In this empowering episode of The One Seed Podcast, we’re diving into a mindset shift that can transform how you approach life: the “so what” mentality. Many of us find ourselves deeply concerned with what others think, whether those opinions are true or simply made up in our minds. We let this fear hold us back from taking risks, pursuing our dreams, or even showing up authentically. But what if we could release the need for approval and just live?

I start by exploring why humans are so wired to care about others’ opinions and how societal pressures, especially for women, can amplify this anxiety. From worrying about how we look or sound to fearing failure at work or in our personal goals, these thoughts can keep us stuck. But it doesn’t have to be that way.

This episode breaks down the power of the “so what” mentality: letting go of unnecessary worries and embracing the freedom to take action, regardless of what others might think. I share practical steps to adopt this mindset, including how to challenge those limiting beliefs and take bold actions even when the outcome isn’t guaranteed. By reframing failure and seeing it as a natural part of growth, you can start making decisions for you instead of for others’ approval.

You’ll walk away from this episode feeling inspired to take risks, make mistakes, and live a life true to who you are. Remember, the world will always have opinions, but you get to decide if they shape your path—or if you choose to say, “so what” and keep moving forward.

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In today’s episode, I dive into a simple yet profound idea: "We all want to live in the sunshine, but without rain, we cannot grow." It’s natural to seek out life’s sunny moments when everything flows smoothly, and joy feels effortless. But what if the times that feel like “rain”—the challenges, the discomforts, the uncertainties—are just as essential to our growth?

I begin by exploring why we all crave that sunshine feeling and often shy away from the struggles, sometimes even labeling them as setbacks. Society has taught us to avoid hard times, yet these very moments can push us out of our comfort zones and help us evolve into stronger, wiser versions of ourselves. Just like nature needs both sun and rain for plants to thrive, we need our challenges to build resilience, gain perspective, and uncover new parts of ourselves.

In this episode, I look at ways to embrace the rain when it shows up. From reframing discomfort as an opportunity to grow to practicing self-compassion and grounding ourselves during tough times, I’ll share practical ways to navigate life’s storms. By the end of our conversation, you’ll have tools to celebrate both the sunshine and the rain, honoring each as an important part of your personal journey.

Tune in to learn why the rainy seasons are not just necessary but transformative, and how they bring us closer to blooming into our best selves.

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In today’s episode of the One Seed Podcast, I'm diving into the mindset around decision-making and how we can change our perspective to view decisions not as right or wrong, but as steps in the right direction. So often, we feel paralyzed by the pressure to make the “right” choice, fearing failure or judgment if we choose wrong. But what if there was no wrong decision? What if every choice we make is simply guiding us toward personal growth and deeper understanding?

I start by exploring why many of us struggle with the binary thinking of success versus failure when it comes to making decisions. This pressure often leads to indecision and anxiety, preventing us from moving forward in life. But here’s the truth: life isn’t about choosing the perfect path every time. It’s about moving in alignment with where we are right now and trusting that every decision—whether it works out perfectly or not—leads us closer to becoming the person we’re meant to be.

Throughout this episode, I talk about reframing decisions as directional choices. Instead of focusing on making the “right” decision, we can look at how each choice aligns with our current values, goals, and desires. I’ll share personal stories and examples of how even the decisions that didn’t lead to immediate success have shaped me and brought unexpected lessons.

Finally, I wrap up the episode with a reminder: it’s not about perfection. It’s about progress. Every decision you make is part of your journey, guiding you in the right direction, whether the outcome is what you expected or not.

So, the next time you find yourself caught between choices, remember: there are no wrong decisions—only decisions that move you forward.

Tune in to this episode to rethink your approach to decision-making and start trusting the process of growth and self-discovery.

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In this episode, I dive into a thought-provoking conversation about the things in life that are within our control and those that are out of our control. I start by exploring what’s in our control, focusing on self-care and the importance of rest. Personally, rest is my favorite form of self-care, allowing me to recharge and maintain balance. I also touch on how we manage our energy and what we choose to invest it in, highlighting the significance of being intentional with our focus. I share insights into the power of self-talk and how it shapes our mindset, along with the importance of setting boundaries to protect our well-being. All of these aspects are within our control and influence the quality of our lives.

From there, I shift to discussing the things that fall outside of our control. This includes other people's opinions of us and our choices, things that have happened in the past, and the unpredictable nature of our interactions with others. These are factors we cannot change or control, and learning to release them can bring a sense of peace and freedom.

