Welcome back to the kitchen table. As parents, we often find ourselves in situations where discipline feels like a reaction to behavior we want to correct. But what if we saw these moments as opportunities to go deeper, to chase the “why” behind our child’s actions?

God, in His wisdom, looks at our hearts rather than stopping at our outward behavior. He’s curious about what motivates us, and as parents, we can reflect that same curiosity when guiding our children.

Proverbs 21:2 reminds us that while a person’s actions may seem right in their own eyes, the Lord examines the heart. Jeremiah 17:10 tells us He searches our hearts, looking beyond surface actions.

This is a framework that invites us, as parents, to mirror God’s patience and depth—to not only discipline our children but to seek the heart behind their actions. This is what we mean by “chasing the why.”

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Welcome back to the kitchen table. Bethany shares a guiding principle in her home: inclusion. Rooted in James 2:1, which calls us to show no partiality, Bethany shares how exclusion has no place in her home. Her goal is to raise children who don’t just avoid exclusion but actively work to include others.

Kids naturally want their own space—it's common to hear, “get out of my room” But Bethany encourages her children to look beneath this impulse and ask what’s driving it. Why do they want to exclude? Is it anger, frustration, or something else? These gospel conversations are a way to explore what’s going on in their hearts and to bring those feelings to light.

Building an inclusive family culture takes practice and patience. Bethany teaches her children that while the world often encourages exclusivity, they’re called to be different. Through intentional conversations, ownership, and a commitment to kindness, they’re learning to grow together as a family that values and practices inclusion.

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Welcome back to the kitchen table. Today, Bethany explores the challenge of raising children uniquely in the same home. It's common to hear, "that’s not fair" as each child has their own personality, motivations, and struggles.

Proverbs 22:6 reminds us to “train up a child in the way he should go.” This isn’t a one-size-fits-all approach; each child requires their own path. Bethany emphasizes that we can’t paint them with one brushstroke. Instead, we must recognize that each child is uniquely gifted and called to different experiences.

It’s our role to create opportunities that cater to their individual needs and talents. Bethany encourages parents to pause and ask God what he thinks about each child. Seeking guidance can give us insight into the unique paths our children are meant to take.

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Welcome back to the kitchen table. Bethany is excited to introduce another important principle: the giftedness of our children. This idea is beautifully rooted in Psalm 139:14, which reminds us that we are “fearfully and wonderfully made.”

It’s easy to forget that our children are not all crafted the same; each one is uniquely made with their own gifts and strengths. Bethany reflects on how God has uniquely formed each of her children, guiding her in helping them discover their individual talents and truths.

In her parenting journey, she continually prays and seeks to understand who her children are. It’s a process of discovery, exploring their unique qualities and encouraging them to embrace their gifts.

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Welcome back to the kitchen table. Bethany shares some of her best parenting principles that come from scripture. These teachings guide her through the beautiful chaos of family life, and she has seen the good that comes from applying them with her children.

One key belief she holds is that work as a parent isn't measured by outcomes but by the effort put in. Colossians 3:23-24 reminds her, “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord.” This perspective keeps her focused on the love and commitment she brings to parenting, not just the results.

She often reminds herself that her children's efforts are what truly matter, not just the results. “In all things, are they putting in the effort?” she asks. Framing conversations around this belief creates a supportive atmosphere where her kids can learn and grow.

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Welcome back to the kitchen table. In 2 Corinthians 4, we see a beautiful truth: God is the one who brings light into the darkness. He shines His light into our hearts, filling us with His presence and truth. As parents, we are called to pray that same light for our children—to be prayer warriors who lift them up to God.

When we pray, we’re not just speaking words; we’re asking God to turn on a light in their hearts that reveals His love and redemption. We pray His words over them, inviting His presence to guide and shape their lives.

Every day, we have this calling. May we pray with purpose, asking God to shine His light into our children’s hearts and show them the depth of His love and grace.

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Welcome back to the kitchen table. How often do we pause to see Jesus in the dinnertime hour? While we're chopping vegetables, setting plates, or clearing the clutter from the table, God calls us to a quiet invitation—just like Psalm 23:5 says.

In the middle of life's noise, God doesn’t ask us to charge into battle or solve every problem. Instead, he prepares a table for us right there, offering peace and he simply says, “come and sit with me.”

As you set the table for your families tonight, let’s remember that God has already prepared a place for us at his table. He sees our needs and fills our empty places. If you’re weary or feeling defeated, take a moment, read Psalm 23, and ask God to show you his table. He’s there to satisfy your soul.

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Welcome back to the kitchen table. Helping our children with laundry and getting them dressed is a daily ritual, often filled with the same simple motions—helping them put on new clothes, changing out of the old, and making sure they’re ready for the day. What seems like a small task can actually reveal something powerful about the gospel and how God interacts with us.

Each moment we help our children get dressed can serve as a small reminder of this spiritual renewal. Just as we care for them in practical ways, God cares for us, clothing us in his love and teaching us to walk in his ways.

By finding God in these small, everyday routines, we allow his presence to shape not only our children but our own hearts. Through the simple task of dressing them, we can be reminded of the gospel’s renewing power—making each day a fresh start.

Anchoring Scriptures:
Colossians 3:9-10
Ephesians 4:22-24

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