based way is the recipe for a life of sustained high performance."
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    39 分
  • Attitude is Everything - Dr Justin Coulson
    2024/06/12

    Attitude is Everything:

    "A bad attitude is like a flat tyre. You can't go anywhere unless you change it." This applies to all facets of life: personal, professional, and family.

    Three Basic Psychological Needs:

    Relatedness: Quality of connection, feeling seen, heard, and valued.

    Competence: Feeling good at something, is essential for motivation.

    Autonomy: Having control over one's actions and environment.


    Positive Energy vs. Energy Vampires:

    • Positive Energizers: Individuals who uplift and inspire others.
    • Energy Vampires: People who drain energy and enthusiasm.

    Building an A+ Attitude:

    • Compelling Goal: Must have a clear and motivating purpose.
    • Engagement: Being fully invested in what you do.
    • Progress: Continuously developing competence.
    • Consistency: Regularly showing up and putting in the effort.

    The 20 Mile March:
    Concept of consistent, disciplined effort towards goals.


    Inspirational Practices

    • Daily Touch: Simple, consistent gestures of connection with loved ones.
    • Positive Interactions: Showing enthusiasm and positivity in daily interactions.

    Final Thoughts

    • How you show up and your attitude can transform your life and those around you.
    • Challenge: Implement one change based on the day’s learnings.


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  • Overcoming Adversities and the Science of Happiness - Jeff McKeon
    2024/06/12

    This episode features Jeff McCann, who speaks on the topics of overcoming adversity and the science of happiness. Jeff's journey from a challenging childhood with an alcoholic father to dedicating his life to neuroscience and helping others reach their potential is both inspirational and educational.


    Key Quotes from Jeff McCann:

    • "When you're in that moment, you question everything about your life."
    • "You can't be what you can't see."
    • "The strongest people are often the ones who are still kind after the world tore them apart."

    The Science of Happiness:

    • The importance of habits in achieving happiness.
    • Explanation of the negativity bias in our brains.
    • The power of choice in emotional regulation and happiness.
    • Research on the set point of happiness and how daily habits influence our happiness levels.

    Practical Tips for Happiness:

    • Double inhale through the nose followed by a large sigh to activate the parasympathetic nervous system and calm yourself.
    • Importance of gratitude and daily habits.
    • The significance of interpersonal relationships as found in the Harvard Study on Adult Development.

    Jeff's Conclusion:

    • The value of friendships and strong bonds in achieving happiness.
    • Encouragement to reflect on whether you live purposefully, love actively, and matter in your daily life.
    • "Emotions are contagious. Are yours worth catching?"
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  • Phil Di Bella's formula for success
    2024/04/22

    Phillip Di Bella is a Director at the Di Bella Group of Companies


    Phillip Di Bella is a highly respected business entrepreneur with a unique ability to visualise and commercialise what many others never see. Though initially known for the establishment of Di Bella Coffee, which became Australia’s largest specialty coffee company, Phillip’s entrepreneurial spirit has brought success to other businesses such as International Coffee Traders, Abbotsford Road Specialty Coffee in New York, and more recently The Coffee Commune.


    Not satisfied with simply focusing on building his own successful businesses, Phillip has dedicated much time to supporting the growth and development of other businesses. Often referred to as an “Entrepreneur in Residence”, Phillip regularly lends his strategic thinking to businesses such as BDO Consulting, helping their clients overcome challenges, see new opportunities, and then supporting the commercialisation of these solutions.


    01.50 - Phil’s journey with his weight


    “Health is first, it’s the foundation. You don’t go building 10-storey buildings without laying solid foundations”.


    “It’s me first so that I can give my best to my family and give more energy to work.”


    “My philosophies are templates, and a lot of them apply, and they have for me, personally, professionally, and family. Same thing in business, you can have all the theories in the world, you can go to all the workshopping events and build your knowledge base in your library, but if you don't execute, it just doesn't happen.”