I wrap up the episode by encouraging listeners to take a moment to reflect on one thing they have control over and remind themselves that they’ve got this. Then, I challenge them to identify one thing outside of their control and consciously let go of it. By focusing on what we can control and releasing what we can’t, we can cultivate a more mindful and empowered approach to life.

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In this week's episode, we're diving into the often-overlooked but crucial concept of reflection, especially when it comes to personal growth and life journeys. I offer a visual example of what I imagine my "waiting room" looks like, a concept introduced in last week's episode. I compare it to the passport office, where different steps require waiting, much like the stages of personal growth. Although I'm far along in my own journey, I realized that I hadn’t truly reflected on it until now.

I experienced a major reflection after some significant life events, and I’m proud of how I mentally navigated through them. It was a defining moment for me, especially when I compared it to how Teri 1.0 would have reacted. In the past, I would have let my emotions take control, but this time, I didn’t. That shift in how I handled things filled me with a deep sense of pride.

In this episode, I explore how reflection can be a beautiful tool that reminds us of the work we've done and the growth we've achieved. I encourage you to take a moment to reflect on where you are in your own journey. Often, we move forward without stopping to acknowledge how far we’ve come.

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In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of "the waiting room" — a space we enter when we're doing the hard work of evolving into the better version of ourselves, our 2.0 selves. I explain what this waiting room is and the feelings that can accompany it, from the discomfort and uncertainty to moments of clarity and growth. It's completely normal to experience a range of emotions, both positive and negative, during this time.

I share personal stories, reflecting on feelings of loneliness and heightened anxiety, especially when I made the difficult choice to stop investing energy into friendships that no longer served me. It was like going through a mourning period, saying goodbye to my 1.0 self and the people, habits, and patterns tied to that version. But this mourning is necessary to make space for the 2.0 version of ourselves — a more aligned, purposeful self.

Throughout this process, I revisit my 100% energy theory, which runs as a thread through all my episodes, and also draw on the life garden analogy. Just like in a garden, we must weed out what no longer belongs to nourish the things we want to grow. By doing this, we can step into our 2.0 selves, feeling more grounded and intentional.

This episode serves as a reminder that it's okay to feel a sense of loss and unease in this waiting room, but it's also where the seeds of transformation are planted.

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In today’s solo episode, I explore the powerful concept of embracing yourself as both a masterpiece and a constant work in progress. Building on the 100% Energy Theory, I discuss how this dual mindset can help you better manage your energy by focusing on growth and fulfillment while letting go of the things that no longer serve you.

I begin by acknowledging the duality within all of us. You’ll discover how seeing yourself as complete and valuable in the present moment can coexist with the desire to keep growing and learning. The goal is to shift your mindset so you feel less pressure to be perfect and more empowered to appreciate your current strengths while pursuing future growth.

I explain how adopting a “masterpiece mindset” can conserve energy and foster self-care and how channeling your energy into purposeful growth can prevent burnout and help you progress meaningfully.

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In this episode, I dive into the relentless pressure we feel to manage time efficiently in our fast-paced world. As I celebrate my 41st birthday, a time that naturally brings reflection, I find myself at the start of a new school year—an annual milestone that has always felt like a personal New Year to me. This season prompts me to look back on the summer and think about all the things I wanted to do but didn’t quite get to, which often leaves me feeling like I’ve fallen short. These missed opportunities aren’t just about the activities themselves; they tie into a much larger societal pressure surrounding age and time that I’ve felt deeply throughout my life.

I share my journey of once thriving on the praise of being "so busy" and juggling everything, only to realize that this mindset was taking a significant emotional toll on my well-being. I used to love hearing people say, "OMG, you are so busy, how do you do it all?" because it made me feel accomplished and validated. But over time, I’ve come to understand that societal expectations around age and productivity have had a lasting impact on me, leading to feelings of inadequacy and a constant sense that there's never enough time or that I'm not using it wisely. This pressure has followed me well into adulthood, and I’m now actively working to change my relationship with time.

In this episode, I talk about the shift from valuing busyness to striving for balance. I explore how I’m trying to break free from the vortex of time by focusing on quality over quantity, and how I’m learning to embrace the present moment without the constant rush. I also share practical strategies and mindset shifts that are helping me combat the anxiety of feeling like there’s never enough time. My hope is that by opening up about my experience, others might reflect on how societal pressures around time are affecting them and consider ways to reclaim their peace.

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