Aparigraha, or non-possessiveness, is the practice of releasing attachments—whether to material things, relationships, or limiting beliefs. This episode looks at how decluttering, embracing change, and cultivating gratitude can free us from unnecessary burdens. Aparigraha reminds us that when we let go, we make room for what truly matters. Find me at https://www.eqyoga.co.uk/
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You’re listening to All Things Yoga with Vicky, and today we’re diving into the final Yama—Aparigraha, which means non-possessiveness or non-attachment. This one is such a game-changer, especially in our consumer-driven world. Let’s unpack what it means and how we can bring it into our lives
Traditionally, Aparigraha is about letting go of the need to cling—whether to material things, relationships, or even ideas. In yoga philosophy, the idea is that attachment leads to suffering because nothing in life is permanent.
Let’s start with material possessions. Have you ever held onto something you don’t really use, just because you might need it ‘someday’? Or maybe you’ve felt like you need the latest gadget or fashion trend to be happy? Aparigraha invites us to ask: Do I really need this? Will it truly bring me joy, or is it just adding clutter to my life?
One way to practice Aparigraha is by decluttering your space. For example, take a look at your wardrobe. Are there clothes you haven’t worn in years? Letting go of those items can feel freeing—not just physically but emotionally too.
But Aparigraha isn’t just about physical stuff. It’s also about emotional attachment. Have you ever clung to a relationship or situation that wasn’t serving you, just because it felt familiar or safe? Practicing Aparigraha might mean letting go of that attachment and trusting that something better will come along.
And then there are the mental attachments. Are there beliefs or ideas you’re holding onto that no longer serve you? For example, the belief that you have to be perfect, or that success looks a certain way. Aparigraha asks us to let go of those limiting thoughts and make space for growth.
In modern life, Aparigraha can even apply to time. Are you hoarding your time, afraid to share it with others, or overcommitting because you feel like you ‘should’? Learning to say no and prioritize what really matters is a form of non-possessiveness.
And here’s a fun twist—Aparigraha can help us enjoy life more. When we stop clinging, we’re free to experience the present moment without worrying about losing it. Think about eating a delicious meal. If you’re worried about the last bite before you’ve even started, you miss the joy of the moment! Aparigraha reminds us to savour what we have, knowing it’s enough.
For me, one of the most powerful ways to practice Aparigraha is through gratitude. When we focus on what we already have, the need to cling to more starts to fade. Whether it’s appreciating your morning coffee, a good book, or the people you love, gratitude shifts your mindset from scarcity to abundance.
So, this week, try practicing Aparigraha. Maybe it’s decluttering your home, letting go of an old grudge, or just being mindful of your attachments. Whatever it looks like, I hope it brings you a sense of freedom. Thanks for joining me as we explored the Yamas, and I’ll see you next time as we dive into the Niyamas!
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