    Shaun - “If you put the work in and have that desire, intent and willpower and you execute, you can go from here to here, and that could be finance, it could be career, it could be relationships. It could be anything, but it's having a plan. It's executing that plan, drawing on the resources around you, but being disciplined in that regard. And that's the transformation.”


    7.45 - What are the daily rituals that you do to optimise yourself?


    12.30 -

    • It’s not about weight loss it’s about being healthy.
    • We are all works in progress and we need to understand that
    • Our mindset is the secret sauce in everything, it starts and finishes with the mindset

    16.00 - Other rituals that bind Phil and his wife


    20.15 - “Life is simple, humans just complicate it”


    20.46 - Managing Priorities

    • It starts with a vision.
    • Work life harmony. You need to get all 3 areas of your life working in harmony.
    • Chase harmony, not balance.


    27.30 -

    • Not every day is a happy day but every day is a day to learn
    • Life is measured in moments


    30 - Core philosophies in business


    1 - You have to be solving a problem

    2 - You have to be so relevant that if your business can’t be replicated

    3 - When you get 1 and 2 right, tell the story. Marketing is the art of telling the story.



    32.30 - Where people go wrong in business often comes down to poor planning


    36.30 - What are you focusing on for work in 2024?


    Phil is working on trying to make sure that before governments make decisions that impact people’s lives.


    “I'm getting stuck into 2024 and we kick off with the release of our small business paper that we took six months to commission and we kick that off on the 19th of February to go to market. I want to see this industry sustainable.”



    43.00 - Core philosophies in life

    1. Health: Meaningful relationships and purpose won’t happen if you don’t have your health
    2. Time
    3. Money

    Enough time and money to do what you want when you want.



    48.00 - Shaun - “Be intentional about where you want to be and what you want to achieve then surround yourself with the right people to get there.”


    50.40 - If you can’t improve the silence don’t speak


    “The wealthiest place in the world is the cemetery”

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    50 分
  • How to best support my child in sport and school with performance psychologist - Jonah Oliver
    2024/02/26
    Jonah Oliver is a world-leading performance psychologist he combines sports psychology and neuroscience to facilitate peak performance. He has nearly 20 years of working in high performance from Olympians, executives, and professional codes (Brisbane Roar, Gold Coast Suns, Essendon), to car racing teams (Porsche – Le Mans World Champion, V8s), indigenous performing artists and surgeons. Executive coach, author, speaker, and consultant on talent identification, leadership, and organisational performance around the world. Husband, father, entrepreneur. 2.30 - How do you navigate the car trip home after a sports game when your kid has strong emotions? "Emotions tell us something, it's not ambivalence. They're not just sitting there. If there are emotions, it means they care. So they care about something like the performance, their teammates, your approval, their own standards, feeling competent or feeling incompetent, whatever it is, there's something there to listen to." 4.50 What is our role? Our role is to provide a cushioned landing so that they can feel and experience whatever's showing up and you're a safe pair of hands to allow them to just sit with that. Let them dictate what the car ride home looks likeSelf-reflection is importantSometimes kids need an object to discharge/vent to (often the parents) 08.44 - Our fears as a parent. I don't want them to … "Sport can be the greatest vehicle for learning about life in a safe way. Life is hard and how do you survive in the jungle if you're raised in the zoo? It's like sport needs to allow you to be exposed to failure to set back to I'm not as good as other people at some things that I need to solve this puzzle myself. " 11.15 - How do you get your kids to see your intentions for what they are? You need to be clear on what your intentions truly areTypically when we want to step in and help it kicks us into command and control style of parentingWhen you teach a child something, you deprive them of the opportunity to discover it for themselves (Piaget quote)The consequence is our kids learn there's always something about me they need to fix, I'm not good enough. 15.40 - "What does success look like? And what is the intention behind it? If it's trying to protect them from failure because of your fears of them and what their life might be, if they don't succeed in that domain, then that's you. And you got to get the heck out of the way. It is a fun first mentality, just let them have fun." Your job is to, to remove all the weeds and maybe throw some manure and some lattice and a few things, but then let the plant grow in the direction it wants to go.When you take the plant and you wire it to the lattice and tell it which way to grow you don't have an independent, self-governed, self-determined human being. 20.00 - How do you help children identify and navigate self-doubt as a roadblock to them reaching their potential? We need to stop seeing self-doubt as a problemSelf-doubt is just the price of entry into lifeTake the time to listen to what is happening to the kid, what are the themes? Listen and learn what your kid is actually worried aboutThe most powerful thing you can say when they are feeling nervous is just to sit there and say "Yeh that makes sense". Meet them and see them Identify self-doubt as a gift and reframe it 27.00 - How to motivate kids to do something they may not love but may be important? Stop trying to make them love everything If our kids only do the things they enjoy and are motivated by then they learn a relationship that they only want to do tasks they are competent at/enjoy they will avoid the things they don't like. It sets up bad patterns.Boredom tolerance is critical for successMotivation comes and goes for everyone, be aware of the ebbs and flows of that"I don't enjoy doing X but I do it because of Y" 36.00 - How do you deal with the "I want to give up"? How do you unpack and deal with that? Is there some form of avoidance? Is there still something they want to do but they are quitting because of another reason?If it's just part of the developmental phase of not wanting to do something then you need to unpack it and they might open up.Understand before you start commanding or clambering for leverage to coerce them 41.00 - How do we get our kids to recognise that effort and attitude matter? Role modelling mattersWatch the version of us that shows up, especially at homeTry not to step into the command and control version. What is your definition of success? What are you trying to build? What about the relationship you have with them? "We want to build people with self-determination, a sense of competence, a sense of autonomy that they can do things of their own. They can build meaningful relationships with the world around them. They can take on the world and that they are enough in their current form." "Our job is to create conditions for a fire" 47.00 - "Our kids are enough already, ...
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  • Living a life built on Purpose - Sandy from Traction
    2023/11/02


    03.51 - Sandy’s journey to starting Traction

    “Why not start something that makes a direct impact on young people”

    8.00 - CEO Bike Build

    Young people growing into their potential and meeting expectations that might be held of them in workplaces.

    It is so much more than the bike. Make the situation at Traction relevant to their outside life.

    10.05 - Core fundamentals taught at Traction

    “We know isolation and loneliness are felt through the neural pathways in much the same way as physical pain. So the health impact of being isolated and lonely is as deleterious as smoking a packet of cigarettes a day over a long period. So for our young people, when they say that they just want to make friends, we take that seriously because quite often they haven't had many role models in how to build good relationships.”

    Traction allows providing young people with role models they have never had and teaches them confidence. It’s a wellbeing framework

    12.00 - Elements of wellbeing

    1. Be engaged in learning
    2. Being active
    3. Being connected
    4. Being influential (we are all leaders)

    13.32 - Tangible benefits of Traction’s program

    Sometimes the most tangible benefit is just for these kids to have one day a week where they feel safe and are learning not just surviving.

    It’s not a program you are sent to do, it’s an opportunity.

    17.04 - The 2 things you need in life

    1- Love and connection

    2 - Meaning and purpose

    19.00 - What has Sandy learnt in the corporate world and the Traction world

    Ordinary people working together can create extraordinary things

    Having a vision and team built around a shared purpose

    The challenge in not-for-profit space compared to the corporate arena is just the uncertainty around, or it's difficult to plan for the long term because of the pipeline of funding that's required to invest in, whether it be program delivery or developing the capacity as an organisation or investing in the infrastructure needed like without.

    22.30 -

    “The energy comes from seeing the results and the difference we're making and we're about prevention. So there's a lot of attention being paid to youth crime in our community at the moment. And to me, there's work that has to be done on that. If we get in early and reach young people before they slip through the cracks in the system and get them on.

    Positive and trajectories to their potential and possibility, then it's a much smarter investment upfront than having to deal with the knock-on effects later.”

    23.45 - The cost of incarceration on society/community

    A massive trigger for youth crime is exclusion from school. As soon as you fall out of, or are excluded from the schooling system, who are you going to hang out with?

    28.20 - What do kids fundamentally need to have a positive/good/great life?

    - Care and love

    - Recognise that every young person has unique gifts, and brings different strengths, and try to understand what they are

    - Encourage them to participate and have a go

    - Education is key and there are so many ways to learn

    - Have a community around the young people

    30.30 - What stands in the way of the grander vision you have?

    “It's about fuel in the tank. We've got a great model. We've, we know the attributes of powerful mentors and we are ready to scale up the program and reach more young people.

    We're ready to recruit, train and develop.”

    34.00 - What is your purpose and your why?

    ● It’s about making a difference, something each day. Ordinary people working together can do extraordinary things

    ● Be present within the community to find what is possible

    ● Sense of belonging around a shared purpose/cause

    ● We are not here for a long time so it’s about who is around you

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    40 分
  • From Broken to Mentally Fit with Jimi Hunt
    2023/09/06

    2.00 - The Background & Intro


    When Jimi bounced off of rock bottom he got to the point where he said “I have to do something different that makes my tomorrow different from my today because my today sucks.”


    4.00 - Picking up the tools and applying them

    Applications change the outcomes. Once you start seeing the gains you get “addicted to the gains”.


    Talent for translating the information and putting it in a way he could understand and that others could understand.


    6.00 -

    Doesn’t have to be a big event that sets you into that state.

    “...the shove over the edge, you either fall to your death or you learn to fly. And that's what I decided as I was. I need to learn how to fly real, real quick… where can I, where can I build some wings from? Where can I get a parachute from?”


    07.30 - The difference between resilience and mental fitness


    Mental fitness is the ability to be able to see chaos coming and have the perspectives, understanding and tools to avoid it as it comes, or at least glance it off.


    Is the ability to learn tools, techniques, perspectives, observations, and understandings that allow us to see situations unfolding as they unfold and be able to make really clear, confident, rational decisions in those that lead to the best outcomes for us.


    10 - What do you do to keep mentally fit?


    “Instead of telling me what to do, he told me why I should do it.” A simple start.


    Future success is determined by past success. You're much more likely to succeed in the future if you have succeeded in the past.


    13 - Two key underpinnings for Mental Fitness

    Ability to observe your thoughts and the ability to regulate your nervous system.


    15.30 - The breath

    The key is to move yourself from a sympathetic state to a parasympathetic state. Parasympathetic is your rest, rejuvenation, and relaxation state. You can do this through your breath. Allows you to be in a state that helps you be in a state to choose better and create better outcomes for yourself.


    17. 40 - Mental fitness for kids


    The parents are the biggest influence on a child’s life. You cannot teach what you do not know. “What is genetic in feeling is that you teach it to your children.” Parents control or dictate the environment or atmosphere people walk into.


    22.30 - Mental health continuum


    When you say mental health people think of mental illness.

    If you put in small, consistent efforts all the time then you will become mentally fitter. Continuum is being able to put ourselves on to figure out where we’re at and how we can move up.


    32.00 - Jimi’s why & putting yourself first


    “My why is to improve my mental fitness. I care about everybody secondary to myself and the more I connect to myself, the more I improve my mental fitness, the more I learn and the more ability I have to share that with others.”


    “And the happier the people are, the more mentally fit people are, the better employees they are, the more creative, the more productive, the less sick time, the less turnover, all of those metrics.”


    40.00 - Advice you would pass on to younger Jimi


    Links -


    https://www.jimihunt.com - https://www.jimihunt.com/newsletter/


    https://www.instagram.com/thejimihunt

    https://www.facebook.com/thejimihunt

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    45 分
  • Neuroscience, Happiness and a complete Career Reinvention with Jeff Mckeon
    2023/05/15
    Intro to Jeff McKeon:Jeff is currently the Chief Growth Officer at Neuro Capability, he's a really interesting person and deeply kind. He's lived a great life and has reached this position where he genuinely loves what he does for work. He's got some great learnings to share as part of his journey. Jeff believes that our greatest asset is our mind. We are sure you will thoroughly enjoy this episode. 02.20 - Reflection and Curiosity: "I'm just eternally grateful that I get to share a message and talk about the stuff that fills me with curiosity. And it comes around from those moments in your life. And if you're conscious of those moments and those decisions you make, and reflection I think is that thing, when you start to reflect at those moments, you think did I make a good decision? Did I make a bad decision? What did I learn from it? That's been my biggest transformation if I think about it." 04.15 - Defining moments that have impacted your life That's the power of connection and human connection. You never know what someone's got going on in their life.That's why we need to be kind. I always laugh that the other stuff, the negative stuff has a better PR team. So be kind. It's just that in those moments in life, you never know what someone is going through. 11.00 - The impact stress has on your bodyStress has a huge impact on our body long term. The term is called allostatic load, which is the impact on the machine because you're going too fast and too hard the whole time. "I can't change him, I have to change me. When I talk about change, sometimes you require that catalyst. " 13.00 - The career reinventionIn the moment you don't realise it, you just do what your instinct is. But that's when you have to take those gambles with the career transition. You have got to trust your instinct because my instinct had gone from a quiet little voice to that screaming voice saying you gotta get out, you gotta do something more with the rest of your life. You have to approach it in a whole different way. What can I learn from this? When you transition careers, you need that piece of paper to feel a little bit bulletproof. You have to back your instinct 16.15 - Ben Crowe and the notion of being your inner fan and the inner critic.The biggest realisation is just being aware that the voice is trainable. Most people go through life hearing this inner voice and not realising that you can actually shut it off or you can diminish it or you can change it. The way the brain is wired is in the first five years. That's why it's critical in a child's development, the love and nurturing because it's happening the brain is wiring, not only are they learning to walk, they're learning, do I love this way? What's their condition, what's right, what's wrong? An example is how Ben Crowe worked with Ash Barty and her inner voice to identify that she is so much more than tennis, she is an individual and that's where that power of identifying your inner voice is. 19.01 - Diminish your inner criticEthan Cross talks about diminishing and harnessing your inner critic in his book, Chatter.Be aware of it and know that you don't have to listen to it because that's no longer relevant, that's the voice you heard when you were seven or eight. It's no longer relevant to who I am as an adult. But we learn it way back when we are judged when we are young. But we're still, it's the same voice. Quite often it'll be either a mom or dad or an authority figure. And it'll be the same voice and that's just because that got wired into us. 20.30 - I am EnoughThe biggest thing Ben Crow does in his work is helping his clients to say, I'm enough. So when you believe you are enough, guess what happens? That inner voice gets silenced. Gets turned down because you're no longer listening to it because you're going, no, no, I'm enough.The power of reframing and rephrasing. 21.30 - Helping your kids with their inner critic and being conscious of it.Disrupt the process to change their trajectory. 23.30 - Create a psychologically safe organization but also have an organization that's accountable, that delivers, that meets. "When you look at aligning the why you do it and the outcome, you're not having to manufacture the outcome. The outcome is a by-product of what you do with your why. When I talk to companies I only ever write with companies or work for companies that align with my values, when you come into these businesses you can tell it's from the top down." What we are seeing now is a lot of pushback against the traditional command and control leadership models. In business, what we've got is these early adopters, like Stellar, who're already living and breathing it. Guess what? Their business is aligned because they're not having to manage every layer. Of the well-being of their staff, they're actively doing it from the top down. 25.30 - "Your company's culture is the heart, the minds and stomachs of your employees on a Sunday night ...
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    54 分